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A. F. Morrison
THE USE OF LIFE
THE USE OF LIFE
BY
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THE RIGHT HON.
SIK JOHN LUBBOCK, BAKT., M.P
F.R.S., D.C.L., LL.D.
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MACMILLAN AND CO.
AND LONDON
1895
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CONTENTS
CHAPTER I
THE GREAT QUESTION ....
CHAPTER II
TACT 23
CHAPTER HI
ON MONEY MATTERS 41
CHAPTER IV
RECREATION . . 62
CHAPTER V
HEALTH . 78
CHAPTER VI
NATIONAL EDUCATION . . ... 94
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CHAPTER VH
PAGE
SELF-EDUCATION Ill
CHAPTER VIII
ON LIBRARIES ... . . . . 127
CHAPTER IX
ON READING . . . . . . . .139
CHAPTER X
PATRIOTISM . . . 150
CHAPTER XI
CITIZENSHIP . . . . . . . . 168
CHAPTER XII
SOCIAL LIFE 188
CHAPTER XIII
INDUSTRY 209
CHAPTER XIV
FAITH 228
CONTENTS Vll
CHAPTER XV
PAGE
241
HOPE . . «
CHAPTER XVI
CHARITY . ... . , • « • • 253
CHAPTER XVII
CHARACTER . . 264
CHAPTER XVIII
ON PEACE AND HAPPINESS 281
CHAPTER XIX
RELIGION 297
CHAPTER I
THE GREAT QUESTION
THE most important thing to learn in life,
is how to live. There is nothing men are so
anxious to keep as life, and nothing they take
so little pains to keep well.
This is no simple matter. " Life," said
Hippocrates, at the commencement of his
medical Aphorisms, " Life is short, Art is
long, Opportunity fleeting, Experiment un-
certain, and Judgment difficult."
Happiness and success in life do not de-
pend on our circumstances, but on ourselves.
"More men have ruined themselves than have
ever been destroyed by others : more houses
and cities have perished at the hands of man,
than storms or earthquakes have ever de-
stroyed." There are two sorts of ruin; one
is the work of time, the other of men.
2 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Of , all, irtuiofi/ftitie ruin of Man is the sad-
de^tj, (<ajad, -a, Man's worst enemy, as Seneca
saidi, is iKe one, m ihe breast. " Many men/'
says La Bruyere, "spend much of their time
in making the rest miserable." In too many
cases "lusty blood in youth hath attempted
those things which akyng bones repented in
age," l for " what is past and done, Clotho
cannot weave again, nor Atropos recall." 2
Men love themselves, not wisely but too
well.
I am sometimes accused of being opti-
mistic. But I have never ignored or denied
the troubles and sorrows of life : I have
never said that men are happy, only that
they might be ; that if they are not so, the
fault is generally their own : that most of us
throw away more happiness than we enjoy.
This makes it all the more melancholy.
" For of all sad words of tongue or pen,
The saddest are these : it might have been." 3
In many cases what we call evil is good
misapplied, or carried to excess. A wheel, or
1 Lilly. 2 Lucian. 3 Whittier.
I THE GREAT QUESTION 3
even a cog, out of place throws the whole
machinery out of gear, and if we place our-
selves out of harmony with the constitution
of the universe we must expect to suffer ac-
cordingly. Courage in excess becomes fool-
hardiness, affection weakness, thrift avarice.
It is proverbial that what is one man's meat
is another man's poison. No one has ever
been able to show that any change in the laws
of Nature would be for the better. A man
falls and breaks his leg, but no change in the
law of gravity would be an improvement.
The Persians^ attributed happiness to Or-
muzd, the Spirit of Good, and misfortune to
Ahriman, the Demon of Evil. But in reality
we bring the troubles of life on ourselves by
our own errors — errors in both senses, by
doing what we know all the time to be wrong;
but also, and perhaps almost as much, by our
mistakes. So far as the first class of errors
are concerned, we have implanted in us an
infallible guide. If we do wrong it is with
our eyes open ; for if they are not open, un-
less indeed we have wilfully shut them, we
may act unwisely, but it is not sin.
4 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
As regards the second class of errors, we
must trust to reason ; to that of parents, of
elders, of friends : to our education and to
ourselves. Indeed our education is part of
ourselves ; we have all at any rate one pupil
whom we must teach and educate.
What we teach ourselves, becomes much
more a part of our being than what we learn
from others. Education does not end when
we leave school ; it has indeed scarcely begun.
It goes on through life. " How well it would
be," said Seneca, " if men would but exercise
their brains, as they do their bodies, and take
as much pains for virtue as they do for
pleasure."
Some races are indeed fatalists. Every-
thing in their view is ordained, and what
will happen must happen, whether they will
or no. Man they regard as an automaton,
the mere plaything of a superior power. The
first point then to be considered is whether
there is or is not a Science of Life. Can we
steer our ship over the Ocean of Time, or are
we condemned to drift ? " Man is man, and
master of his fate," or if he is not, the fault
I THE GREAT QUESTION 5
lies at his own door. " What you wish to be,
that you are ; for such is the force of our will,
joined to the Supreme, that whatever we
wish to be, seriously, and with a true inten-
tion, that we become." l
If then we have this power over our destiny
it becomes of the utmost importance to ask our-
selves what we wish to be, and how we can make
the most of the rich estate of Life. Some men
have a purpose in life, and some have none . Our
first object should be to make the most and best
of ourselves. " The aim of every man," said
Humboldt, shall be to secure " the highest and
most harmonious development of his powers
to a complete and consistent whole ; " to quote
Jean Paul Richter again, " to make as much
out of oneself as could be made out of the
stuff." We must not, however, attempt this
merely with a selfish object, or we are fore-
doomed to failure. " No man's private fort-
une," as Bacon said, " can be an end any way
worthy of his existence." The best and great-
est minds — Plato and Aristotle, Buddha and
St. Paul — would never have been content
1 Jean Paul Richter.
6 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
to perfect themselves merely for them-
selves.
I will assume then that we are to make the
best of ourselves for the sake of others ; and
let me at once point out what an interesting
task we have in that case set before us. The
well-known Greek maxim yv&Qi veavrov points
to the importance as well as the difficulty of
knowing ourselves. Montaigne says in his
quaint way, " Je n'ai vue monstre ou miracle
au monde plus expres que moi mesme ; " and
Sir T. Browne, whose life was as little event-
ful or exciting as a life could well be, assures
us that to himself it seemed " a miracle of
thirty years which to relate were not history
but a piece of poetry, and would sound like a
fable."
To offer advice has proved a somewhat
thankless task from the days of Rehoboam to
those of Lord Chesterfield ; nor do I forget
the sad fate of the New Zealand Convert of
whom his chief told the missionary that " he
gave us so much advice that at last we put
him to death." Yet those who will not ac-
cept " counsel at first hand cheap, will buy re-
i THE GREAT QUESTION 7
pentance at second hand dear." My object
then is to make some suggestions, in their
own interest, to those who wish to be, and to
do, something ; to make the most of them-
selves and of their lives.
It is sad, indeed, to see how man wastes
his opportunities. How many could be made
happy, with the blessings which are recklessly
wasted or thrown away !
Take care that your pleasures are real and
not imaginary. We do many things because
they are called pleasure, which we should
hate if they went by any other name. Many
people think they are having pleasure, merely
because they are doing nothing useful. Others
seem to use the word as if it applied only to
the senses, while, on the contrary, the pleas-
ures of the mind are both more exquisite and
more lasting.
We neglect, or recklessly injure, the only
body we have, and on the health of which
that of the mind so greatly depends ; we do
not derive half the enjoyment we might from
works of Art ; I wonder what proportion of
i Lilly.
8 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
our people in London have ever been to the
National Gallery ? we do not train ourselves
to appreciate the interests of Science ; how
many have been to the British Museum ? or
have trained themselves to appreciate it ; we
do not enjoy the beauties of the Earth on
which we live, or of the Sky over our heads ;
we make perhaps more use of music, though
much less than we might ; we boast that,
while Animals have instinct only, Man is a
reasoning Being, and yet how little our
boasted intellect has added to the happiness
of Mankind. It might even be doubted, it
has indeed been questioned by Cynics, whether,
on the whole, the possession of a mind has
not been a " damnosa hereditas," a source of
suffering rather than of enjoyment. Animals
do not distress themselves, and we do. " Man
disquieteth himself in a vain shadow." We
torment ourselves with doubts and fears,
cares and anxieties. Mystery encompasseth
us on all sides, but we must not be impatient
at it.
Yet though we need riot be anxious, we
must be on our guard. We must be watch-
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ful even in matters where we fancy ourselves
least liable to err. " There is, I believe,"
says Lord Chesterfield, "more judgment re-
quired for the proper conduct of our virtues,
than for avoiding their opposite vices. Vice
in its true light is so deformed, that it shocks
us at first sight, and would hardly ever seduce
us if it did not, at first, wear the mask of
some virtue." We have all met persons,
who, with much that is good, have allowed
themselves to be seduced into uncharitableness
and hardness of heart. Lord Palmerston once
brought on himself some theological criticism,
by asserting that all children were born good,
but at any rate, it really takes some trouble
before any one becomes altogether wicked.
" In the vicious ways of the world, it merci-
fully f alleth out that we become not extempore
wicked, but it taketh some time and pains to
undo ourselves. We fall not from virtue, like
Vulcan from heaven, in a day." l
And if we turn from the individual to the
race, is not the neglect of our advantages even
more startling? Mankind may still confess
1 Sir T. Browne.
10 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
with Newton, that we are but as children play-
ing on the seashore, and gathering here and
there a prettier shell or a more delicate sea-
weed than usual, while the great ocean of
truth lies all undiscovered before us. There
is no single substance, the full uses and prop-
erties of which are yet known to us : we
labour from morning to night ; and yet if we
could but avail ourselves more fully of the
properties of matter and the forces of nature,
it is probable that an hour or two would fully
supply all our bodily and reasonable wants,
and leave us ample time for the cultivation of
the mind and the affections. Steam is not
even yet fully utilised : the uses of electricity
were unknown in our childhood, and we are
only now beginning to understand them ; the
force of rivers still runs in the main to waste.
What terrible sufferings might have been
avoided if Anaesthetics had been sooner dis-
covered ! It would require a volume to com-
plete the illustrations which might be given.
No one can doubt that a thousand other dis-
coveries lie before us, even perhaps under our
very eyes. Is it not then astonishing that the
i THE GREAT QUESTION 11
so-called Christian nations, waste, and worse
than waste, millions of money to ruin one
another, and fight like beasts for territory,
" while the great ocean of truth lies undis-
covered before them " ? 1
In the last generation we were content to let-
many of our children grow up without know-
ing how to read and write. Even now, we
hear some persons deprecate " over-education,"
though, to do them justice, what in most cases
they really mean, is an education out of rela-
tion to the daily life. Some there still are,
who grudge the expense, not perceiving that
Ignorance costs more than Education. But if
our children have now nearly all some educa-
tion, it may well be doubted, though I will not
here enter into the question, whether we have
yet adopted the most suitable system. I will
only say that we seem to have unduly neg-
lected moral education in our schools, and one
result has been a very common theory, that if
you break some of the commandments you
will no doubt be doing very wrong, and will
probably make others miserable, but you will,
1 Newton.
12 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
at least in this life, add to your own happiness
and be yourself the better off : that self-in-
dulgence, avarice, intemperance, idleness, and
other " pleasant vices " may be unjustifiable,
but would be for one's own benefit though at
the expense of others ; that a life of ease and
pleasure is what every one, if he thought only
of himself, would naturally desire ; and that
to be good and virtuous, however right and
noble, involves much self-denial even of inno-
cent amusements, and taken as a whole, is a
life of self-sacrifice.
" Alas ! what boots it with incessant care
To tend the homely slighted shepherd's trade,
And strictly meditate the thankless muse ?
Were it not better done, as others use,
To sport with Amaryllis in the shade,
Or with the tangles of Neaera's hair ? " 1
The very reverse is the truth. So far from
its being the privilege of vice to be without
restraint and confinement, the evil man is, on
the contrary, a slave to the worst of masters,
— his own passions.
So, again, some young men have an idea
1 Milton.
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that there is something u manly" in vice.
But any weak fool can be vicious. To be
virtuous you must be a man ; to be virtuous
is to be truly free ; vice is the real slavery.
A particular course of conduct does not de-
grade because it is wrong ; it is wrong because
it degrades. If by some extraordinary sub-
version of morals, wrong became right, it
would still be fatal to happiness and peace
of mind.
I will not quote any theologian in support
of the thesis that sin and sorrow are insepa-
rable, but on such a point will rather rely on
the evidence of a consummate man of the
world, Lord Chesterfield, who in one of his
letters to his son after some other wise advice,
concludes by saying, " Such are the rewards
that always crown virtue, and such the char-
acters that you should imitate, if you would
be a great and good man, which is the only
way to be a happy one."
Descartes embodied his rules for practical
life in four maxims : one to submit himself to
the laws and religion in which he was brought
up ; another, to act on all those occasions
14 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
which call for action promptly and according
to the best of his judgment, and to abide the
result without repining; the third, to seek
happiness in limiting the desires, rather than
in attempting to satisfy them ; while the last
is to make the search after truth the business
of his life.
Lilly, in his once very popular Euphues,
thus sums up his counsel : "Go to bed with
the Lam.be, and rise with the Larke ; be merry,
but with modesty ; be sober, but not too sullen ;
be valiant, but not too venturous; let your
attire be comely ; your diet wholesome, but
not excessive ; thy pastime as the word im-
porteth, to pass the time in honest recreation ;
mistrust no man without cause, neither be
credulous without proof ; be not light to fol-
low every man's opinion, neither obstinate to
stand in your own conceits; serve God, fear
God, love God, and God will bless you, as
either your hearts can wish, or your friends
desire."
Nor is it only the thoughtless, the selfish,
the wicked, who in the unscrupulous pursuit
of what they suppose to be their own interests,
i THE GREAT QUESTION 15
make both themselves and others miserable.
It must be admitted that many worthy people,
and many good books, with no doubt the best
intentions, fall into, what is in essence, a very
similar error. They have represented a life
of sin as a life of pleasure ; they have pictured
virtue as self-sacrifice, austerity as religion.
The Inquisition was of course an extreme
case ; many of the Inquisitors were, I doubt
not, excellent people, kind and even merciful
in their nature, but they entirely mistook the
very essence of Christianity. Even in every-
day life we meet with worthy people who
seem to think that whatever is pleasant must
be wrong, that the true spirit of religion is
crabbed, sour, and gloomy ; that the bright,
sunny, radiant nature which surrounds us is
an evil and not a blessing ; a temptation
devised by the Spirit of Evil and not one of
the greatest delights showered on us in such
profusion by the Author of all Good.
Cowper in two beautiful lines has told us
that
" The path of sorrow, and that path alone,
Leads to the land where sorrow is unknown."
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CHAP.
It is no doubt true that we cannot go
through life without sorrow. Even apart
from the griefs which the limits of life bring
on us all inevitably in the loss of those we
love, our existence here is so complex, the
world is still so young, we are as yet so far
from comprehending the necessities of our
own existence, the nature and properties of
the substances and forces which surround us,
that we must expect much sorrow and suffer-
ing. But Cowper asserts that the path of
sorrow, and that path "alone," leads to
heaven, so that a happy life here must in-
evitably involve misery hereafter. That en-
tirely erroneous idea has caused much anxiety,
trouble, and self-questioning to many anxious
souls. Many a bright young nature has suf-
fered pangs of self-reproach, and tormented
itself merely on account of its own happiness,
whereas it should be thankful for such a gift,
and feel that it has the inestimable privilege
of brightening the path of others who from
sorrow or ill-health have no longer in them-
selves the same well-spring of joy and sun-
shine. Cowper was very far indeed from
i THE GREAT QUESTION 17
being a Puritan, yet is not his teaching tinged
with the spirit of those, who, as Macaulay
tells us, objected to bear-baiting, not because
it caused pain to the bear, but because it gave
pleasure to the spectators ?
Many people distress and torment them-
selves about the mystery of existence. Yet
" a good man and a wise man may at times
be angry with the world, at times grieve for
it ; but be sure no man was ever discontented
with the world who did his duty in it." 1
" The riddle of the world is understood
Only by him who feels that God is good." 2
There is no duty, said Seneca, " the fulfil-
ment of which will not make us happier, nor
any temptation for which there is no remedy."
Accuse not Nature, says Milton,
" She hath done her part, do thou but thine."
We may be sure that the Creator would not
have made all Nature beauty to the eye, and
music to the ear, if we had not been meant
to enjoy it thoroughly, and " it is almost im-
possible to estimate what peace a man brings
1 Southey. 2 Whittier.
18 THE USE OF LIFE
CHAP.
to others, and what joy to himself by manag-
ing himself aright." 1
If this age be, as in many respects I think
it is, the most wonderful, interesting, and en-
lightened the world has ever seen, that is our
good fortune, not our own doing ; it is some-
thing, not to be proud of, but to be thankful
for.
While, however, we should be grateful, and
enjoy to the full the innumerable blessings of
life, we cannot expect to have no sorrows or
anxieties. Life has been described by Wai-
pole as "a comedy to those who think, a
tragedy to those who feel." It is indeed a
tragedy at times and a comedy very often,
but as a rule it is what we choose to make it.
No evil, said Socrates, " can happen to a good
man, either in Life or Death," and certainly
the Prophets of Hope have been justified
much more often than the Prophets of Evil ;
but we are too apt to let years of happiness
pass unnoticed, while we count every moment
of sorrow or pain.
We cannot always expect to succeed ; even
1 Imitation of Christ.
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Nature fails at times. But "lift not up
thyself with arrogance in thy health and
prosperity ; nor despair of good in any
adversity."
A well-known passage in the Bible tells us
that " wide is the gate, and broad is the way,
that leadeth to destruction, and many there
be which go in thereat : because strait is the
gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth
unto life, and few there be that find it."
But this I think is often misapplied. We
are not told that the right way is more rough
and painful ; only that it is narrow, and not
easy to find. No doubt there is but one right
road, with by-paths diverging on all sides.
A ship at sea has only one true course ; all
the other points of the compass would lead
her away from " the haven where she would
be." But it does not follow that the right
course is more rough or stormy than any
other.
Of course it cannot be denied that what is
wrong or unwise is often very pleasant, some-
times even delightful, for the moment. To
1 King Alfred's trans, of Boethius.
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do so would be absurd ; it would be to ques-
tion the very existence of temptation. All I
wish to show is, that in yielding to such im-
pulses we are buying a momentary pleasure
at the expense of future sorrow ; that we are
giving up a great deal for the sake of compar-
atively trivial gain ; that we are selling our
birthright, like Esau, for a mess of pottage ;
and " buying the merry madness of an hour,
by the long penitence of after years." In
fact, it is not going too far to say, and I am
speaking now only of this life, that if we wish
to be happy we must try to be good.
Prosperity and happiness do not by any
means always go together, and many people
are miserable who have, as it would seem,
everything to make them happy. " Fortune
can give much, but it must be the mind that
makes that much enough." l
" My mind to me a Kingdom is,
Such present joys therein I find." 2
"It is not," said Vauvenargues, "in every
one's power to secure wealth, office, or hon-
ours ; but every one may be good, generous,
i Boyle. 2 Dyer.
i THE GREAT QUESTION 21
and wise." The true wealth does not consist
in what we have, but in what we are ; and
the advantages which we enjoy entail corre-
sponding responsibilities." The present state,
says St. Chrysostom, " is merely a theatrical
show, the business of man a play ; wealth and
poverty, the ruler and the ruled, and such like
things, are theatrical representations. But
when this day shall have passed, then the
theatre will be closed and the masks thrown
off. Then each one shall be tried, and his
works ; not each one and his wealth, not each
one and his office, not each one and his dig-
nity, not each one and his power, but each
one and his works." Let us hope that our
works will stand the test.
And what will the test be ? Not how much
we have done, but how much we have tried.
Not whether we have been what is called suc-
cessful in life, but whether we have deserved
to be so.
" How happy he is born and taught
That serveth not another's will ;
Whose armour is his honest thought;
And simple truth his utmost skill." 1
1 Wotton.
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In fact, the wise and virtuous life, not the
wicked and self-indulgent, will be the truly
happy life, and sin is the real self-sacrifice.
" My son," says Solomon,1
" My son, forget not my law ;
But let thine heart keep my commandments :
For length of days, and long life,
And peace, shall they add to thee."
1 Proverbs.
CHAPTER II
TACT
FOR success in life tact is more important
than talent, but it is not easily acquired by
those to whom it does not come naturally.
Still something can be done by considering
what others would probably wish.
Never lose a chance of giving pleasure.
Be courteous to all. " Civility," said Lady
Montague, "costs nothing and buys every-
thing." It buys much, indeed, which no
money will purchase. Try then to win
every one you meet. "Win their hearts,"
said Burleigh to Queen Elizabeth, " and you
have all men's hearts and purses."
Tact often succeeds where force fails. Lilly
quotes the old fable of the Sun and the Wind :
" It is pretily noted of a contention betweene
the Winde and the Sunne, who should
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24 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
have the victorye. A Gentleman walking
abroad, the \Yinde thought to blowe off his
cloake, which with great blastes and bluster-
ings striuing to vnloose it, made it to stick
faster to his backe, for the more the Winde
encreased the closer his cloake clapt to his
body : then the Sunne, shining with his hot
beams, began to warm this gentleman, who
waxing somewhat faint in this faire weather,
did not only put off his cloake but his coate,
which the Wynde perceiuing, yeelded the con-
quest to the Sunne."
Always remember that men are more easily
led than driven, and that in any case it is
better to guide than to coerce.
" What thou wilt
Thou rather shalt enforce it with thy smile,
Than hew to't with thy sword." l
It is a good rule in politics, " pas trop
gouverner."
Try to win, and still more to deserve, the
confidence of those with whom you are
brought in contact. Many a man has owed
ii TACT 25
his influence far more to character than to
ability. Sydney Smith used to say of Francis
Homer, who, without holding any high office,
exercised a remarkable personal influence in
the Councils of the Nation, that he had the
Ten Commandments stamped upon his coun-
tenance.
Try to meet the wishes of others as far as
you rightly and wisely can ; but do not be
afraid to say "No."
Anybody can say " Yes," though it is not
every one who can say " Yes " pleasantly ;
but it is far more difficult to say " No."
Many a man has been ruined because he
could not do so. Plutarch tells us that the
inhabitants of Asia Minor came to be vassals
only for not having been able to pronounce
one syllable, which is "No." And if in the
Conduct of Life it is essential to say "No," it
is scarcely less necessary to be able to say it
pleasantly. We ought always to endeavour
that everybody with whom we have any
transactions should feel that it is a pleasure
to do business with us and should wish to
come again. Business is a matter of senti-
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ment and feeling far more than many sup-
pose ; every one likes being treated with
kindness and courtesy, and a frank pleasant
manner will often clench a bargain more
effectually than a half per cent.
Almost any one may make himself pleas-
ant if he wishes. " The desire of pleasing is
at least half the art of doing it : " 1 and, on
the other hand, no one will please others who
does not desire to do so. If you do riot ac-
quire this great gift while you are young,
you will find it much more difficult after-
wards. Many a man has owed his outward
success in life far more to good manners than
to any solid merit ; while, on the other hand,
many a worthy man, with a good heart and
kind intentions, makes enemies merely by
the roughness of his manner. To be able
to please is, moreover, itself a great pleas-
ure. Try it, and you will not be disap-
pointed.
Be wary and keep cool. A cool head is as
necessary as a warm heart. In any negotia-
tions, steadiness and coolness are invaluable ;
1 Chesterfield's Letters.
ii TACT 27
while they will often carry you in safety
through times of danger and difficulty.
If you come across others less clever than
you are, you have no right to look down on
them. There is nothing more to be proud of
in inheriting great ability, than a great estate.
The only credit in either case is if they are
used well. Moreover, many a man is much
cleverer than he seems. It is far more easy to
read books than men. In this the eyes are a
great guide. " When the eyes say one thing
and the tongue another, a practised man
relies on the language of the first." 1
Do not trust too much to professions of
extreme goodwill. Men do not fall in love
with men, nor women with women, at first
sight. If a comparative stranger protests
and promises too much, do not place implicit
confidence in what he says. If not insincere,
he probably says more than he means, and
perhaps wants something himself from you.
Do not therefore believe that every one is a
friend, merely because he professes to be so ;
nor assume too lightly that any one is an
enemy.
1 Emerson.
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We flatter ourselves by claiming to be
rational and intellectual beings, but it would
be a great mistake to suppose that men are
always guided by reason. We are strange
inconsistent creatures, and we act quite as
often, perhaps oftener, from prejudice or pas-
sion. The result is that you are more likely
to carry men with you by enlisting their feel-
ings, than by convincing their reason. This
applies, moreover, to companies of men even
more than to individuals.
Argument is always a little dangerous. It
often leads to coolness and misunderstand-
ings. You may gain your argument and lose
your friend, which is probably a bad bargain.
If you must argue admit, all you can, but
try and show that some point has been over-
looked. Very few people know when they
have had the worst of an argument, and if
they do, they do not like it. Moreover, if
they know they are beaten, it does not fol-
low that they are convinced. Indeed it is
perhaps hardly going too far to say that it
is very little use trying to convince any one
by argument. State your case as clearly
ii TACT 29
and concisely as possible, and if you shake
his confidence in his own opinion it is as
much as you can expect. It is the first step
gained.
Conversation is an art in itself, and it is by
no means those who have most to tell who
are the best talkers ; though it is certainly
going too far to say with Lord Chesterfield
that "there are very few Captains of Foot
who are not much better company than ever
were Descartes or Sir Isaac Newton."
I will not say that it is as difficult to be a
good listener as a good talker, but it is cer-
tainly by no means easy, and very nearly as
important. You must not receive everything
that is said as a critic or a judge, but sus-
pend your judgment, and try to enter into
the feelings of the speaker. If you are kind
and sympathetic your advice will be often
sought, and you will have the satisfaction of
feeling that you have been a help and com-
fort to many in distress and trouble.
Do not expect too much attention when
you are young. Sit, listen, and look on.
Bystanders proverbially see most of the
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game; and you can notice what is going on
just as well, if not better, when you are not
noticed yourself. It is almost as if you
possessed a cap of invisibility.
To save themselves the trouble of thinking,
which is to most people very irksome, men
will often take you at your own valuation.
" On ne vaut dans ce monde," says La
Bruyere, " que ce que Ton veut valoir."
Do not make enemies for yourself ; you can
make nothing worse.
"Answer not a fool according to his folly,
Lest thou also be like unto him." l
Remember that "a soft answer turneth away
wrath"; but even an angry answer is less
foolish than a sneer : nine men out of ten
would rather be abused, or even injured, than
laughed at. They will forget almost anything
sooner than being made ridiculous.
" It is pleasanter to be deceived than to be
undeceived." Trasilaus, an Athenian, went
mad, and thought that all the ships in the
Piraeus belonged to him, but having been
cured by Crito, he complained bitterly that he
1 Proverbs.
n TACT 81
had been robbed. It is folly, says Lord Ches-
terfield, " to lose a friend for a jest : but, in my
mind, it is not a much less degree of folly, to
make an enemy of an indifferent and neutral
person for the sake of a bon-mot."
Do. not be too ready to suspect a slight, or
think you are being laughed at — to say with
Scrub in the Strategem, " I am sure they
talked of me, for they laughed consumedly."
On the other hand, if you are laughed at, try
to rise above it. If you can join in heartily,
you will turn the tables and gain rather than
lose. Every one likes a man who can enjoy a
laugh at his own expense — and justly so, for
it shows good-humour and good-sense. If you
laugh at yourself, other people will not laugh
at you.
Have the courage of your opinions. You
must expect to be laughed at sometimes, and
it will do you no harm. There is nothing
ridiculous in seeming to be what you really
are, but a good deal in affecting to be what
you are not. People often distress themselves,
get angry, and drift into a coolness with
others, for some quite imaginary grievance.
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Be frank, and yet reserved. Do not talk
much about yourself ; neither of yourself, for
yourself, nor against yourself : but let other
people talk about themselves, as much as they
will. If they do so it is because they like it,
and they will think all the better of you for
listening to them. At any rate do not show
a man, unless it is your duty, that you think
he is a fool or a blockhead. If you do, he has
good reason to complain. You may be wrong
in your judgment ; he will, and with some
justice, form the same opinion of you.
Burke once said that he could not draw an
indictment against a nation, and it is very
unwise as well as unjust to attack any class
or profession. Individuals often forget and
forgive, but Societies never do. Moreover,
even individuals will forgive an injury much
more readily than an insult. Nothing rankles
so much as being made ridiculous. You
will never gain your object by putting people
out of humour, or making them look ridicu-
lous..
Goethe in his Conversations with JEcker-
mann commended our countrymen. Their
ir TACT 33
entrance and bearing in Society, he said,
were so confident and quiet that one would
think they were everywhere the masters, and
the whole world belonged to them. Ecker-
mann replied that surely young Englishmen
were no cleverer, better educated, or better
hearted than young Germans. " That is not
the point," said Goethe; "their superiority
does not lie in such things, neither does it lie
in their birth and fortune : it lies precisely in
their having the courage to be what nature
made them. There is no half ness about them.
They are complete men. Sometimes complete
fools also, that I heartily admit ; but even
that is something, and has its weight."
In any business or negotiations, be patient.
Many a man would rather you heard his story
than granted his request : many an opponent
has been tired out.
Above all, never lose your temper, and if
you do, at any rate hold your tongue, and try
not to show it.
" Cease from anger, and forsake wrath :
Fret not thyself in any wise to do evil." -1
1 Psalms.
34 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
For
" A soft answer turneth away wrath :
But grievous words stir up anger." l
Never intrude where you are not wanted.
There is plenty of room elsewhere. " Have
I not three kingdoms?" said King James to
the Fly, " and yet thou must needs fly in my
eye."2
Some people seem to have a knack of saying
the wrong thing, of alluding to any subject
which revives sad memories, or rouses differ-
ences of opinion.
No branch of Science is more useful than the
knowledge of Men. It is of the utmost im-
portance to be able to decide wisely, not only
to know whom you can trust, and whom you
cannot, but how far, and in what, you can
trust them. This is by no means easy. It is
most important to choose well those who are
to work with you, and under you ; to put the
square man in the square hole, and the round
man hi the round hole.
" If you suspect a man, do not employ him :
if you employ him, do not suspect him." 3
1 Proverbs. 2 Selden's Table Talk. 3 Confucius.
it TACT 35
Those who trust are oftener right than those
who mistrust.
Confidence should be complete, but not
blind. Merlin lost his life, wise as he was,
for imprudently yielding to Vivien's appeal
to trust her " all in all or not at all."
Be always discreet. Keep your own coun-
sel. If you do not keep it for yourself, you
cannot expect others to keep it for you. " The
mouth of a wise man is in his heart ; the heart
of a fool is in his mouth, for what he know-
eth or thinketh he uttereth."
Use your head. Consult your reason. It
is not infallible, but you will be less likely to
err if you do so.
Speech is, or ought to be silvern, but silence
is golden.
Many people talk, not because they have
anything to say, but for the mere love of talk-
ing. Talking should be an exercise of the
brain, rather than of the tongue. Talkative-
ness, the love of talking for talk ing's sake, is
almost fatal to success. Men are " plainly
hurried on, in the heat of their talk, to say
quite different things from what they first
36 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
intended, and which they afterwards wish
unsaid : or improper things, which they had
no other end in saying, but only to find em-
ployment to their tongue.
And this unrestrained volubility and wanton-
ness in speech is the occasion of numberless
evils and vexations in life. It begets resent-
ment in him who is the subject of it ; sows the
seed of strife and dissension amongst others ;
and inflames little disgusts and offences, which,
if let alone, would wear away of themselves." 1
" C'est une grande misere," says La Bru-
yere, " que de n'avoir pas assez d'esprit pour
bien parler, ni assez de jugement pour se
taire." Plutarch tells a story of Demaratus,
that being asked in a certain assembly
whether he held his tongue because he was a
fool, or for want of words, he replied, " A fool
cannot hold his tongue." " Seest thou," said
Solomon,
" Seest thou a man that is hasty in his words ?
There is more hope of a fool than of him." 2
1 Dr. Butler's Sermons. 2 Proverbs xxix. 20.
ii TACT 37
Never try to show your own superiority :
few things annoy people more than being
made to feel small.
Do not be too positive in your statements.
You may be wrong, however sure you feel.
Memory plays us curious tricks, and both ears
and eyes are sometimes deceived. Our pre-
judices, even the most cherished, may have no
secure foundation. Moreover, even if you are
right, you will lose nothing by disclaiming
too great certainty.
In action, again, never make too sure, and
never throw away a chance. " There's many
a slip 'twixt the cup and the lip."
It has been said that everything comes to
those who know how to wait ; and when the
opportunity does come, seize it.
"He that wills not, when he may;
When he will, he shall have nay."
If you once let your opportunity go, you
may never have another.
" There is a tide in the affairs of men,
Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune :
Omitted, all the voyage of their life
Is bound in shallows and in miseries.
38 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
On such a full sea are we now afloat :
And we must take the current when it serves,
Or lose our venture." l
Be cautious, but not over-cautious ; do not
be too much afraid of making a mistake ; " a
man who never makes a mistake, will make
nothing."
Always dress neatly : we must dress, there-
fore we should do it well, though not too
well ; not extravagantly, either in time or
money, but taking care to have good mate-
rials. It is astonishing how much people
judge by dress. Of those you come across,
many go mainly by appearances in any case,
and many more have in your case nothing
but appearances to go by. The eyes and ears
open the heart, and a hundred people will see,
for one who will know you. Moreover, if
you are careless and untidy about yourself, it
is a fair, though not absolute, conclusion that
you will be careless about other things also.
When you are in Society study those who
have the best and pleasantest manners.
"Manner," says the old proverb with much
1 Shakespeare.
ii TACT 39
truth, if with some exaggeration, "maketh
Man," and " a pleasing figure is a perpetual
letter of recommendation."1 "Merit and
knowledge will not gain hearts, though they
will secure them when gained. Engage the
eyes by your address, air, and motions ; soothe
the ears by the elegance and harmony of your
diction ; and the heart will certainly (I
should rather say probably) follow." : Every
one has eyes and ears, but few have a sound
judgment. The world is a stage. We are
all players, and every one knows how much
the success of a piece depends upon the way
it is acted.
Lord Chesterfield, speaking of his son, says,
"They tell me he is loved wherever he is
known, and I am very glad of it ; but I would
have him be liked before he is known, and
loved afterwards. . . . You know very little of
the nature of mankind, if you take those things
to be of little consequence ; one cannot be too
attentive to them ; it is they that always en-
gage the heart, of which the understanding is
commonly the bubble."
1 Bacon. 2 Lord Chesterfield.
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The Graces help a man in life almost as
much as the Muses. We all know that " one
man may steal a horse, while another may
not look over a hedge " ; and why ? because
the one will do it pleasantly, the other
disagreeably. Horace tells us that even
Youth and Mercury, the God of Eloquence
and of the Arts, were powerless without the
Graces.
CHAPTER III
ON MONEY MATTERS
ECONOMY is not, I fear, sufficiently appre-
ciated in England. Our countrymen work
hard and make good incomes, but other
nations excel us in thrift. " It's what thee'll
spend, my son," said a wise old Quaker, "not
what thee'll make, which will decide whether
thee's to be rich or not." The very word
"thrift" tells its own tale, being derived
from the word " to thrive."
Apart from any question of being rich, it
is wise and right to save, so as to provide for
future needs. It is a mean proverb that,
" When poverty comes in at the door, love
flies out at the window ; " but it would be
sad to see wife or children in want of food,
or clothing, or medical attendance, or rest
and change of air, and to feel that if you
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42 THE USE OF LIFE
CHAP.
had been reasonably industrious, or had but
denied yourself some, innocent perhaps, but
unnecessary indulgence, you might have
saved them from suffering and anxiety.
Economy for the mere sake of money is no
doubt mean, but economy for the sake of
independence is right and manly.
Always keep accounts, and keep them
carefully. I do not mean that it is worth
while to put down every detail, but keep
them so that you may know how the money
goes and how much things cost you. No
man who knows what his income is, and
what he is spending, will run into extrava-
gance. Spendthrifts begin by shutting their
eyes to what they are doing. No one would
face the precipice of ruin with his eyes open.
Whatever you do then, live within your
income. Save something, however little,
every year. But above all things, do not
run into debt. If a man, says Dickens (and
though he puts the advice into the mouth of
Mr. Micawber, it is none the less wise), has
an annual income " of twenty pounds, annual
expenditure, nineteen, nineteen, six, result
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happiness. Annual income, twenty pounds,
annual expenditure, twenty pounds, nought
and six, result misery." l And yet the differ-
ence is only a shilling.
It is not too strong to say that debt is
slavery. " Who goes a borrowing goes a
sorrowing." Many things in life are dis-
agreeable. Horace Greeley, a man of great
experience, well and truly said, " Hunger,
cold, rags, hard work, contempt, suspicion,
unjust reproaches, are disagreeable ; but debt
is infinitely worse than them all. Never run
into debt. If you have but fifty cents and
can get no more a week, buy a peck of corn,
parch it, and live on it, rather than owe any
man a dollar."
The world, said Cobden, " has always been
divided into two classes, — those who have
saved, and those who have spent — the
thrifty and the extravagant. The building
of all the houses, the mills, the bridges, and
the ships, and the accomplishment of all
other great works which have rendered man
civilised and happy, have been done by the
1 David Copperfield.
44 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
savers, the thrifty ; and those who have
wasted their resources have always been
their slaves. It has been the law of nature
and of Providence that this should be so ;
and I were an impostor if I promised any
class that they should advance themselves
if they were improvident, thoughtless, and
idle."
The Temple of Artemis at Ephesus, said
Plutarch, " gives asylum and security from
their creditors to debtors, when they take
refuge in it ; but the asylum and sanctuary
of frugality is everywhere open to the sober-
minded, affording them joyful and honour-
able and ample space for much ease." Do
not borrow then, and do not lend, except of
course in the way of business. You will
neither get your money nor thanks, for
debtors always think themselves injured.
Give then what you can afford liberally, but
do not expect it back.
If money comes in slowly at first, do not
be discouraged ; it is an ill lane which has
no turning ; and if it happens that money at
first comes easily, do not spend it all, but lay
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up some for a rainy dayy remembering that
good lanes have their turnings as well as bad
ones ; and that as time goes on you will
probably have more and more demands on
your purse. Many a man in business has
been ruined by being too fortunate at first.
Do not be in a hurry to get rich. If, says
Ruskin, " you do not let the price command
the picture, in time the picture will command
the price."
Do not make yourself anxious about money.
Though few can expect to make large fort-
unes, any one with industry and economy
may make a livelihood. We often hear of
riches not honestly come by, but the fact is,
that poverty is seldom honestly come by
either. The poor are not those who have
little, but those who want much.
Sir James Paget in one of his interesting
addresses gave statistics as regards his own
pupils, whose careers he had followed. Out of
1000. 200 left the profession, came into fort-
unes, or died early. Of the remaining 800,
600 attained fair, some of them considerable
success. Out of the whole number only 56
46 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
entirely failed. Of these 15 never passed the
examinations, 10 broke down through intem-
perance or dissipation, and out of the whole
1000 only 25 failed through causes apparently
beyond their control. You may rest assured
that in other walks of life, as in medicine, if
you make yourself useful, you will be used.
In fact, no one need have much anxiety
about the real necessaries of life. Nature
needs little and gives much. Luxuries, on
the other hand, are very expensive, and, as
Franklin said, " what keeps one vice would
bring up two children."
Remember that, as the Duke of Wellington
wisely said, high interest means bad security.
Do not put too many eggs in one basket.
However well you may be advised, however
carefully you may have looked into the mat-
ter, something may occur to upset all calcula-
tions. The wisest merchants and bankers make
mistakes. All that any sensible man of busi-
ness expects is to be generally right. We learn
in our earliest years that two and two make
four ; but they also make twenty-two. As
an arithmetical expression it is perfectly true
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that if we add two and two we get four,
but in the conduct of life it is a delusion, and
an injudicious application of the lesson has
wrecked many a promising career.
Take things quietly. We are told that
Lord Brougham never could sit still enough
to be photographed, and always came out a
blur.
Bagehot used to say that in business many
men were ruined because they could not sit
still in a room.
Every one is in one sense a man of busi-
ness whether he wishes it or no. We have
all duties to perform, a house to manage, our
expenses to regulate, and small matters are
sometimes as difficult and troublesome as
large ones.
Success in business depends happily much
more on common sense, care and attention,
than on genius. " Keep your shop," says an
old-fashioned proverb, " and your shop will
keep you." Xenophon tells a story to the
same effect : " The King of Persia, wishing
to have a fine horse fattened as soon as
possible, asked one of them who were sup-
48 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
posed to know most about such subjects, what
would fatten a horse soonest, and was told
6 his master's eye.' '
It is very important to cultivate business-
like habits. An eminent friend of mine
assured me not long ago that when he
thought over the many cases he had known
of men, even of good ability and high charac-
ter, who had been unsuccessful in life, by far
the most frequent cause of failure was that
they were dilatory, unpunctual, unable to
work cordially with others, obstinate in small
things, and, in fact, what we call unbusiness-
like.
In small matters as in great, order and
method are very important. The right thing
in the right place, is a golden rule, and a
little trouble in putting things away when
you have done with them will save a great
deal when you want them again.
Disorder, says Xenophon, " seems to me
something like as if an husbandman should
throw into his granary barley and wheat and
peas together, and then, when he wants bar-
ley bread or wheaten bread, or pea soup,
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should have to abstract them grain by grain,
instead of having them separately laid up
for his use." l
He quotes the case of a ship in illustration.
" For there is no time, when heaven sends a
storm over the sea, either to seek for what
may be wanting, or to hand out what may be
difficult to use ; for the gods threaten and
punish the negligent, and if they but forbear
from destroying those who do nothing wrong,
we must be very well content ; while if they
preserve even those that attend to everything
quite properly, much gratitude is due to
them." 2 Keep everything then in its proper
place.
Philosophers, not all of course, but many,
from Aristotle to Carlyle, have decried those
engaged in trade and commerce; or rather
perhaps I should say Trade and Commerce
themselves, as mean and almost degrading.
Plato excluded all traders from citizenship in
his Republic. Such a degrading occupation
was to be left to foreigners, if any chose to
engage in it. Trade and Commerce, however,
1 Xenophon's Economics, p. 105. 2 P. 106.
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being necessarily the occupations of many, it
would indeed be grievous if their influence on
the character was necessarily injurious and
incompatible with intellectual culture. But
happily it is not so. Of course business men
can only give their spare time to other pur-
suits, but, taking illustrations from Science
and Literature only, I might mention Nas-
myth, the astronomer and manufacturer ;
Grote, banker and historian ; Sir J. Evans,
papermaker and President of the Society of
Antiquaries, as well as Treasurer of the Royal
Society ; Prestwich, merchant, and afterwards
Professor of Geology at Oxford ; Rogers,
banker and poet ; Praed, banker and poet ;
may I say my own father, banker and mathe-
matician, for many years Treasurer and Vice-
President of the Royal Society ; and many
others.
Carlyle objected vehemently to the princi-
ple of buying in the cheapest and selling in
the dearest market. He suggests that in
some unexplained manner we should fix " our
minimum of cotton prices," and I suppose of
others ; that we should say, " We care not,
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for the present, to make cotton any cheaper ; "
that we should not under-sell other nations.
u Brothers, we will cease to under-sell them ;
we will be content to equal-sell them." This
is not only impracticable, but it is unsound.
If we sell less cotton goods, we must buy less
food. Carlyle admits that more could be sold
at a lower price, so that there would be hu-
man beings in need of cotton clothes, but
unable to afford the price agreed on. We
could afford to take less, and yet he would
have us refuse to do so, and to that extent
deprive others of their clothing, and our own
people of food. It is the very basis of com-
merce to give what you can produce cheaply
in exchange for what you cannot. To buy in
the cheapest and sell in the dearest market is
not only then the necessary rule of trade, but
is best for all ; because in doing so you buy
from those who most require to sell their
produce, and sell to those who are most in
need of your goods. Any other course would
approximate to the proverbially useless pro-
ceeding of carrying coals to Newcastle.
Many of the greatest and happiest and best
52 THE USE OF LIFE CHAI-.
of men have been very poor. Wordsworth
and his sister lived for many years on 30s. a
week, and, I believe, it was one of the hap-
piest periods of his life.
If it is not your lot to be rich, association
and affection may make some homely spot,
some small cottage, some sweet face, the
whole world to you.
It is, indeed, astonishing how many great
men have been poor, even if we cannot go so
far as to say with Mahomet, that " God never
took a prophet save from the sheepfolds."
It is a common error to exaggerate what
money can do for us.
Is it in the matter of food ?
" If a rich man wishes to be healthy, he must
live like a poor one." l What can we have
better for breakfast than tea or coffee, bread
and butter, with perhaps an egg or a herring,
or some honey ? What is a better lunch than
bread and cheese and a glass of beer ? A
plain dinner well cooked, and with a good
appetite, will give as much pleasure as a Lord
Mayor's feast. The wholesomest and best
1 Sir R. Temple.
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things to eat cost comparatively little while
they are in season, and out of season have
little flavour. An egg is generally as good
as a feast, and sometimes better.
Is it in books ? A man must be poor in-
deed if he cannot buy as much as he can
read. The best books — the Bible, Shake-
speare, Milton, etc. — can be bought now, as
the saying is, "for a song."
Will money buy health, genius, friends,
beauty, or a happy home ?
The Duke of Tse, says Confucius, "was
immensely rich, and nobody loved him ;
Pei-ke died of hunger, and even now the
people mourn him."
Above all,
" Can wealth give happiness ? Look around, and see
What gay distress, what splendid misery ;
I envy none their pageantry and show,
I envy none the gilding of their woe." 1
Men in great fortunes, says Bacon, are
strangers to themselves, and while they are
" in the puzzle of business, have no time to at-
tend to their health, either of mind or body."
1 Young.
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All fetters are bad, even if they be made of
gold. Money is 110 doubt a source of much
anxiety. It has its cares as well as poverty,
and in the case of many rich men, they are
really the slaves, and not the masters, of
money. Riches in many cases, as Bishop
Wilson said, " become not only the care, but
the torment, of those that possess them."
Many a man, no doubt, has been ruined by
money, and on the whole, probably the rich
are more anxious about money matters than
the poor. To none but the wise can wealth
bring happiness. The man who is too eager
to be rich will always be a poor fellow. " It
is probably much happier," says Ruskin, "to
live in a small house, and have Warwick
Castle to be astonished at, than to live in
Warwick Castle, and have nothing to be
astonished at."
To enjoy riches, do not set your heart upon
them. Enough, said Sadi, " will carry you,
more you must yourself carry."
" I ride not on a camel, but am free from load and
trammel,
To no subject am I lord, but 1 fear no monarch's
word ;
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I think not of the morrow, nor recall the gone-by
sorrow,
Thus I breathe exempt from strife, and thus moves
my tranquil life." l
" It is a miserable state of mind," said
Bacon, " to have few things to wish for, and
many to fear."
" If thou art rich, thou'rt poor :
For like an ass, whose backe with ingots bound,
Thou bear'st thy heavy riches but a journey,
And death unloadeth thee." 2
Why then?
" Why lose we life in anxious cares
To lay in hoards for future years ?
Can these, when tortured by disease,
Cheer our sick hearts, or purchase ease ?
Can these prolong one gasp of breath,
Or calm the troubled hour of death ? " 3
Wealth is a great temptation to avarice ;
as we learnt long ago at school : " Crescit
amor nummi, quantum ipsa pecunia crescit ; "
or, as Oliver Wendell Holmes wittily puts
it-
i Sadi, 2 Shakespeare. 3 Gay.
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" I care not much for gold or land :
Give me a mortgage here and there,
Some good bank-stock — some note of hand,
Or trifling railway share :
I only ask that Fortune send
A little more than I can spend."
The poor man, said Seneca, " wanteth many
things, but the covetous man wanteth every-
thing."
It has been satirically observed that there
would be more good Samaritans, if it were
not for the twopence and the oil.
A continual and restless search after Fort-
une, says Bacon, "takes up too much of
then- time, who have nobler things to ob-
serve ; " l for wealth is only good as far as it
adds to life, not life as it adds to wealth.
Poverty has been called the scholar's bride,
and "he can well spare his mule and span-
niers who has a winged chariot instead." 2
Our very expressions about money are
significant. We constantly hear of a man
making money, or made of money, or rolling
in money, never of "enjoying" money, and
those indeed who make money rarely make it
1 Bacon. 2 Emerson.
nr ON MONEY MATTERS 57
for themselves. " He heapeth up riches, and
cannot tell who shall gather them."
In Xenophon's banquet, Charmides main-
tains that Poverty is better than riches,
for: —
66 It is acknowledged that to feel secure is
better than to be in fear ; that to be free is
better than to be a slave ; to be trusted by
one's country better than to be distrusted ;
but, when I was a rich man in this city, I was
afraid, in the first place, lest somebody should
break into my house, seize upon my money,
or do me personal harm. . . . Now I can lay
myself down to sleep. I am not called upon
to serve in the parish ; I am not rich enough
to be suspected by the Government ; I am
at liberty to leave the city, or to stay in it
at pleasure. When I was rich, people re-
proached me for associating with Socrates
and other low philosophers. Now I can
choose my friends ; for, since I am grown
poor, nobody pays any further attention to
me. When I had much, I was always un-
happy, because I was always losing some-
thing ; now I am grown poor, I lose nothing,
58 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
for I have nothing to lose; and yet I am
constantly consoled and cheered with the
hopes of getting something."
There was a great deal of truth in what
Charmides said, but it was not the whole
truth. Moreover, Charmides, when he said
it, had just enjoyed a good dinner, enlivened
by music.
If wisely used money may do much. Gold
is a power. " Money," said a witty French-
man, "is the Sovereign of Sovereigns."1
Money gives us the means of acquiring what
we wish. If fresh air, a good house, books,
music, etc., are enjoyable, money will buy
them ; if leisure is an advantage, money en-
ables us to take it ; if seeing the world is
delightful, it will pay for our journeys ; if to
help our friends, to relieve those who are in
distress, is a privilege, money confers on us
this great blessing.
"Keep it then," said Swift, "in your head,
but not in your heart."
The miser is the man who loves money for
its own sake ; who carries economy to excess ;
1 Rivarol.
in ON MONEY MATTERS 59
who is a mere covetous machine. One lesson
we have to learn in life is to keep ourselves
free from mean and petty cares, and love of
money is one of the meanest.
The great thing is to use wealth wisely.
" There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth,"
says Solomon; "and there is that withholdeth
more than is meet, but it tendeth to poverty."
The well-known epitaph on Edward Courte-
nay, Earl of Devonshire, says —
" What we gave, we have ;
What we spent, we had ;
What we left, we lost."
Or, as another version of the same idea has
it —
"What I saved, I lost;
What I spent, I had ;
What I gave, I have."
Be liberal, though not lavish.
"There is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing.
There is that maketh himself poor, yet hath great
riches."
"He that hath pity on the poor, lendeth unto the
Lord;
And that which he hath given will he pay him
again." 1
1 Proverbs.
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The advice given by Christ to the rich
young man may perhaps be considered as of
individual application, for we must remember
our children as well as the poor. Your in-
come is indeed your own, but what you have
inherited from your ancestors does not belong
to you alone.
Those who have money are like the ser-
vants to whom their Lord entrusted the
talents in the parable. We shall have to
account for it. It is a trust committed to
us. Money is nothing to be proud of.
" Charge them that are rich in this world,
that they be not high-minded, nor trust in
uncertain riches, but in the living God, who
giveth us richly all things to enjoy.
" That they do good, that they be rich in
good works, ready to distribute, willing to
communicate.
" Laying up in store for themselves a good
foundation against the time to come, that
they may lay hold on eternal life." l
It is not money, but the love of money,
which the Bible tells us is the root of all evil.
il Timothy.
in ON MONEY MATTERS 61
"If riches increase, set not your heart upon
them." In the Sermon on the Mount the
same reason is given.
" Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon
earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and
where thieves break through and steal :
" But lay up for yourselves treasure in
heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth
corrupt, and where thieves do not break
through and steal. For where your treasure
is, there will your heart be also."
CHAPTER IV
RECREATION
ALL work and no play is proverbially
admitted to make Jack a dull boy. If the
work is indoor work it will also tend to
make him a delicate boy and a weak man.
Games are by no means loss of time. They
are important in developing the body, and
especially the upper part, — the arms and the
chest, which many of our ordinary avocations
tend rather to contract than to expand.
Games not only keep a man in health, but
give him spirit for his work ; they teach him
how to get on with other men : to give way
in trifles, to play fairly, and push no advan-
tage to an extremity.
They give moral, as well as physical,
health ; daring and endurance, self-command
and good-humour, — qualities which are not
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to be found in books, and no teaching can
give. The Duke of Wellington truly said
that the Battle of Waterloo was won in the
playing fields of Eton. Many of the best
and most useful lessons of public schools
are those which the boys learn in the play-
ground. Only let games be the recreation,
not the business of your life.
As regards the importance of games to
health, I will quote two of our greatest
physiological authorities: — "Games," says
Sir James Paget, "are admirable in all the
chief constituent qualities of recreations;
but, besides this, they may exercise a moral
influence of great value in business or in
any daily work. For without any induce-
ment of a common interest in money, with-
out any low motive, they bring boys and
men to work together ; they teach them to
be colleagues in good causes with all who
will work fairly and well with them ; they
teach that power of working with others
which is among the best powers for success
in every condition of life. And by custom,
if not of their very nature, they teach fair-
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ness : foul play in any of them, however
sharp may be the competition, is by consent
of all disgraceful ; and they who have a
habit of playing fair will be the more ready
to deal fair. A high standard of honesty in
their recreations will help to make people
despise many things which are far within
the limits of the law. . . . Now, I think
that if we look for the characteristics which
may be found in all good active recreations,
and on which their utility chiefly depends,
we shall find that they all include one or
more of these three things : namely, uncer-
tainties, wonders, and opportunities for the
exercise of skill in something different from
the regular work. And the appropriate-
ness of these three things seems to be,
especially, in that they provide pleasant
changes which are in strong contrast with
the ordinary occupations of most working
lives, and that they give opportunity for
the exercise of powers and good dispositions
which, being too little used in the daily
business of life, would become feeble or be
lost."
iv RECREATION 65
Professor Michael Foster, Secretary of the
Koyal Society, in his recent Rede lecture has
told us that " even in muscular work the
weariness is chiefly one of the brain ; and we
are all familiar with a weariness of the brain
in causing which the muscles have little or no
share. All our knowledge goes to show that
the work of the brain, like the work of the
muscles, is accompanied by chemical change ;
that the chemical changes, though differing in
details, are of the same order in the brain as
in the muscle ; and that the smallness of the
changes in the brain as compared with those
of the muscle is counterbalanced, or more than
counterbalanced, by the exceeding sensitive-
ness of the nervous substance. . . .
"If an adequate stream of pure blood, of
blood made pure by efficient co-operation of
organs of low degree, be necessary for the life
of the muscle, in order that the working capital
may be rapidly renewed and the harmful prod-
ucts rapidly washed away, equally true, per-
haps even more true, is this of the brain.
Moreover, the struggle for existence has
brought to the front a brain ever ready to out-
66 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
run its more humble helpmates ; and even in
the best regulated economy, the period of most
effective work between the moment when all
the complex machinery has been got into work-
ing order and the moment when weariness
begins to tell, is bounded by all too narrow
limits. If there be any truth in what I have
laid before you, the sound way to extend those
limits is not so much by rendering the brain
more agile as by encouraging the humbler
helpmates so that their more efficient co-oper-
ation may defer the onset of weariness."
Hunting, shooting, and fishing in common
language monopolise the term Sport. Even
those of us who do not take our exercise and
recreation with the Hounds, the Gun, or the
Rod, still feel the fascination. We have in-
herited it from our ancestors, who not only
lived to a great extent by and for " sport " in
this world, but looked forward to it as the
greatest happiness in the next. The wild
boar, says Ossian : —
" The wild boar rushes over their tombs,
But he does not disturb their repose.
They still love the sport of their youth,
And mount the wind with joy."
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RECREATION 67
Though so much has been written about
our debt to pure Water, yet we owe quite as
much to fresh Air. How wonderful it is! It
permeates all our body, it bathes the skin in a
medium so delicate that we are not conscious
of its presence, and yet so strong that it wafts
the odours of flowers and fruit into our rooms,
carries our ships over the seas, the purity of
sea and mountain into the heart of our cities.
It is the vehicle of sound, it brings to us the
voices of those we love and all the sweet
music of nature ; it is the great reservoir of
the rain which waters the earth, it softens the
heat of day and the cold of night, covers us
overhead with a glorious arch of blue, and
lights up the morning and evening skies with
fire. It is so exquisitely soft and pure, so
gentle and yet so useful, that no wonder Ariel
is the most delicate, lovable, and fascinating
of all Nature Spirits.
"For of all things," says Jefferies, "there
is none so sweet as sweet air — one great
flower it is, drawn round about, over and en-
closing, like Aphrodite's arms : as if the dome
of the sky were a bell-flower drooping down
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CHAP.
over us, and the magical essence of it filling
all the room of the earth. Sweetest of all
things is wild-flower air. Full of their ideal,
the starry flowers strain upwards on the bank,
striving to keep above the rude grasses that
pushed by them: genius has ever had such a
struggle. The plain road was made beautiful
by the many thoughts it gave. I came every
morning to stay by the starlit bank.
" Not till years after, was I able to see why
I went the same round and did not care for
change. I do not want change. I want the
same old and loved things, the same wild
flowers, the same tree and soft ash-green,
the turtle doves, the blackbirds, the coloured
yellow-hammer sing, sing, singing as long as
there is light to cast a shadow on the dial, for
such is the measure of his song, and I want
them in the same place ... all the living
staircase of the Spring, step by step, up-
wards to the great gallery of the Summer —
let me watch the same succession year by
year."1
Our fields do not contain the same rich
1 Jefferies.
IV RECREATION 69
variety of flowers as those of Switzerland,
but at times they glow with buttercups,
" And Ladysmocks, all silver white,
Do paint the meadows with delight," J
while woods are perhaps even more beautiful,
more enchanting —
" So wondrous wild the whole might seem,
The scenery of a fairy dream."
We often hear of bad weather, but in real-
ity, no weather is bad. It is all delightful,
though in different ways. Some weather may
be bad for farmers or crops, but for man all
kinds are good. Sunshine is delicious, rain is
refreshing, wind braces us up, snow is exhil-
arating. As Ruskin says, " There is really
no such thing as bad weather, only different
kinds of good weather."
Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes
on the grass under the trees on a summer's
day, listening to the murmur of water, or
watching the clouds float across the blue sky,
is by no means waste of time.
Moreover, air and exercise generally go
70 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
together, so that you will combine both ad-
vantages. There is nothing so good for the
inside of a man as the outside of a horse.
Every one indeed ought to make it a primary
and sacred duty to be at least two hours of
the day in the open air.
Fresh air is as good for the mind as for the
body. Nature always seems trying to talk
to us as if she had some great secret to tell.
And so she has.
Earth and Sky, Woods and Fields, Lakes
and Rivers, the Mountain and the Sea, are
excellent schoolmasters, and teach some of
us more than we can ever learn from books.
But more than this, if you go away into
the country, row yourself on a river, gather
flowers in a wood, or fossils in a pit, pick
up shells and seaweeds on a shore, play
cricket or golf, or give yourself fresh air
and exercise in any other way, you will find
that you have not only gained in health, but
that your cares and troubles and anxieties
are washed away, or at any rate greatly
lightened. Nature calms, cools, and invig-
orates us. She renders the mind more serene,
more cheerful.
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A life devoted to pleasure and recreation
would of course be not only selfish, but in-
tolerably insipid. Games should never be the
business of life, but in moderation enjoyment
is not idleness.
And what are the elements of Recreation ?
There are true pleasures and false pleasures.
Plato makes Protarchus ask Socrates, " And
true pleasures, Socrates, which are they?"
Socrates. " Those from beautiful colours,
as they are called, and from figures, and most
of those from odours, and those from sounds,
and any objects whose absence is unfelt and
painless, while their presence is sensible and
productive of pleasure."
But while the senses can give true pleasure,
this is not the highest good. Philebus, he
continues, maintained "that enjoyment and
pleasure and delight, and the class of feeling
akin to them, are a good to every living being,
whereas I contend that not these, but wisdom
and knowledge and memory, and their kin-
dred, right opinion and true reasonings, are
better and more desirable than pleasure for
all who are able to partake of them, and that
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CHAP.
to all such who are or ever will be, they are
the most advantageous of all things."
The true pleasures are almost innumerable.
Relations and Friends, Conversation, Books,
Music, Poetry, Art, Exercise and Rest, the
beauty and variety of Nature, Summer
and Winter, Morning and Evening, Day and
Night, Sunshine and Storm, Woods and
Fields, Rivers, Lakes and Seas, Animals
and Plants, Trees and Flowers, Leaves and
Fruit, are but a few of them.
We ask for no small boon when we pray
for " the kindly fruits of the earth, so that
we may enjoy them." Moreover, it may even
be possible that " there are many new joys
unknown to man, and which he will find
along the splendid path of civilisation." l
It is our own fault if we do not enjoy lue.
" All men," says Ruskin, " may enjoy, though
few can achieve."
One of the greatest talismans in the Ara-
bian Nights is the Magic Carpet, on which if
a man sat, he was transported wherever he
wished to be. Railways do this now for all
1 Mantegazza in Ideals of Life.
iv RECREATION 73
of us, and " as we increase the range of what
we see, we increase the richness of what we
can imagine." *
Again, I should rank a good talk very
high among the pleasures of existence. It is
an admirable tonic, food both for mind and
body. Herrick vividly acknowledges his debt
to Ben Jonson, and describes their suppers —
"When we such clusters had
As made us nobly wild, not mad ;
And yet, each verse of thine
Outdid the meat, outdid the frolic wine."
When Johnson wished to describe a pleas-
ant evening, Sir, he said, " We had a good
talk." And I have often found an hour with
Darwin or Lyell, Kingsley or Ruskin, Hooker
or Tyndall, as invigorating as a draught of
fresh air.
There are few gifts in which men differ
more than in the Art of Conversation. I
have known very clever men, — men, too,
who could be made most interesting, — but
from whom nothing was to be expected unless
it were absolutely extracted from them. A
1 Ruskin.
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CHAP.
good talker is always welcome. Like every-
thing else, the art can be cultivated. No one
can expect to talk well without practice.
"The first ingredient of good talk," says
Sir William Temple, " is truth, the next good
sense, the third good-humour, and the fourth
wit," and the first three at any rate are in
the power of any one.
Many people have learned much of what
they know from conversation. " He that
questioneth much," says Bacon, " shall learn
much and content much ; but especially if he
apply his questions to the skill of the persons
whom he asketh ; for he shall give them occa-
sion to please themselves in speaking, and
himself shall continually gather knowledge."
We do not sufficiently cultivate in children,
or, for that matter, in ourselves either, the
sense of Beauty. Yet what pleasure is so
pure, so costless, so accessible, indeed so ever
present with us ! One man will derive the
keenest delight from scenery, trees and foli-
age, fruit and flowers, the blue sky, the fleecy
clouds, the sparkling sea, the ripple on the
lake, the gleam on the river, the shadows on
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RECREATION 75
the grass, the moon and stars at night. To
another, all this is nothing. The moon and
stars shine in vain ; Birds and Insects, Trees
and Flowers, River and Lake and Sea, Sun,
Moon, and Stars give him no pleasure.
" For of the Soule the bodie forme doth take ;
For Soule is forme, and doth the bodie make." 1
Our artificial colours are " good enough for
the splendour of lowly pride, but not good
enough for one wreath of perishing cloud,
nor one feather in a wild duck's wing." 2
" There is yet a light," says Ruskin, " which
the eye invariably seeks with a deeper feeling
of the beautiful, — the light of the declining
or breaking day, and the flecks of scarlet
clouds burning like watchfires in the green
sky of the horizon." The colours of the sky
seem to lighten up the earth, and " the orange
stain on the edge of yonder western peak re-
flects the sunset of a thousand years." Sun-
sets are so beautiful that they almost seem
as if we were looking through the Gates of
Heaven.
1 Spenser. 2 Hamerton.
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The Talmudic Commentators tell us that
in Manna every one found the taste he liked
best, and so in Nature every one who seeks
will find what he most enjoys.
I have no idea, however, of attempting to
exhaust the long list of true pleasures. And
where there are so many innocent pleasures,
why choose any which are bad, or even doubt-
ful? At any rate exhaust the good, if you
can : it will then be time enough to think of
others.
Those who have, as the saying is, " seen
life " and think they know " the world," are
very much mistaken ; they know less of the
realities of existence than many a peasant
who has never left his own parish, but has
used his eyes wisely there.
A life of indulgence, a " gay life," as it is
falsely called, is a miserable mockery of hap-
piness. Those who have fallen victims to it
complain of the world, when they have only
themselves to blame. " Lorsque les plaisirs
nous ont epuises, nous croy ons que .nous avons
epuise les plaisirs." l " I am young," said
1 Vauvenargues.
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RECREATION 77
De Musset, " I have passed but the half of the
road of life, and already weary, I turn and
look back." What a melancholy confession !
If he had lived wisely he would have looked
back with thankfulness, and forward with
hope.
The worth of a life is to be measured by
its moral value. " Further, the Soul and
Body make a perfect Man, when the Soul
commands wisely, or rules lovingly, and cares
profitably, and provides plentifully, and con-
ducts charitably that Body which is its part-
ner and yet the inferior. But if the Body
shall give Laws, and by the violence of the
appetite, first abuse the Understanding, and
then possess the superior portion of the Will
and Choice, the Body and the Soul are not
apt company, and the man is a fool and mis-
erable. If the Soul rules not, it cannot be
a companion : either it must govern or be a
slave." l
1 Jeremy Taylor.
CHAPTER V
HEALTH
THE soul is of course the noblest part of
man, but in the present conditions of our ex-
istence at any rate, it can only act through
and by the body. An amusing illustration
is afforded by the first experiment of our
great countryman, Faraday. He began life
as a boy in a chemist's shop, and being one
day sent to a customer, he could not make
any one hear when he rang the bell. He
put his head through the railings to try and
see whether any one was at home, and then
the question occurred to him, on which side
of the railings he really was? He decided
that a man was where his head was, but at
that moment the door was suddenly opened
before he could move out of the way, and
squeezed his leg against the railings, bringing
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CHAP, v HEALTH 79
forcibly home to him the truth of the old
parable about the head and the other mem-
bers.
The conditions of our life render the study
of health now especially important. Our an-
cestors lived more in the country, more in the
open air, more in agricultural operations. We
are to a much greater extent concentrated in
cities, work much more in houses, shops and
factories ; our occupations are sedentary and
stooping, and are a greater tax on the brain
and nervous system. It can, I fear, hardly
be doubted that the people of our great cities
are less vigorous than their forefathers. No
one can drive through the poorer parts of
London, or any other great manufacturing
centre, without being struck by the want of
vitality, the pale faces, and narrow chests of
both men and women. Moreover, our very
sanitary improvements are in one respect a
danger, by keeping alive the weak and the
diseased. Much of the misery of disease is
due to causes which might be obviated by a
little care and attention, and some elementary
knowledge of the laws of health.
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Even in the earliest times of which we have
any record, wise statesmen paid much atten-
tion to the subject of health. They realised
the great importance of the Mens sana in
corpore sano.
The care of our health is a sacred duty.
It is sometimes said that the hygienic rules of
Moses formed a considerable part of his relig-
ious teaching. This, I think, is hardly correct.
We must remember that what we have in the
Bible is a code of laws — civil and social, as
well as religious. Nevertheless, the laws of
health, if not strictly a part of religion, have
always been regarded as coming near to it.
" What ! know ye not that your body is the
Temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you,
which ye have of God, and ye are not your
own ? " * The Egyptian reverence for the
body was wiser than the Mediaeval contempt,
and there is no inherent virtue, but really the
reverse, in rags and dirt.
The Greeks " made physical as well as in-
tellectual education a science as well as a
study. Their women practised graceful, and
i St. Paul.
v HEALTH 81
in some cases, even athletic exercises. They
developed, by a free and healthy life, those
figures which remain everlasting and unap-
proachable models of human beauty." r
"7Tis Life, not Death, for which we pant:
'Tis Life, whereof our nerves are scant :
More Life, and fuller, that we want."
Cleanliness is next to Godliness, says the
old proverb, and the modern discoveries in
medical science not only confirm the old
adage, but explain clearly the reason, and
show why it is so.
We now know that many diseases are not
primarily due to any abnormal condition of
the tissues, but are actual invasions by other
organisms; that cholera, small-pox, and prob-
ably several other diseases cannot originate
of themselves, but that the germs must be
planted in us. Hence the great importance
of cleanliness, not only in ourselves, but in
the houses we live in, the clothes we wear,
the water we drink, and the air we breathe.
The human body is indeed a standing mira-
cle ! Consider for a moment the marvellous
1 Kingsley.
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amount of knowledge stored up in the brain !
Consider the rapidity with which the muscles
answer to the will ! Sir James Paget has
told us that a practised musician can play
on the piano at the rate of twenty-four notes
in a second. For each note a nerve current
must be transmitted from the brain to the
fingers, and from the fingers to the brain.
Each note requires three movements of a
finger, the bending down and raising up, and
at least one lateral, making, no less than
seventy-two motions in a second, each requir-
ing a distinct effort of the will, and directed
unerringly with a certain speed, and a certain
force, to a certain place.
The skin is a delicate and most elaborate
organ, built up of millions of cells, and con-
taining miles of veins, and ducts, capillaries
and nerves. It is continually renewing itself,
and to fulfil its functions properly, requires
a reasonable amount of care, and plenty of
water. The use of the brush is, moreover, al-
most as necessary for the skin as for the hair.
It may be said of many an invalid, as it
was by Milton of Hobson, that " ease was his
chief disease."
v HEALTH 83
" The luxuries of Campania weakened Han-
nibal, whom neither snows nor Alps could
vanquish : victorious in arms, he was con-
quered in pleasure." *
The senses, — full of innocent delight as
they are, — will no doubt, if we yield to
them, wreck us, like the Sirens of old, on the
rocks and whirlpools of life. We bring many
diseases on ourselves by errors of diet. The
word drink is often used as synonymous with
Alcohol — the great curse of northern na-
tions. In some cases a valuable medicine,
but yet so great a temptation as to be the
source of probably half the sin and misery
and suffering of our countrymen. Honest
water never made any one a sinner, but crime
may almost be said to be concentrated alco-
hol. "Where Satan cannot go in person,"
says an old Jewish proverb, ahe sends wine."
" Once the demon enters,
Stands within the door ;
Peace, and hope, and gladness
Dwell there never more." 2
"Wine," says Pliny, "maketh the hand
quiver, the eye watery, the night unquiet,
1 Seneca. 2 Challis.
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evil dreams, a foul breath in the morning,
and an utter forgetfulness of all things." Sir
W. Raleigh quotes this passage, and adds,
" Whosoever loveth wine shall not be trusted
of any man, for he cannot keep a secret.
Wine inaketh man not only a beast, but a
madman ; and if thou love it, thy own wife,
thy children, and thy friends will despise
thee."
Shakespeare has several excellent passages
in condemnation of drink.
" Oh that men should put an enemy in their mouths
To steal away their brains ! that we
Should with joy, pleasance, revel and applause,
Transform ourselves into beasts."
"To be now a sensible man, by and by a
fool, and presently a beast." This is, how-
ever, really unfair to beasts.
On the other hand, how rich is the reward
of moderation !
" Though I look old yet am I strong and lusty :
For in my youth I never did apply
Hot and rebellious liquors to my blood.
Therefore my age is as a lusty winter,
Frosty, but kindly." l
1 Shakespeare
v HEALTH 85
Surprise has sometimes been expressed that
the evils of drunkenness are not more often
denounced in the Bible, but we must remem-
ber that it was written in a hot country.
Drunkenness is especially a vice of cold cli-
mates. It is, however, denounced by Solo-
mon —
" Who hath woe ? Who hath sorrow ?
Who hath contentions ? Who hath babbling ?
Who hath wounds without cause ? Who hath red-
ness of eyes ?
They that tarry long at the wine ;
They that go to seek mixed wine.
Look not thou upon the wine when it is red,
When it giveth his colour in the cup :
At the last it biteth like a serpent,
And stingeth like an adder." T
There are some grounds for hope that
drunkenness is a decreasing evil. The
greater opportunities for intellectual occupa-
tions, the easier access to music, pictures and
books, the more respectable and comfortable
homes of our people, have done, and are
doing, much to encourage temperance.
1 Proverbs.
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But if the evils of alcohol are more con-
spicuous, those of overeating are also very
common. Probably nine people out of ten
eat more than they need, more than is good
for them. An occasional feast matters little ;
it is the continual daily overloading ourselves
with food which is so injurious, so depressing.
It is easy to eat too much ; there is no fear
of eating too little.
Moderation should run through the whole
of life. " In truth, refining the gold of both
knowledge and vigour, it increases tenfold
the value of both, and adding gentleness to
strength, and temperance to enthusiasm, is
perhaps the great secret of success in work."1
Moderation is strength, not weakness ; it
implies self-command and self-control.
Do not linger long over meals, but do not
eat quickly. It is said that you should
always rise from the table feeling as if you
would wish for more. The brain cannot
work if the stomach is full. " After dinner
rest awhile" is a good rule, but it is a poor
life if you eat so much that you have to rest
1 Miss Sewell.
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from one meal to another. Eat to live, but
do not live to eat. Long meals make short
lives.
When savages wish to become " medicine
men," one of the preparations is a long fast.
The result is an increased activity of the
nervous system, which they take for inspira-
tion. They carry it, no doubt, too far ; but
any one who tries, will find that he can do
better mental work if he keeps down the
amount of his food.
A light stomach, moreover, makes a light
heart. High feeding means low spirits, and
many people suffer as much from dyspepsia
as from all other ailments put together.
" Beware," says Bacon, " of any sudden
change in any great point of diet, and if
necessity enforce it, fit the rest to it, to be
free-minded and cheerfully disposed at hours
of meat, and of sleep and of exercise is the
best precept of long lasting."
" If you wish to be well," said Abernethy,
" you must live on 6d. a day, and earn it
yourself." This wise saying comprises in a
few words the requisites both as to diet and
88 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
as to exercise. You can buy, especially in
these cheap times, sufficient food for 6d., —
good wholesome food, — but you cannot get
drunk, and you are not likely to overeat
yourself. It emphasises also the necessity of
exercise.
As we are now situated, scarcely any time
spent in the open air can be said to be
wasted. Such hours will not only be counted
in life, but will actually add to it, — will tend
to make " your days long in the land." The
Romans had an excellent proverb — " In aere
salus," and you can hardly be too much out
of doors.
Pure water is as important as fresh air.
Plenty of water, cold if you can stand it, and
both outside and in. Even what may seem
minor matters, such as attention to the teeth,
may make no small difference to the comfort
of life.
Health is much more a matter of habits
and of diet than of medicine. Our ancestors
used to take drugs to keep off disease. Not
only the College of Physicians, but even
Bacon, recommended them. Yet it was a
v HEALTH 89
radical error. Locke seems to have been the
first to point out the fallacy. The very name
of Medical Science seems to point to the use
of drugs. But if we live sensibly we shall
require to spend very little on medicine.
Give Nature fair play and let her alone.
" Do not," said Napoleon, " counteract the
living principle : leave it the liberty of de-
fending itself : it will do better than any
drugs."
With plenty of air, plenty of water, and
moderation in diet, most of us may enjoy the
glorious feeling of health and strength, and
even retain the spring of youth until far on
in age.
But health is not merely a matter of the
body. " Anger, hatred, grief and fear are
among the influences most destructive of
vitality." * And on the other hand, cheerful-
ness, good-humour, and peace of mind are
powerful elements of health.
We are told that Lycurgus dedicated a lit-
tle statue to the god of Laughter in each of
the Spartan eating-halls. Most people, said
1 Dr. Richardson.
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Buffon, " might live to be older, but they die
of conceit and chagrin." He was speaking
of his own countrymen, but it is true of
others also.
When we are out of sorts things get on our
nerves, the most trifling annoyances assume
the proportions of a catastrophe. It is a
sure sign that we need rest and fresh air.
We often hear of over-pressure in children,
and of older people who have worked them-
selves to death. In most cases it is not hon-
est work, but excitement, worry, and anxiety
which rum the constitution. Idleness, dissi-
pation, and self-indulgence have killed many
more than good hard work. The brain re-
quires exercise as well as the muscles. If
you train yourself to early hours, temperance,
and wise habits, work, even hard work, if
only not excessive, will do you more good
than harm.
Most of us have at some time or another
to pass through a period of sleeplessness. It
is certainly most depressing ; one feels as if
some great misfortune were impending ; little
difficulties, which at other times it would be
v HEALTH 91
a pleasure to surmount, appear insuperable;
the mind seems to fly from everything pleas-
ant, and broods over anything which has
gone, or possibly may go, wrong. Do not,
however, despair ; I believe sleeplessness
never killed any one. But above all do not
take drugs ; that is the real danger. Be as
little in the house, and as much out of doors
as you possibly can, take things as easily as
you may, and depend upon it, the blessing
of sleep will one day return. If it has not
lasted too long, you will be to a great extent
repaid, for you will have learnt to know the
blessing of sleep, which as a rule we do not
half appreciate.
Many bodily ailments have their origin in
the mind. Medical men have not to consider
physical symptoms only, but will often find
themselves face to face with the question —
"Canst thou not minister to a mind diseased;
Pluck from the memory a rooted sorrow ;
Raze out the written troubles of the brain;
And with some sweet oblivious antidote,
Cleanse the stuff' d bosom of that perilous stuff,
Which weighs upon the heart ? " l
1 Shakespeare.
92 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Moreover, health is not only a great ele-
ment of happiness, but it is essential to good
work. It is not merely wasteful but selfish
to throw it away.
It is impossible to do good work, — at any
rate, it is impossible to do our best, — if we
overstrain ourselves. It is bad policy, because
all work done under such circumstances will
inevitably involve an additional period of
quiet and rest afterwards; but apart from
this, work so done will not be of a high
quality, it will show traces of irritability and
weakness : the judgment will not be good :
if it involves co-operation with others there
will be great possibility of friction and mis-
understandings. Let any one try to make a
sketch, and he will see at once that his hand
is not steady, not under proper control, and
this is not merely a matter of muscular
fatigue, but of nervous exhaustion. Labour
ought to be enjoyed ; and to enjoy it, we
must work steadily and energetically, but not
incessantly, not neglecting food and rest,
exercise and holidays.
The weakening and lowering tendency of
v HEALTH 93
ill-health is especially marked when it is self-
incurred. On the other hand, there are some
who, through no fault of their own, are born
to a life of suffering. It almost seems in such
cases as if Nature often compensates for the
weakness of the body by the clearness and
brightness of the mind. We have all met
some great sufferers, whose cheerfulness and
good-humour are not only a lesson to us who
enjoy good health, but who seem to be, as it
were, raised and consecrated by a life of suf-
fering.
CHAPTER VI
NATIONAL EDUCATION
FROM the earliest times of which we have
any record, the wisest of men have urged the
importance of education.1
" Of all treasure," says the Hitopadesa,
" knowledge is the most precious, for it can
neither be stolen, given away, nor consumed."
'< Education," says Plato, "is the fairest thing
that the best of men can ever have."
Montaigne stated broadly that ignorance
was " the mother of evil." " Learning," said
Fuller, " is the greatest alms that can be
given." 2 " Pouvoir, " said a French moralist,
"sans savoir est fort dangereux." An igno-
rant life must always be comparatively a dull
1 It is, however, rather remarkable that so far as I know
there has been no book expressly written for children until
quite within recent years.
2 Fuller's Worthies.
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CHAP, vi NATIONAL EDUCATION 95
one. It has been well said that Man needs
knowledge, not merely as a means of liveli-
hood, but as a means of life.
Petrarch said that what he cared for most
was to learn, and Shakespeare probably ex-
pressed his own .views in the words which he
put into the mouth of Lord Say, that
" Ignorance is the curse of God ;
Knowledge the wing wherewith we fly to heaven."
Solomon in a beautiful passage tells us
that —
" Happy is the man that findeth wisdom,
And the man that getteth understanding:
For the merchandise of it is better than the mer-
chandise of silver,
And the gain thereof than fine gold.
She is more precious than rubies :
And all the things thou canst desire
Are not to be compared unto her.
Length of days is in her right hand ;
And in her left hand riches and honour.
Her ways are ways of pleasantness,
And all her paths are peace." l
And again —
" Wisdom is the principal thing ; therefore get wisdom :
And with all thy getting get understanding."
1 Proverbs.
96 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
And yet the prevailing opinion was long in
the opposite direction, especially as regards
girls. There was a German saying that the
wardrobe was the library of women, and a
French proverb that girls should be kept either
within the four evangelists or four walls. It is
not so long since it was thought that neither
poor people on the one hand, nor gentlemen
on the other, had anything to do with edu-
cation. It was supposed to be a mere mat-
ter for priests and monks. The very word
"clerk" conveys this idea.
Even so wise and good a man as Dr. John-
son laid it down almost as a self-evident
axiom, that if every one learnt to read it
would be impossible to find any one who
would do the manual work of the world. Dr.
Johnson was a great literary authority, and
did not realise the dignity of labour.
That was one stage. A second was that
education had special reference to the business
of life. That it was necessary to be careful lest
children should be raised above their station.
That reading, writing, and arithmetic only,
were necessary for poor children, — reading
vi NATIONAL EDUCATION 97
and writing for the details of business, and
arithmetic in order to keep accounts.
This view was extended to all departments
of business. Lord Eldon is reported to have
selected his bankers (who must have been very
different from the present members of the
firm) because, he said, they were the stupidest
bankers in London, and that if he could find
any stupider he would move his account.
Hazlitt maintained that boys who were in-
tended for business should not be taught any-
thing else. Any one, he said, "will make
money if he has no other idea in his head."
That is the second stage.
Now we advocate Education, not merely to
make the man the better workman, but the
workman the better man. Victor Hugo well
said that "he who opens a school, closes a
prison."
" Most of our children," said a Swiss states-
man, " are born to poverty, but we take care
that they shall not grow up to ignorance."
We also, in England, are now beginning to
appreciate the importance of education. Gray
could not now say of our rural population that
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"... Knowledge to their eyes her ample page,
Bich with the spoils of time did ne'er unroll ;
Chill penury repressed their noble rage
And froze the genial current of the soul."
Matthew Arnold tells us in his Culture and
Anarchy that there are still many who think
that culture and sweetness and light are all
moonshine. But this was written in 1869.
The year 1870, the year of the passing of
the Education Act, was a most important
epoch in the social history of our country.
At that time the number of children in our
elementary schools was 1,400,000. It is now
over 5,000,000. And what has been the re-
sult ? First let me take the criminal statis-
tics. Up to 1887 the number of persons in
prison showed a tendency to increase. In
that year the average number was 20,800.
Since then it has steadily decreased, and now
is only 13,000. It has, therefore, diminished
in round numbers by one-third. But we
must remember that the population has been
steadily increasing. Since 1870 it has in-
creased by one-third. If our criminals had
increased in the same proportion, they would
vi NATIONAL EDUCATION 99
have been 28,000 instead of 13,000, or more
than double. In that case then, our expendi-
ture on police and prisons would have been at
least £8,000,000 instead of £4,000,000. In
juvenile crime the decrease is even more satis-
factory. In 1856 the number of young per-
sons committed for indictable offences was
14,000. In 1866 it had fallen to 10,000 ; in
1876 to 7000 ; in 1881 to 6000 ; and, according
to the last figures I have been able to obtain,
to 5100. Turning to poor-rate statistics we
find that in 1870 the number of paupers to
every thousand of the population was over
47. It had been as high as 52. Since then
it has fallen to 22, and in a parenthesis I
may say I am proud to find that in the
metropolis we are substantially below the
average. The proportion, therefore, is less
than one-half of what it used to be. Our
annual expenditure on the poor from rates is
£8,000,000, and, supposing it had remained
at the former rate, it would have been over
£16,000,000, or £8,000,000 more than the
present amount. If, then, we were now pay-
ing at the same rate as twenty years ago,
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the cost of our criminals would have been
£4,000,000 more than it is, and our poor-rate
£8,000,000 larger.
I may add that the statistics of the worst
crimes are even more remarkable and satis-
factory. The yearly average of persons sen-
tenced to penal servitude in the five years
ending in 1864 was 2800, and that number
has steadily fallen, being for last year only
729, or but one quarter, notwithstanding the
increase of population. In fact eight of our
convict prisons have become unnecessary, and
have been applied to other purposes.
As showing the close connection of crime
and ignorance, I may also observe that ac-
cording to the last returns which I have been
able to obtain, out of 157,000 persons com-
mitted to prison there were only 5000 who
could read and write well, and only 250 who
were what could be called educated persons.
The following table1 illustrates in a strik-
ing manner the great and progressive decrease
in the number of sentences for serious crime,
and it will be seen that the figures are all the
1 Rep. of the Dir. of Convict Prisons, 1893.
NATIONAL EDUCATION-
101
more striking because,. while $he
criminals has been falling, the population, on
the other hand, has been rapidly rising : —
Yearly average number of persons sentenced on
indictment to penal servitude in England and
Wales.
During 5 years ending —
31st December 1859
2589
19,257,000
Do 1864
2800
20,370,000
Do 1869
1978
21,681,000
Do. 1874
Do 1879
1622
1633
23,088,000
24,700,000
Do 1884 . ...
1427
26,313,251
Do 1889 . .
945
27,830,179
Do 1892
791
29,055,550
Estimated
average
population of
England and
Wales.
It will not, however, I hope, be supposed
that I should look at the question as a mere
matter of £ s. d. I have only referred to
this consideration as a reply to them who
object on the score of expense.
Of course, I am aware that various allow-
ances would have to be made, that other
circumstances have to be taken into consider-
ation, and that these figures cannot claim any
102 .WT?BL.UTSJE OF LIFE CHAP.
Scientific-; accuracy ; «at fche same time they
are interesting and very satisfactory.
The fact is that only a fraction of the crime
of the country arises from deliberate wicked-
ness or irresistible temptation ; the great
sources of crime are drink and ignorance.
The happy results which have been obtained
are due, not only to the good which the chil-
dren learn in school, the habits of cleanliness
and order which they acquire, but to the fact
that they are not learning the evil lessons of
the streets, but are protected from the fatal
teaching and example of the criminal and
the loafer.
We are beginning then to feel the advan-
tage of Education in the diminution of the
poor-rate1 and the emptying of our prisons,
showing the diminution of paupers and crim-
inals, and especially, I may add, of juvenile
crime.
It may, however, well be doubted whether
we have yet devised the best system of educa-
tion. There are three great questions which
1 Of course I am here speaking of the rate for the mainte-
nance of the poor. Many other expenses are included in what
is technically called the "poor-rate."
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in life we have over and over again to answer.
Is it right or wrong ? Is it true or false ? Is
it beautiful or ugly ? Our education ought
to help us to answer these questions.
Nearly two centuries ago Bacon spoke of
those who " call upon men to sell their books
and buy furnaces, forsaking Minerva and the
Muses as barren virgins, and relying upon
Vulcan." We must not forsake Minerva and
the Muses, but yet we have never sufficiently
based our education on the Bible of Nature.
Reading and Writing, Arithmetic and Gram-
mar do not constitute Education, any more
than a knife, fork, and spoon constitute a din-
ner. Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob could neither
read nor write, and probably were quite igno-
rant of the rule of three.
I have been often accused of attacking clas-
sical education. This, however, I have never
done. The Classics are a most important
part of education, which it would be absurd
to undervalue or neglect, but they are not
the whole, and our Education, as Charles
Buxton observed, " too often consists in merely
learning the words which dead gentlemen of
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2000 years ago would have used." To neg-
lect other subjects is, to use Cicero's meta-
phor, as if a man took care of his right side
only, and neglected the left. Much of our
so-called classical education is, however, not
even classical. So much attention and time
are devoted to the grammar, that the sense
of the Classical writers is lost. It is, in fact,
a branch of Science, viz. Grammar, — not,
however, always taught scientifically, or in
the most interesting manner. Moreover, in
our present system our boys are not taught
to speak Latin or Greek ; and as a climax of
absurdity, as a last precaution to render the
instruction as useless as possible, they are
trained to pronounce the words very differ-
ently from the Romans or Greeks themselves,
or indeed for the people of any other country,
and even from the Scotch.
The system fails to give any love of Classi-
cal literature. Thackeray, in his notes of a
journey from Cornhill to Cairo, imagines the
Greek Muse coming to him and asking if he
were not charmed to find himself at Athens,
to which he replies with more truth than
vi NATIONAL EDUCATION 105
politeness, " Madam, your company in youth
was made so laboriously disagreeable to me
that I cannot at present reconcile myself to
you in age."
But important as they are, the Classics are
only one side of Education. The very ex-
pression " Literae humaniores " shows how
much in the old view Education should be
allied to human sympathy — to the wider kins-
manship which unites man to man. Shake-
speare, we are told, had " small Latin and less
Greek." Books, even with all the help they
can receive from meditation and discourse,
can supply only part of education. The boy
who has studied books only, who knows noth-
ing of Nature, nothing of the world in which
we live, cannot grow into a whole man ; he
can never be more than a mere fraction.
It has, moreover, been justly observed that
much of our so-called education is " like read-
ing a treatise on Botany to a flower-bed, to
make the plants grow." l
We have not only much to learn, but much
to unlearn.
1 Guesses at Truth.
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While making these remarks I am far in-
deed from being ungrateful to schoolmasters.
Theirs is a most laborious, exhausting, and
responsible profession. Nothing is more de-
lightful than playing with children. To teach
them is a different matter.
To give instruction in grammar and arith-
metic is perhaps fairly easy. " Yes, this is
easy ; but to help the young soul, add energy,
inspire hope, and blow the coals into a useful
flame ; to redeem defeat by new thought, by
firm action, that is not easy, that is the work
of divine men." 1
Education is not intended to make Lawyers
or Clergymen, Soldiers or Schoolmasters,
Farmers or Artisans, but Men.. "I call a
complete and generous education," said Mil-
ton, "that which fits a man to perform
justly, skilfully, and magnanimously all the
offices, both private and public, of peace and
war."
Philosophers have always been too ready
to suppose that questions of fact can be
settled by verbal considerations. Plutarch
1 Emerson.
vi NATIONAL EDUCATION 107
has an amusing discussion on the question,
Which came first ? the Hen or the. Egg ?
and one consideration brought forward is
that the hen came first, because every one
speaks of a hen's egg and no one says an
egg's hen.
It cannot be right to let our children grow
up, so that
" Unknown to them the subtle skill
With which the artist eye can trace
In rock and tree, and lake and hill,
The outlines of divinest grace." l
" If any imagine," says Jefferies, " that
they will find thought in many books, they
will be disappointed. Thought dwells by
the stream and sea, by the hill and in the
woodland, in the sunlight and free wind."
Unfortunately, however, the streams and
sea, the forests and sunlight and fresh air,
are less accessible to us than we could wish.
Moreover, thought no doubt dwells in books
too. But they must be used with judgment.
Language is a very imperfect instrument of
expression. It is not every boy that grows
i Whittier.
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into a man. Even the truths of Arithmetic
must be used with caution.
It is probably from the defects in our
system, which I have just alluded to, that
so many fail to carry on any systematic self-
education after leaving school. No doubt
we go on learning as long as we live : " Live
and learn," says the old proverb ; but the
question is whether we learn in a haphazard
manner scraps of information which we light
on in a newspaper or in a novel ; or whether
we carry on anything which can fairly be
called self -training and education.
I have elsewhere 1 given the views of one
high authority as to what might reasonably
be expected, and will here quote the very
similar opinion given by Professor Huxley : —
" Such education should enable an average
boy of fifteen or sixteen to read and write
his own language with ease and accuracy,
and with a sense of literary excellence de-
rived from the study of our classic writers :
to have a general acquaintance with the his-
tory of his own country and with the great
1 The Pleasures of Life.
vi NATIONAL EDUCATION 109
laws of social existence, to have acquired the
rudiments of the physical and psychological
sciences, and a fair knowledge of elementary
arithmetic and geometry. He should have
obtained an acquaintance with logic rather
by example than by precept; while the ac-
quirements of the elements of music and
drawing should have been pleasure rather
than work."
Such information is most interesting.
Many of us have felt with John Hunter, the
great anatomist, and could say that " As a
boy, I wanted to know about the clouds and
the grasses, and why the leaves changed
colour in the Autumn. I watched the Ants,
Bees, Birds, Tadpoles, and Caddis Worms ;
I pestered people with questions about what
nobody knew or cared anything about."
" I will only," observes Locke in his treatise
on Education, " say this one thing concern-
ing books, that however it has got the name,
yet converse with books is not, in my opinion,
the principal part of study ; there are two
others which ought to be joined with it, each
whereof contributes their share to our im-
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provement in knowledge ; and those are
meditation and discourse. Reading, me-
thinks, is but collecting the rough materials,
amongst which a great deal must be laid
aside as useless. Meditation is, as it were,
choosing and fitting the materials, framing
the timbers, squaring and laying the stones,
and raising the buildings ; and discourse with
a friend (for wrangling in a dispute is of little
use) is, as it were, surveying the structure,
walking in the rooms, and observing the
symmetry and agreement of the parts, tak-
ing notice of the solidity or defects of the
works, and the best way to find out and
correct what is amiss ; besides that it helps
often to discover truths, and fix them in our
minds as much as either of the other two."
CHAPTER VII
SELF-EDUCATION
EDUCATION is the harmonious development
of all our faculties. It begins in the nursery,
and goes on at school, but does not end there.
It continues through life, whether we will or
not. The only question is whether what we
learn in after life is wisely chosen or picked
up haphazard. " Every person," says Gibbon,
" has two educations, one which he receives
from others, and one more important, which
he gives himself."
What we teach ourselves must indeed
always be more useful than what we learn of
others. " Nobody," said Locke, " ever went
far in knowledge, or became eminent in any
of the Sciences, by the discipline and restraint
of a Master."
You cannot, even if you would, keep your
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112 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
heart empty swept and garnished ; the only
question is whether you will prepare it for
good or evil.
Those who have not distinguished them-
selves at school need not on that account be
discouraged. The greatest minds do not
necessarily ripen the quickest. If, indeed,
you have not taken pains, then, though I will
not say that you should be discouraged, still
you should be ashamed ; but if you have done
your best, you have only to persevere ; and
many of those who have never been able to
distinguish themselves at school, have been
very successful in after life. We are told
that Wellington and Napoleon were both dull
boys, and the same is said to have been the
case with Sir Isaac Newton, Dean Swift,
Clive, Sir Walter Scott, Sheridan, Burns, and
many other eminent men.
Evidently then it does not follow that those
who have distinguished themselves least at
school have benefited least.
Genius has been described as "an infinite
capacity for taking pains," which is not very
far from the truth. As Lilly quaintly says,
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" If Nature plays not her part, in vain is
Labour ; yet if Studie be not employed, in
vain is Nature."
On the other hand, many brilliant and
clever boys, for want of health, industry, or
character, have unfortunately been failures in
after life, as Goethe said, " like plants which
bear double flowers, but no fruit ; " and have
sunk to driving a cab, shearing sheep in Aus-
tralia, or writing for a bare subsistence ; while
the comparatively slow but industrious and
high-principled boys have steadily risen and
filled honourable positions with credit to them-
selves and advantage to their country.
Doubts as to the value of education have
in some cases arisen, as Dr. Arnold says, from
"that strange confusion between ignorance
and innocence with which many people seem
to solace themselves. Whereas, if you take
away a man's knowledge, you do not bring
him to the state of an infant, but to that of
a brute ; and of one of the most mischievous
and malignant of the brute creation," l for,
as he points out elsewhere, if men neglect
1 Arnold's Christian Life.
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that which should be the guide of their lives,
they become the slaves of their passions, and
are left with the evils of both ages — the igno-
rance of the Child, and the vices of the Man.
No one whose Education was well started
at school would let it stop. It is a very low
view of Education to suppose that we should
study merely to serve a paltry convenience,
that we should confine it to what the Germans
call "bread and butter" studies.
The object of a wise education is in the
words of Solomon —
" To know wisdom and instruction ;
To perceive the words of understanding ;
To receive the instruction of wisdom,
Justice, and judgment, and equity ;
To give subtlety to the simple,
To the young man knowledge and discretion." l
A man, says Thoreau, " will go considerably
out of his way to pick up a silver dollar; but
here are golden words, which the wisest Men
of Antiquity have uttered, and whose worth
the wise of every succeeding age have assured
us of."
1 Proverbs.
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A sad French proverb says, " Si jeunesse
savait, si viellesse pouvait ; " and a wise edu-
cation will tend to provide us with both requi-
sites, with knowledge in youth and strength
in age. Experience, said Franklin, " is a dear
school, but fools will learn in no other."
It is half the battle to make a good start
in life.
" Train up a child in the way he should go ;
And when he is old, he will not depart from it."
Begin well, and it will be easier and easier
as you go on. On the other hand, if you
make a false start it is far from easy to re-
trieve your position. It is difficult to learn,
but still more difficult to unlearn.
Try to fix in your mind what is best in
books, in men, in ideas, and in institutions.
We need not be ashamed if others know more
than we do ; but we ought to be ashamed if
we have not learnt all we can.
Education does not consist merely in study-
ing languages and learning a number of facts.
It is something very different from, and
higher than, mere instruction. Instruction
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stores up for future use, but education sows
seed which will bear fruit, some thirty, some
sixty, some one hundred fold.
" Wisdom is the principal thing ; therefore get wis-
dom:
And with all thy getting get understanding." l
Knowledge is admittedly very inferior to
wisdom, but yet I must say that she has some-
times received very scant justice. We are
told, for instance, that
" Knowledge is proud that she has learnt so much ;
Wisdom is humble that she knows no more." 2
But this is not so. Those who have learnt
most, are best able to realise how little they
know.
Even Bishop Butler tells us that " Men of
deep research and curious inquiry should just
be put in mind, not to mistake what they are
doing. If their discoveries serve the cause
of virtue and religion, in the way of proof,
motive to practice, or assistance in it ; or if
they tend to render life less unhappy, and
promote its satisfactions ; then they are most
1 Proverbs. 2 Cowper.
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usefully employed : but bringing things to
light, alone and of itself, is of no manner of
use, any otherwise than as an entertainment
or diversion."
It has again been unjustly said that knowl-
edge is
" A rude unprofitable mass,
The mere materials with which wisdom builds."
He would be a poor architect, however, who
was careless in the choice of materials, and
no one can say what the effect of " bringing
things to light " may be. Many steps in
knowledge, which at the time seemed practi-
cally useless, have proved most valuable.
Knowledge is power. " Knowledge of the
electric telegraph saves time; knowledge of
writing saves human speech and locomotion ;
knowledge of domestic economy saves income ;
knowledge of sanitary laws saves health and
life ; knowledge of the laws of the intellect
saves wear and tear of brain ; and knowledge
of the laws of the Spirit — what does it not
save?"1
" For direct self-preservation," says Herbert
1 Kingsley.
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Spencer, "or the maintenance of life and
health, the all-important knowledge is —
Science ; for that indirect self-preservation
which we call gaining a livelihood, the knowl-
edge of greatest value is — Science. For the
due discharge of parental functions, the proper
guidance is to be found only in — Science.
For that interpretation of national life, past
and present, without which the citizen cannot
rightly regulate his conduct, the indispensable
key is — Science. Alike for the most perfect
production and highest enjoyment of Art in
all its forms, the needful preparation is still
— Science. And for purposes of discipline —
intellectual, moral, religious — the most effi-
cient study is, once more — Science."
" When I look back," says Dr. Fitch, " on
my own life, and think on the long past
school and college days, I know well that
there is not a fact in history, not a formula in
mathematics, not a rule in grammar, not a
sweet and pleasant verse of poetry, not a
truth in science which I ever learned, which
has not come to me over and over again in
the most unexpected ways, and proved to be
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of greater use than I could ever have believed.
It has helped me to understand better the
books I read, the history of events which are
occurring round me, and to make the, whole
outlook of life larger and more interesting."
Lastly, I will quote Dean Stanley. " Pure
love of truth," he says, " how very rare and
yet how very beneficent ! We do not see its
merits at once : we do not perceive, perhaps,
in this or the next generation, how widely
happiness is increased in the world by the
discoveries of men of science, who have pur-
sued them simply and solely because they
were attracted towards them by their single-
minded love of what was true." 1 Well then
may Solomon say that
" A wise man will hear, and will increase learning." 2
There is hardly any piece of information
which will not corne in useful, hardly any-
thing which is not worth seeing at least
once. There are in reality no little things,
only little minds.
"Knowledge is like the mystic ladder in
1 Stanley's Life. 2 Proverbs.
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the Patriarch's dream. Its base rests on the
primeval earth — its crest is lost in the
shadowy splendour of the empyrean ; while
the great authors who for traditionary ages
have held the chain of science and philosophy,
of poesy and erudition, are the angels ascend-
ing and descending the sacred scale, and
maintaining, as it were, the communication
between earth and heaven." l
It is sad, however, to remember in how
many cases the authors of great discoveries
are unknown ; sad, not on their account, but
because we should wish to remember them
with gratitude. Great discoverers have sel-
dom worked for themselves, or for the sake
of fame.
"For Truth with tireless zeal they sought;
In joyless paths they trod :
Heedless of praise or blame they wrought,
And left the rest to God.
" But though their names no poet wove
In deathless song or story,
Their record is inscribed above;
Their wreaths are crowns of glory." r*
1 Lord Beaconsfield. 2 Dewart.
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Attention and application to your studies
are absolutely necessary to the enjoyment of
life. If you give only half your mind to what
you are doing, it will cost you twice as much
labour.
It is sad to think how little intellectual
enjoyment has yet added to the happiness of
Man, and yet the very word school (o^oX-ty)
meant originally rest or enjoyment. It is
most important, says Mr. J. Morley, "both
for happiness and for duty, that we should
habitually live with wise thoughts and right
feelings."
The brain of Man should be
" The Dome of thought, the Palace of the Soul." J
We are, says Donne,
" We are but farmers of ourselves, yet may,
If we can stock ourselves and thrive, uplay
Much good treasure for the great rent day."
There is much in the creed of Positivists
with which I cannot agree, but they have a
noble motto — " L' amour pour principe, 1'or-
dre pour base, et le progres pour but."
1 Byron.
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There are, however, says Emerson, many
"innocent men who worship God after the
tradition of their fathers, but whose sense of
duty has not extended to the use of all their
faculties."
Man measures everything by himself. The
greatest mountain heights, and the depth of
the ocean, in feet ; our very system of arith-
metical notation is founded on the number of
our fingers. And yet what poor creatures we
are ! What poor creatures we are, and how
great we might be ! What is a man ? and
what is a man not ?
A man, says Pascal, is " res cogitans, id
est dubitans, affirmans, negens, pauca intelli-
gens, multa ignorans, volens, nolens, imagi-
nans etiam, et sentiens."
Man, he says elsewhere, " is but a reed, the
feeblest thing in Nature ; but he is a reed that
thinks (un roseau pensant). It needs not that
the Universe arm itself to crush him. An
exhalation, a drop of water, suffices to destroy
him. But were the Universe to crush him,
Man is yet nobler than the Universe, for he
knows that he dies ; and the Universe, even
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in prevailing against him, knows not its
power."
What qualities are essential for the perfect-
ing of a human being ? A cool head, a warm
heart, a sound judgment, and a healthy body.
Without a cool head we are apt to form hasty
conclusions, without a warm heart we are
sure to be selfish, without a sound body we
can do but little, while even the best inten-
tions without sound judgment may do more
harm than good.
If we wish to praise a friend we say that
he is a perfect gentleman. What is it to be
a gentleman ? asked Thackeray, " is it to be
honest, to be gentle, to be brave, to be wise ;
and possessing all these qualities, to exercise
them in the most graceful outward manner ?"
A gentleman, he adds, " is a rarer thing than
some of us think for." Kings can give titles,
but they cannot make gentlemen. We can
all, however, be noble if we choose.
" That man," says Archdeacon Farrar, " ap-
proaches most nearly to such perfection as is
attainable in human life whose body has been
kept in vigorous health by temperance, so-
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berness, and chastity ; whose mind is a rich
storehouse of the wisdom learned both from
experience and from the noblest thoughts
which his fellow- men have uttered ; whose
imagination is a picture gallery of all things
pure and beautiful ; whose conscience is at
peace with itself, with God, and with all the
world, and in whose spirit the Divine Spirit
finds a fitting temple wherein to dwell."
The true method of self-education, says
John Stuart Mill, is " to question all things :
never to turn away from any difficulty ; to
accept no doctrine either from ourselves or
from other people without a rigid scrutiny by
negative criticism ; letting no fallacy or in-
coherence or confusion of thought, step by
unperceived ; above all, to insist upon having
the meaning of a word clearly understood
before using it, and the meaning of a preposi-
tion before assenting to it : — these are the
lessons we learn." And these lessons we
might all learn.
In the earlier stages of Education at any
rate all men might be equal ; neither rank
nor wealth give any substantial advantage.
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Sir W. Jones said of himself that with
the fortune of a peasant, he gave himself the
education of a prince. It was long ago re-
marked that there was no royal road to learn-
ing : or rather perhaps it might more truly
be said that all roads are royal. And how
great is the prize ! Education lights up the
History of the World and makes it one bright
path of progress ; it enables us to appreciate
the literature of the world ; it opens for us
the book of Nature, and creates sources of
interest wherever we find ourselves.
And if we cannot hope that it should ever
be said of us that
" He was a man, take him for all in all,
I shall not look upon his like again," l
it might at any rate be true that
" He hath a daily beauty in his life,"
for have we not all immortal longings in us ?
If Education has not been in all cases suc-
cessful, this has been the fault not of educa-
tion itself, but of the spirit in which it has
been too often undertaken. " For men have
1 Shakespeare.
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entered into a desire of learning and knowl-
edge sometimes upon a natural curiosity and
inquisitive appetite, sometimes to entertain
their minds with variety and delight, some-
times for ornament and reputation, but seldom
sincerely to give a true account of their gift
of reason to the benefit and use of men. As
if there were sought in knowledge a couch
whereupon to rest a searching and restless
spirit ; or a terrace for a wandering and vari-
able mind to walk up and down with a fair
prospect ; or a tower of state for a proud
mind to rest itself upon ; or a fort or com-
manding ground for strife and contention ; or
a shop of profit or sale, and not a rich store-
house for the glory of the Creator and the
relief of man's estate." *
1 Bacon.
CHAPTER VIII
ON LIBRARIES
A GREAT countryman of ours, Richard de
Bury, Bishop of Durham, writing in praise of
books more than five hundred years ago, well
said : " These are the masters who instruct
us without rods and ferules, without hard
words and anger, without clothes or money.
If you approach them, they are not asleep ;
if, investigating, you interrogate them, they
conceal nothing ; if you mistake them, they
never grumble ; if you are ignorant, they can-
not laugh at you. The library, therefore, of
wisdom is more precious than all riches, and
nothing that can be wished for is worthy to
be compared with it. Whosoever, therefore,
acknowledges himself to be a zealous follower
of truth, of happiness, of wisdom, of science.
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or even of the faith, must of necessity make
himself a lover of books."
And if he could say this with truth so long
ago, how much more may we do so. Let us
just consider how much better off we are than
he was then. In the first place, to say noth-
ing of the advantages of print, how much
cheaper books are. For the price of a little
beer, or one or two pipes of tobacco, a man
can buy as much as he can read in a month ;
in his day, on the contrary, books were very
expensive. Again, while our books are small
and handy, theirs were ponderous, immense,
very inconvenient either to hold or read.
Even our most learned books are in one sense
light reading. But, what is far more im-
portant, we have not only all the most inter-
esting books which De Bury could command,
but many more also. Even of ancient litera-
ture, much had been lost and has been re-
discovered. In his day one might almost
say that the novel was unknown. As regards
Poetry he lived before Shakespeare or Milton,
Scott or Byron, to say nothing of living more
recent authors. We have the interesting and
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exciting voyages of Captain Cook, Darwin,
Humboldt, and many other great travellers
and explorers. In science, chemistry and
geology have been created, and indeed the
progress of discovery has made all the other
sciences, — natural history, astronomy, geog-
raphy, etc., — far more interesting.
Schopenhauer has observed that though his
Science never brought him in any income, it
had saved him a great deal of expense. As
a nation, we must gratefully admit that
science has not only enormously increased
our income, but has greatly reduced our ex-
penditure in various ways. Money spent on
schools, libraries, and museums is rather an
investment than an expense. We do not,
however, advocate schools and Public Libra-
ries because they save our pockets, but
because they do so much to lighten and
brighten the lives of our fellow-citizens.
There is but little amusement in the lives
of the very poor.
I have been good-humouredly laughed at
more than once for having expressed the
opinion that in the next generation the
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great readers would be our artisans and
mechanics.
Bat is not the continued increase of Pub-
lic Libraries an argument in support of my
contention ? Before a Free Library can be
started a popular vote must be taken, and
we know that the clergy and the lawyers,
the doctors and the mercantile men, form
but a small fraction of the voters. The Pub-
lic Libraries are called into being by the
artisan and the small shopkeeper, and it is
by them that they are mainly used. Books
are peculiarly necessary to the working-men
in our towns. Their life is one of much
monotony. The savage has a far more
varied existence. He must watch the habits
of the game he hunts, their migrations and
feeding-grounds ; he must know where and
how to fish; every month brings him some
fresh occupation and some change of food.
He must prepare his weapons and build his
own house; even the lighting of a fire, so
easy now, is to him a matter of labour and
skill. The agricultural labourer turns his
hand to many things. He ploughs and sows,
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mows and reaps. He plants at one season,
uses the bill-hook and the axe at another.
He looks after the sheep and pigs and cows.
To hold the plough, to lay a fence, or tie up
a sheaf, is* by no means so easy as it looks.
It is said of Wordsworth that a stranger
having on one occasion asked to see his
study, the maid said : " This is master's
room, but he studies in the fields." The
agricultural labourer learns a great deal in
the fields. He knows much more than we give
him credit for, only it is field-learning, not
book-learning — and none the worse for that.
But the man who works in a shop or man-
ufactory has a much more monotonous life.
He is confined to one process, or, perhaps,
even one part of a process, from year's end
to year's end. He acquires, no doubt, a skill
little short of miraculous, but, on the other
hand, very narrow. If he is not himself to
become a mere animated machine, he must
generally obtain, and in some cases he can
only obtain, the necessary variety and inter-
est from the use of books. There is happily
now some tendency to shorten the hours of
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labour, except, indeed, in shops, and what is
less satisfactory, there are times when work
is slack. But the hours of leisure should not
be hours of idleness; leisure is one of the
grandest blessings, idleness one of the greatest
curses — one is the source of happiness, the
other of misery. Suppose a poor man has
for a few days no work, what is he to do ?
How is he to employ his time? If he has
access to a Library it need no longer be lost.
The reasons for educating our children
apply equally to the grown-up. We have
now all over the country good elementary
schools. We do our best to educate our chil-
dren. We teach them to read, and try to
give them a love of reading. Why do we do
this? Because we believe that no one can
study without being the better for it, that
it tends to make the man the better work-
man, and the workman the better man. But
education ought never to stop, and the library
is the school for the grown-up. There is a
story that King Alfred, when a child, once
set his heart on a book. " He shall have thet
book," said his mother, "when he can read
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it ; " and by that title Alfred won it. Our
children have learnt to read ; have they not
also the same title to books ? Many of those
who are not Socialists in the ordinary sense,
would be so if they thought Socialism would
have the effect which its advocates anticipate.
It is because we do not believe that Socialism
in the ordinary sense would promote "the
greatest good of the greatest number," that
we are not Socialists. But the difficulties we
feel do not apply to books. It is said that
a poor woman on seeing the Sea for the first
time was delighted. " It was grand," she
said, "to see something of which there was
enough for everybody." Well, there are
books enough for every one, and the best
books are the cheapest. Reading is a pleas-
ure as to which wealth gives scarcely any
advantage. This applies to few other things.
We who are engaged in the "puzzle of busi-
ness " seem always to wish for rather more
than we have. But in books fortune showers
on us more than we can possibly use.
We are beginning to realise that education
should last through life, that the education
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of our children should not be a mere matter
of grammar and of words, but should include
some training of the hand and eye ; so, on
the other hand, the life of the grown-up
man and woman should not be altogether
devoted to work with the hands, to the pur-
suit of money, but they should devote some
time to the acquisition of knowledge, and the
improvement of their minds. Why should
not every one, moreover, add something to
the sum of human knowledge ? however hum-
ble his lot in life, he may do so. We do
not yet appreciate the dignity of manual
labour, and there seems a general impression
that science is something up in the clouds ;
all very well for philosophers and geniuses,
and those who have the means of buying ex-
pensive apparatus, but for them only. This
is quite a mistake. To whom do we owe our
national progress ? Partly, no doubt, to wise
sovereigns and statesmen, partly to our brave
Army and Navy, partly to the gallant ex-
plorers who paved the way to our Colonial
Empire, partly to students and philosophers.
But while we remember with gratitude all
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they have accomplished, we must not forget
that the British workman, besides all he has
done with his strong right arm, has used his
brains also to great advantage.
Watt was a mechanical engineer ; Henry
Cort, whose improvements in manufactures
are said to have added more to the wealth
of England than the whole value of the
national debt, was the son of a brickmaker;
Huntsman, the inventor of cast steel, was a
poor watchmaker ; Crompton was a weaver ;
Wedgwood was a potter ; Brindley, Telford,
Mushat, and Neilson were working men;
George Stephenson began life as a cowboy at
twopence a day, and could not read till he
was eighteen ; Dalton was the son of a poor
weaver; Faraday of a blacksmith; Newco-
men of a blacksmith ; Arkwright began life
as a barber ; Sir Humphrey Davy was an
apothecary's apprentice ; Boulton, " the father
of Birmingham," was a button-maker; and
Watt the son of a carpenter. To these men,
and others like them, the world owes a deep
debt of gratitude. We ought to be as proud of
them as of our great generals and statesmen.
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We often hear of " civilised nations/' and
no doubt some are more civilised than others.
But no country is yet even approximately en-
titled to the name. We must try to make
ours a real civilisation, and the establishment
of libraries is certainly one step forwards in
the right direction.
When Household Suffrage was passed, Lord
Sherbrooke remarked that we must educate
our masters, but it is even more important to
enable them to educate themselves.
There are many whose birth is a sentence
of hard labour for life ; but it does not follow
that their life should on that account be un-
happy or uninteresting. Only if they have
few amusements, and little variety in their
lives, all the more desirable is it that they
should have access to good books.
One of our greatest men of science, Sir
John Herschel, has told us that : " Were I to
pray for a taste that should stand me in stead
under every variety of circumstances, and be
a source of happiness and cheerfulness to me
during life, and a shield against its ills, how-
ever things might go amiss, and the world
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frown upon me, it would be a taste for read-
ing. Give a man this taste, and the means
of gratifying it, and you can hardly fail of
making him a happy man ; unless, indeed,
you put into his hands a most perverse selec-
tion of books. You place him in contact
with the best society in every period of his-
tory, with the wisest, the wittiest, the tender-
est, the bravest, and the purest characters
which have adorned humanity. You make
him a denizen of all nations, a contemporary
of all ages. The world has been created for
him."
Books are almost living beings. " Books,"
said Milton, " do contain a progeny of life in
them, as active as that soul was whose pro-
geny they are." Great writers at any rate
never die.
" He is not dead whose glorious mind
Lifts thine on high.
To live in hearts we leave behind,
Is not to die."
The Duke of Urbino, who founded the
great library there, made it a rule that every
book should be bound in crimson, ornamented
with silver.
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Books are the accumulated treasures of
by-gone ages. Lamb used to say that there
was more reason for saying grace before a
new book, than before a dinner.
When, moreover, we remember how much
is spent on drink, certainly no one can accuse
us of extravagance on books. How little our
libraries cost us as compared with our cel-
lars! Most people look a long time at the
best book before they would give the price of
a bottle of wine for it. It is rather sad to
think that when we speak of a public-house,
we always think of a place for the sale of
drink. I am glad, however, to know that on
all sides public-houses are now rising for the
supply, not of beer, but of books.
CHAPTER IX
ON READING
BOOKS are to Mankind what Memory is
to the Individual. They contain the History
of our race, the discoveries we have made,
the accumulated knowledge and experience
of ages ; they picture for us the marvels and
beauties of Nature ; help us in our difficulties,
comfort us in sorrow and in suffering, change
hours of ennui into moments of delight, store
our minds with ideas, fill them with good and
happy thoughts, and lift us out of and above
ourselves.
There is an Oriental story of two men : one
was a king, who every night dreamt he was
a beggar ; the other was a beggar, who every
night dreamt he was a prince and lived in a
palace. I am not sure that the king had very
much the best of it. Imagination is some-
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times more vivid than reality. But, however
this may be, when we read, we may not only
(if we wish it) be kings and live in palaces,
but, what is far better, we may transport
ourselves to the mountains or the seashore,
and visit the most beautiful parts of the earth,
without fatigue, inconvenience, or expense.
"Give me," says Fletcher —
" Leave to enjoy myself. That place that does
Contain my books, the best companions, is
To me a glorious court, where hourly I
Converse with the old sages and philosophers ;
And sometimes for variety I confer
With kings and emperors, and weigh their counsels ;
Calling their victories, if unjustly got,
Into a strict account ; and in my fancy
Deface their ill-placed statues. Can I then
Part with such constant pleasures, to embrace
Uncertain vanities ? No, be it your care
To augment a heap of wealth ; it shall be mine
To increase in knowledge."
Books have often been compared to friends.
But among our living companions, inexorable
Death often carries off the best and brightest.
In books, on the contrary, time kills the bad,
and purifies the good.
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" The wise
(Minstrels or sage) out of their books are clay ;
And in their books, as from their graves, they rise
Angels, — that side by side, upon our way,
Walk with and warn us !
We call some books immortal. Do they live ?
If so, believe me, Time hath made them pure,
In books, the veriest wicked rest in peace —
God wills that nothing evil should endure ;
The grosser parts fly off and leave the whole,
As the dust leaves the disembodied soul." l
Many of those who have had, as we say, all
that this world can give, have yet told us they
owed much of their purest happiness to books.
Ascham, in Tlie Schoolmaster, tells a touching
story of his last visit to Lady Jane Grey. He
found her sitting in an oriel window read-
ing Plato's beautiful account of the death of
Socrates. Her father and mother were hunt-
ing in the Park, the hounds were in full cry
and their voices came in through the open
window. He expressed his surprise that she
had not joined them. But, said she, " I wist
that all their pleasure in the Park is but a
shadow to the pleasure I find in Plato."
Macaulay had wealth and fame, rank and
1 Bulwer Lytton.
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power, and yet he tells us in his biography
that he owed the happiest hours of his life to
books. In a charming letter to a little girl,
he says, "Thank you for your very pretty
letter. I am always glad to make my little
girl happy, and nothing pleases me so much
as to see that she likes books, for when she
is as old as I am she will find that they are
better than all the tarts and cakes, toys and
plays, and sights in the world. If any one
would make me the greatest king that ever
lived, with palaces and gardens and fine din-
ners, and wines and coaches, and beautiful
clothes, and hundreds of servants, on con-
dition that I should not read books, I would
not be a king. I would rather be a poor man
in a garret with plenty of books than a king
who did not love reading."
Books, indeed, endow us with a whole en-
chanted palace of thoughts. There is a wider
prospect, says Jean Paul Richter, from Par-
nassus than from the throne. In one way
they give us an even more vivid idea than
the actual reality, just as reflections are often
more beautiful than real Nature. All mirrors,
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says George Macdonald, " are magic mirrors.
The commonest room is a room in a poem
when I look in the glass."
If a book does not interest us it does not
follow that the fault is in the book. There
is a certain art in reading. Passive reading
is of very little use. We must try to realise
what we read. Everybody thinks they know
how to read and write ; whereas very few
people write well, or really know how to
read. It is not enough to recognise the
mere words on the paper, to read listlessly
or mechanically ; we must endeavour to
realise the scenes described, and the persons
who are mentioned, to picture them in the
" Gallery of the imagination." " Learning,"
says Ascham, " teacheth more in one year
than experience in twenty; and learning
teacheth safely when experience maketh
more miserable than wise. He hazardeth
sore that waxeth wise by experience. An
unhappy shipmaster is he that is made cun-
ning by many shipwrecks, a miserable mer-
chant that is neither rich nor wise but after
some bankrouts. It is costly wisdom that is
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CHAP.
bought by experience. We know by experi-
ence itself that it is a marvellous pain to
find out but a short way by long wandering.
And surely he that would prove wise by ex-
perience, he may be witty indeed, but even
like a swift runner, that runneth fast out of
his way, and upon the night, he knoweth not
whither. And, verily, they be fewest in num-
ber that be happy or wiser by unlearned expe-
rience. And look well upon the former life
of those few, whether your example be old or
young, who without learning have gathered,
by long experience, a little wisdom and some
happiness : and when you do consider what
mischief they have committed, what dangers
they have escaped (and yet twenty to one
do perish in the adventure), then think well
with yourself, whether ye would that your
own son should come to wisdom and happi-
ness by the way of such experience or no."
The choice of books, like that of friends,
is a serious duty. We are as responsible for
what we read as for what we do. A good
book, in the noble words of Milton, " is the
precious life-blood of a master spirit, em-
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balmed and treasured up on purpose to a
life beyond life."
Ruskin in his chapter on the Education
of Girls well says, " Let us be sure that her
books are not heaped up in her lap as they
fall out of the package of the circulating
library, wet with the last and lightest spray
of the fount of folly."
To get the greatest amount, I will not
merely say of benefit, but even of enjoyment,
from books, we must read for improvement
rather than for amusement. Light and en-
tertaining books are valuable, just as sugar
is an important article of food, especially for
children, but we cannot live upon it.
Moreover, there are books which are no
books, and to read which is mere waste of
time ; while there are others so bad, that we
cannot read them without pollution ; which
if they were men we should kick into the
street. There are cases in which it is well
to be warned against the temptations and
dangers of life, but anything which familiar-
ises us with evil, is itself an evil.
So also there are others, happily many
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others, which no one can read without being
the better for them. By useful literature we
do not mean that only which will help a man
in his business or profession. That is useful,
no doubt, but by no means the highest use
of books. The best books elevate us into a
region of disinterested thought where per-
sonal objects fade into insignificance, and
the troubles and the anxieties of the world
are almost forgotten.
Interruptions at such a time are a positive
cruelty, against which Hamerton makes a
pathetic protest. "Suppose a reader per-
fectly absorbed in his author, an author be-
longing very likely to another age and
another civilisation entirely different from
ours. Suppose you are reading the Defence
of Socrates in Plato, and have the whole
scene before you as in a picture : the tribunal
of the five hundred, the pure Greek archi-
tecture, the interested Athenian public, the
odious Melitus, the envious enemies, the be-
loved and grieving friends whose names are
dear to us and immortal ; and in the centre
you see one figure draped like a poor man,
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in cheap and common cloth, that he wears
winter and summer, with a face plain to
downright ugliness, but an air of such genu-
ine courage and self-possession that no act-
ing could imitate it, and you hear the firm
voice saying —
Tiju-arcu 8* ovv avrjp OavaTov • Ele*>.
You are just beginning the splendid para-
graph where Socrates condemns himself to
maintenance in the Prytaneum, and if you
can only be safe from interruption till it is
finished, you will have one of those noble
minutes of noble pleasure which are the re-
wards of intellectual toil."
No one can read a good and interesting
book for an hour without being the better
and the happier for it. Not merely for the
moment, but the memory remains with us :
stores of bright and happy thoughts which we
can call up when we will.
"Even their phantoms rise before us,
Our loftier brethren, but one in blood ;
At bed and table they lord it o'er us,
With looks of beauty and words of good."
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Bret Harte, describing a scene at a miner's
camp in the far West, says —
"The roaring camp fire, with rude humour, painted
The ruddy tints of health,
On haggard face and form that drooped and fainted
In the fierce race for wealth.
Till one arose, and from his pack's scant treasure
A hoarded volume drew,
And cards were dropped from hands of listless leisure
To hear the tale anew.
And then while round them shadows gathered faster,
And as the firelight fell,
He read aloud the book wherein the master
Has writ of 'little Nell/
Perhaps 'twas boyish fancy — for the reader
Was youngest of them all, —
But, as he read, from clustering pine and cedar
A silence seemed to fall,
The fir-trees gathering closer in the shadow,
Listened in every spray,
While the whole camp, with 'Nell' on English
meadows,
Wandered and lost their way."
•
English literature is the birthright and in-
heritance of the English race. We have pro-
duced and are producing some of the greatest
of poets, of philosophers, of men of science.
No race can boast a brighter, purer, or nobler
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literature, richer than our commerce, more
powerful than our arms. It is the true pride
and glory of our country, and for it we can-
not be too thankful.
CHAPTER X
PATRIOTISM
IF ever there was a country for which a
man might work with pride, surely it is our
own.
"O England ! model to thy inward greatness
Like little body with a mighty heart."
As regards size, a mere speck on the Ocean ;
and yet more than half the ships on the Wide
Seas fly the British Flag.
No doubt the geographical position is fa-
vourable. Our climate is genial and yet brac-
ing ; and the silver streak has saved us from
many wars.
" This sceptr'd isle,
This earth of majesty, this seat of Mars,
This other Eden, demi-Paradise,
This fortress, built by Nature for herself
'Gainst infection, and the hand of war:
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This happy breed of men, this little world,
This precious stone set in the silver sea,
Which serves it in the office of a wall ;
Or as a moat defensive to a house,
Against the envy of less happy lands." 1
An orator in the United States is said to
have described his country as being bounded
on the South by the Equator, on the East by
the Atlantic Ocean, on the North by the
Aurora Borealis, and on the West by the
setting sun'; we can say with more truth that
the Sun never sets on the British Empire.
" Britannia needs no bulwarks,
No towers along the steep,
Her march is o'er the mountain waves,
Her home is on the deep." 2
In the words of an American statesman,
" Her flag waves on every sea and in every
port, and the morning drum-beat of her sol-
diers, following the sun and keeping company
with the hours, circles the earth with one
continuous strain of the martial airs of Eng-
land."
But we may reflect with still greater sat-
isfaction that our soldiers are everywhere
1 Shakespeare. 2 Campbell.
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present not as enemies, but as friends and
protectors. The motto of our Volunteers,
"Defence, not Defiance," is equally applica-
ble to our Army and Navy.
This great Empire has grown up gradually.
We owe it to the energy and industry of our
forefathers, and we must indeed be degener-
ate, if we do not feel that " Come what Come
may," we are bound to hand it down to our
children, not merely unimpaired, but strength-
ened and improved.
In our history there has no doubt been
much to regret. But yet as contrasted with
that of other nations, it has been compara-
tively bloodless.
Apart from actual war, no country with
so long a history has been stained by so little
bloodshed; we have had no massacres, no
Reign of Terror, no Sicilian Vespers.
In war we have shown much generosity
to our enemies. At the end of the Great
Struggle with Napoleon, when the power of
France was crushed, and the Allies occupied
Paris, we agreed to terms which left France
her territories and colonies intact (on the sole
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condition, as regards the latter, that she would
agree to surrender the slave trade), and free
from debt, while we ourselves had incurred
one, mainly arising from the war, of over
£900,000,000 ! When we look back on the
terms, our statesmen behaved with a gener-
osity which was perhaps hardly wise; and we
can scarcely wonder that some Frenchmen
claim Waterloo as a French victory. At any
rate the terms of peace were far more favour-
able to her than to us.
I have mentioned the restoration of the
French Colonies — a small part of the ex-
ertions and sacrifices made to put down
this abominable traffic. We paid Portugal
£300,000 and Spain £400,000 to induce
those countries to give up the traffic. For
more than half a century, at a time when we
had a crushing debt, and were far less pros-
perous or powerful than we are now, we kept
a squadron on the West Coast of Africa, at
an annual cost estimated by Mr. Gladstone
when Chancellor of the Exchequer at £700,000
a year, and at a great sacrifice of valuable
lives. We paid the West Indies and Mauri-
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this £20,000,000 to free their slaves. Alto-
gether the noble efforts to put down this
abominable traffic must have cost the country
something between £50 and £100,000,000
sterling.
Other countries have drawn a considerable
portion of their revenue from their colonies
and dependencies.
The Athenians exacted a large annual con-
tribution from their allied states ; this formed,
indeed, a very important portion of their
revenue. With the Romans it was a cardi-
nal principle of taxation that the provinces
were to defray the expenses of the Empire.
When they conquered Sicily they took a
tenth of the field produce, and 5 per cent of
the value of all exports and imports. Com-
ing down to more recent times, other coun-
tries — as, for instance, Spain, Portugal, and
Holland — have derived considerable revenues
from their colonial possessions.
Very different has been the conduct of
England. So far from deriving any revenue
from our Colonies, we have spent enormous
sums of money for their benefit. So far as I
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have been able to ascertain, no account has
been published showing the amount spent by
the mother-country in the Colonies before the
year 1859 ; but from 1859 to 1869 it amounted
to more than £41,000,000, and no doubt for
many years previously the amount was much
over £4,000,000 a year.
Moreover, the actual cost to the mother-
country was considerably greater, because the
return does not include the cost of arms, ac-
coutrements, barracks, hospital, and other
stores, nor any proportion for recruiting
expenses, head-quarter expenses, or non-
effective charges.
It may be said that our Mediterranean
military expenditure can hardly be called
" colonial," and it is of course true that we
could not expect such stations as Malta and
Gibraltar to pay their own expenses. On
the other hand, our great reason for keeping
them up is in order to protect our communi-
cations with India and Australia ; and if we
were disposed to do so, we might well ask
why the burden of keeping up these commu-
nications should fall altogether on us, — why
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some part of the cost should not be borne by
India and the Australasian colonies. More-
over, the above-mentioned expenditure refers
only to the troops on service out of the
mother-country ; but inasmuch as even the
troops at home are available in case of need
(and after due provision has been made for
our own safety) for colonial purposes, we
might well expect to receive some contribu-
tion towards the permanent expenses.
Our national accounts show no sum devoted
nominally to naval expenses on account of
our Colonies ; yet, in fact, this country bears
almost the whole of the naval expenses,
which, if the Colonies were independent,
would fall on them. For them we act as
the police of the seas ; their shores are pro-
tected at our expense. What a saving this
is to them, little consideration is required to
show: 35,000,000 of Englishmen in Great
Britain and Ireland pay £18,000,000 a year
for naval purposes; 300,000,000 of our
fellow-countrymen in the Colonies and India
pay scarcely anything.
Take, again, the case of India. It is
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hardly necessary to say that India makes no
direct contribution to the general expenses of
the Empire, nor to those home charges., from
which she, like our Colonies, derives great
advantage. No English labourer, no English
tax-payer, derives a penny of direct advan-
tage, or pays a penny less*towards the reve-
nues of the country, because we hold India.
So far as military expenditure is concerned,
the greatest care is taken that India should
pay nothing beyond what is necessary for the
troops actually on duty there. It is amusing,
if so serious a subject can be amusing, to see
how energetically the India Office resists any
application made by the War Office for any
charge beyond what the Indian authorities
regard as absolutely necessary.
As regards the Navy also, India is treated
with the utmost liberality. That she derives
a great advantage from our fleet cannot be
doubted. It saves her from a heavy expense,
which she must have otherwise incurred ; she
contributes to it, however, only the small sum
of £70,000 a year, in addition to which she
spends about half a million on steam-tugs,
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inland vessels, pilotage allowances, port
charges, etc.
Our honest effort and desire has been to
govern India for the benefit of the people of
India. We may have made mistakes there,
as we have made mistakes at home, but these
have been the principles on which we have
governed India.
That they have benefited hitherto by our
rule cannot, I think, be denied. Dr. Hunter1
tells us that in Orissa the Rajah's share was
60 per cent of the crop ; the mildest native
governments took 33 per cent ; we take only
from 3 to 7 per cent. No one can doubt that
the taxes of our Indian fellow-countrymen are
lighter, their lives and property more secure,
than if they had remained under native rulers ;
and it is at least certain that India does not
contribute a penny to our English revenue.
That we are loved in India cannot perhaps be
maintained, and would be probably too much
to expect. That our Government is respected
will hardly be denied.
That our rule is moreover not unpopular
1 Our Indian Empire.
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was, I think, clearly shown during the mutiny.
Our countrymen behaved like heroes from the
highest to the lowest, but yet if our Govern-
ment had been characterised by avarice and
injustice — if, on the whole, we had not been
trusted and respected by the population of
India — we must then have been swept into
the sea. The bravery of our gallant troops,
the skill of their officers, would, under such
circumstances, have availed little. The peo-
ple of India did not, however, take any active
part against us, and their behaviour in that
crisis was a magnificent testimony to the
mode in which we have fulfilled our great
trust.
An Eminent Frenchman, M. Barthelemy
Saint Hilaire, late Foreign Secretary in M.
Thiers' Government, has borne generous tes-
timony to the beneficence and justice of our
rule in India, which, he says, " merite que
tous les amis de 1'humanite et de la civilisa-
tion en souhaitent le succes. Faire T education
politique et morale de deux cent cinquante
millions de nos semblables est une tache pro-
digieuse, qui, noblement commencee avec ce
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siecle, exigera, pour 6tre entierement accom-
plie, une suite d'efforts dont on ne saurait
pre*ciser la duree." J We have to face, he
truly says, a difficult problem, but it is very
gratifying to be assured that we have the
" applaudisseraents sinceres de tous les esprits
Claire's et impartiaux." l
The opinion which other races have formed
of our rule is well shown by the history of
such cases as Hong-Kong and Singapore. In
the former, says Mr. Wood, " we find a small
barren island, which at the time of its cession
to Britain, was inhabited by a few handfuls
of fishermen, now crowded by tens of thou-
sands of Chinese, who have crossed from the
mainland because they know that under
British rule they would be free from oppres-
sive taxation, would be governed by just
laws, and would be able to carry on a thriv-
ing and profitable trade." Again, in the once
almost uninhabited island of Singapore, we
see a motley population attracted from China,
the Malay peninsula, and India, by a similar
cause.
1 Ulrule Anglaise.
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Take, again, the case of Java. "During
the five years of the British possession," says
Heeren, " so wise and mild an administration
was exercised that after the restoration it
seems to have been difficult for the natives
and Europeans to accustom themselves again
to Dutch dominion. During the short time
it was in the possession of Britain, a clearer
light was shed over this remarkable island
than was done during the two whole centuries
of the dominion of Holland."
Passing to America, I may quote the strik-
ing testimony of an American bishop, Bishop
Whipple of Minnesota, who thus contrasts
the relations between the United States and
Great Britain with the Indians in their re-
spective territories : —
" On one side of the line (he says) is a
nation that has spent $500,000,000 in Indian
wars ; a people that have not 100 miles be-
tween the Atlantic and the Pacific which has
not been the scene of an Indian massacre ;
a Government which has not passed twenty
years without an Indian war ; not an Indian
tribe to whom it has given Christian civilisa-
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tion ; and which celebrates its Centenary by
another bloody Indian war. On the other
side of the line are the same Anglo-Saxon
race, and the same heathen. They have not
spent one dollar in Indian wars, and have
had no Indian massacres. Why ? In Can-
ada the Indian treaties call these men 'the
Indian subjects of her Majesty.' When civ-
ilisation approaches them they are placed on
ample reservations, receive aid in civilisation,
have personal right in property, are amena-
ble to law, and protected by law, have schools,
and Christian people send them the best
teachers."
It is sometimes said — most unjustly —
that Ireland has been hardly dealt with. On
the contrary, she has a much larger represen-
tation than she is entitled to, either by popu-
lation or by her contribution to the Imperial
revenue ; her taxes are the same as ours,
except that we pay some that are not levied
in Ireland, namely, Land Tax, House Duty,
Railway Tax, Assessed Taxes amounting to
over £700,000 a year, and others; till this
year her farmers have paid a lower rate of
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Income tax than ours, and Irish land is taken
at a lower figure for valuation than English ;
she has had subventions in aid of rates far
larger in proportion than England or Scot-
land ; and liberal grants of money — as, for
instance, £8,000,000 at the time of the famine.
It is sometimes said that the duty on Spirits
presses unduly on Ireland. But while the
duty on Beer is almost entirely paid in Eng-
land, even as regards the duty on Spirits,
Great Britain pays 92 per cent, Ireland only
7 '90 per cent. I am sure it is the wish of
Englishmen and Scotchmen to treat Ireland
with justice and all reasonable liberality.
Peace, we know, hath her victories as well
as war, and if we turn to the history of hu-
man progress we have equal reason to be
proud of our forefathers.
The English tongue is rapidly spreading
and bids fair to become the general language
of the human race. Yet it is not so very
long ago that Bacon asked Dr. Playfair to
translate The Advancement of Learning from
English into Latin, because " the private-
ness of the language wherein it is written,
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limits my readers," and its translation into
Latin " would give a second birth of that
work."1
No country can boast a brighter, purer, or
nobler literature. Perhaps it may be said
that as an Englishman I am prejudiced. By
common consent, however, Shakespeare stands
out unique and pre-eminent in the literature
of the world. Chaucer, Bacon, Milton, Spen-
cer, and many others, to say nothing of more
recent authors, are also a glory to our nation.
Recently a leading Italian Journal instituted
a vote as to the best books in the world. A
large number, indeed several hundred, sub-
scribers gave their views, and out of the first
eight books — one being the Bible — no less
than four were English.
In the history of Invention and Discovery
the name of Watt will be always associated
with the Steam Engine, of Stephenson with
the Locomotive, Wheatstone with the Elec-
tric Telegraph, Arkwright with the Spinning
Machine, Hargreaves with the Jenny, Fox
Talbot with Photography.
1 Lord Playfair in University Extension Addresses.
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In medicine the circulation of the blood
was discovered by Harvey, Vaccination by
Jenner, Anaesthetics were brought into use by
Simpson, and the antiseptic treatment in cases
of wounds and operations by Lister. In
Science we have many great names : Bacon
and Newton, Young and Darwin, Faraday,
Herschel, and many others.
I do not mention these facts as any credit
to us. They are a great honour to our
fathers, and we are proud of them, but they
impose on us a great responsibility.
Well then may we all join in Milton's
prayer : " Oh Thou who of Thy free grace
didst build up this Brittanick Empire to a
glorious and enviable height, with all her
daughter islands about her, stay us in this
felicitie." But we must not be content to
pray only for this great boon ; we must en-
deavour to deserve it. We must remember
that the deepest force is the stillest : that
"not by material, but by moral force, are
men and their actions governed." l
England has a right to expect that " every
i Carlyle.
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man will do his duty." She says to us all,
" I have done all this for thee ; what hast
thou done for me ? "
Indeed, when we look back on the whole
history of the past, it is not, I think, too
much to say that our country has exercised
its great trust in a wise and liberal spirit, and
governed the Empire in a manner scarcely
less glorious than the victories by which that
Empire was won. Is it a dream to hope that
the time may come when the whole Eng-
lish-speaking people may form one great
nation !
I may perhaps be thought to be too partial
to, and too proud of, my own country. The
facts, however, speak for themselves. More-
over, as Maurice well says, " that man is most
just, on the whole, to every other nation, who
has the strongest feeling of attachment to his
own." The love of one's country elevates the
conception of citizenship, raises us above the
petty circle of personal and even family in-
terests, to the true width and splendour of
national life. The real imperial spirit is not
one of vainglory, but of just pride in the ex-
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tension of our language and literature ; of our
people, and our commerce, on land and sea ;
and a deep sense of the great responsibility
thus imposed upon us.
CHAPTEK XI
CITIZENSHIP
WE are all part of the Government of the
country, and one of the most important of our
duties is to fit ourselves for that great respon-
sibility. This requires study and thought as
well as mere good- will. The very magnitude
and extent of our Empire is itself a source of
danger. We govern many races of men, some
of them with ideas and aspirations very
different from our own. Look at India.
The population is nearly ten times as large as
that of England, and is broken up into races
very different. in race and creed. The true
Hindoo belongs to the same great race of
men as we do : he speaks a language not only
'similar in origin and in structure, but even
retaining some of the same words. The word
"poor," with which so many Indian words
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end, corresponds to our " borough," and is as
common a termination as with us. But the
Hindoos are only a section of the Indian
population ; they are more nearly allied to us
in blood than to the Dravidian races of the
South, or the Malayo-Chinese of the East,
though time and distance have created great
differences. They are in sharp religious con-
flict with the Mahomedans, who were, and
would probably be again if we left, the dom-
inant power.
But India, though perhaps the greatest, is
only one of our responsibilities. All over the
world we come in contact with other great
nations. Questions arise, and will continue
to arise, which require tact, moderation, and
forbearance on both parts. Our statesmen
must know when to give way, and where to
stand firm, and the people must know whom
to support.
The history of Man has shown us a succes-
sion of Great Empires which have crumbled to
the dust. Egypt, Assyria, Persia, Rome, have
risen and sunk. In more recent times Genoa
and Venice have flourished to a great extent
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CHAP.
as we do now by " ships, colonies, and Com-
merce." If we are to escape their fate, we
must avoid their mistakes.
" A thousand years scarce serve to form a state ;
An hour may lay it in the dust." l
As regards our foreign policy, it is no less
our interest than our duty to maintain the
most friendly relations with other countries.
Nations often unfortunately regard others as
enemies. And yet a clearer light shows that
we are human, and ought to be friends. A
Welsh preacher once illustrated this in a
homely and yet striking manner. He was
out walking one day, he said, and on the
opposite hill he saw a monstrous figure ; as
he approached he saw it was a man, and when
he came up close, he found it was his brother.
Other nations are not only Men, but broth-
ers, and their interests are in many ways
bound up with ours. If they suffer, we suffer
with them ; whatever benefits them, benefits
us. The greatest of British interests are the
peace and prosperity of the world. The
1 Byron.
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glamour of War has dazzled the imagination
of Mankind. We are told of the "pomp
and circumstance of glorious war/' that every
soldier carries a Field-marshal's Baton in his
knapsack, etc., and we fail to realise the infi-
nite misery which it has inflicted on the human
race.
The carnage and suffering which war en-
tails are terrible to contemplate, and constitute
an irresistible argument in favour of Arbitra-
tion. The present state of things is a disgrace
to human nature. There may be some excuse
for barbarous tribes who settle their disputes
by force of arms, but that civilised nations
should do so is not only repugnant to our moral,
but also to our common sense. At present
even the peace establishments of Europe com-
prise 3,500,000 men ; the war establishments
are over 10,000,000, and when the proposed
arrangements are completed, will exceed
20,000,000. The nominal cost is over £200,-
000,000 annually, but as the Continental ar-
mies are to a great extent under conscription,
the actual cost is far larger. Moreover, if these
3,500,000 men were usefully employed, and
172 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
taking the value of their labour only at £50
a year, we must add another £175,000,000,
bringing up the total expenditure of Europe
on military matters to £375,000,000 a year !
Of course there are deeper and graver consid-
erations than questions of money ; but yet
money represents human labour and human
life. It is impossible for any one to contem-
plate the present naval and military arrange-
ments without the gravest forebodings. Even
if they do not end in war, they will eventually
end in bankruptcy and ruin.
The principal countries of Europe are run-
ning deeper and deeper into debt. During the
last twenty years the debt of Italy has risen
from £483,000,000 to £516,000,000 ; that of
Austria from £340,000,000 to £5.80,000,000 ;
of Russia from £340,000,000 to £750,000,000 ;
of France from £500,000,000 to £1,300,000,-
000. Taking the Government debts of the
world together, they amounted in 1870 to
£4,000,000,000 — a fabulous, terrible, and
crushing weight. But what are they now?
They have risen to over £6,000,000,000, and
are still increasing.
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By far the greater part of this enormous,
this appalling, burden is represented by no
valuable property, has fulfilled no useful pur-
pose ; it has been absolutely wasted, or what,
from an international point of view, is even
worse, thrown away on war, or in preparation
for war. In fact, we never now have any real
peace ; we live practically in a state of war,
happily without battles or bloodshed, but not
without terrible sufferings. Even in our own
case, one-third of our national income is spent
in preparing for future wars, another third in
paying for past ones, and only one-third is left
for the government of the country. Our in-
terests at stake are enormous, and the interests
of nations are so interwoven that every war
now is in fact a civil war.
Though not a " peace-at-any-price man," I
am not ashamed to say I am a peace-at-
almost-any-price man. No doubt there are
some vital question s- which cannot be referred
to Arbitration, but Earl Russell, a very high
authority, said that there had not been a war
for the last hundred years which might not
well have been settled without recourse to
arms.
174 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
The last time I saw M. Gambetta, we talked
over this subject, and he said in his usual ani-
mated manner that if the present rate of ex-
penditure be maintained the day will come
when Frenchmen will all be " beggars in front
of a barrack." It has not only been main-
tained but increased.
The condition of Europe cannot be viewed
without alarm. Russia is honeycombed with
Nihilism, Germany alarmed with Socialism,
France in a panic from Anarchy, and rapidly
tending to bankruptcy. There is no justifica-
tion, no excuse, for recent Anarchist crimes,
but nothing happens in this world without
a cause. Continental workmen are working
terribly long hours for very low wages. If
any one will read the recent reports from
Italy he will see the miserable condition of
agricultural labourers in that country; the
wages of workmen in continental countries
are very low, and their hours long ; while the
small proprietors in France and elsewhere are
no better off.
I sympathise very much with the desire for
an eight hours' day, but the resolution passed
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in Hyde Park the year before last wisely in-
sisted that it should be international. If,
however, the present military system is main-
tained no relaxation of hours is possible. The
only way to secure the eight hours is to di-
minish military expenditure. The necessary
taxation to support the army and navy com-
pels every man and woman in Europe to
work an hour a day more than they other-
wise need. In fact, the religion of Europe is
not Christianity, but the Worship of the God
of War. We cannot, alas ! prevent war, but
we may at least throw our weight into the
scale of peace ; endeavour ourselves to main-
tain friendly relations with foreign nations,
and treat them with courtesy, justice, and
generosity.
Many countries attempt to wage war upon
one another, quite as foolishly, by fiscal re-
strictions.
Cowper observes that —
" Mountains interposed
Make enemies of nations, who had else,
Like kindred drops, been mingled into one."
But the worst barriers are those which nations
176 THE USE OF LIFE
CHAP.
have raised against one another: barriers of
duties and customs, and worst of all, un-
founded jealousies and ill-will, each attribut-
ing to the other injurious designs, which
neither of them perhaps in reality entertain.
The same spirit of jealousy and hostility
which too often characterises international re-
lations, sadly embitters also internal politics.
But abuse is no argument ; it is rather a con-
fession of weakness. Happy will it be for us
when, as between party and party, between
nation and nation, we lower and degrade our-
selves to —
" No threat of war, no savage call
For vengeance on an erring brother,
But in their stead the Godlike plan
To teach the brotherhood of man
To love and reverence one another." ]
It is sometimes said that Revolutions are
not made with rose-water. Greater changes,
however, have been made in the constitu-
tion of the world by argument than by arms ;
and even where arms have been used, in most
cases the pen has wielded the sword. Ideas
are more powerful than bayonets.
1 Whittier.
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CITIZENSHIP 177
" In the comparatively early state of human
advancement/' ,says Mill. " in which we now
live, a person cannot, indeed, feel that en-
tireness of sympathy with all others which
would make any real discordance in the gen-
eral direction of their conduct in life impos-
sible ; but already the person in whom the
social feeling is at all developed, cannot bring
himself to think of the rest of his fellow-
creatures as struggling rivals with him for
the means of happiness, whom he must desire
to see defeated in their object in order that
he may succeed in his."
In order to perform the part of a citizen
wisely and well it is needful, in the words of
Burke, " carefully to cultivate our minds, to
rear to the most perfect vigour and maturity,
every sort of generous and honest feeling that
belongs to our nature. To bring the disposi-
tions that are lovely in private life into the
service and conduct of the Commonwealth, so
to be patriots and not to forget we are gentle-
men. . . . Public life is a situation of power
and energy; he trespasses against his duty
who sleeps upon his watch, as well as he that
178 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
goes over to the enemy." Think rather of
performing your duties than of claiming your
rights.
Lord Bolingbroke in his essay "On the
Spirit of Patriotism " quotes with approba-
tion a remark of Socrates that "though no
man undertakes a trade he has not learned,
even the meanest, yet every one thinks him-
self sufficiently qualified for the hardest of
all trades, that of Government." He said
this upon the experience he had in Greece.
He would not change his opinion if he lived
now in Britain.
We have indeed a great variety of pressing
problems. We are trying to educate our
children, but probably no one would say that
our system is yet perfect ; the straggles be-
tween capital and labour are starving our
commerce, hampering our manufactures, and
if they continue will assuredly lower wages
by checking the demand for labour ; the
health of our great cities leaves much still to
be desired ; in Science we have but made a
beginning.
Moreover, apart from any question of prog-
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ress, the daily life of the Community requires
constant labour. The consultations of Parlia-
ment, the conduct of local affairs, the ad-
ministration of the Poor Law, — in fact, the
affairs of the Community, as a whole, re-
quire as much care and attention as those of
Individuals, and the tendency, whether wisely
or unwisely, is in the direction of increased
communal organisation.
The poor again we have always with us,
and it is greatly owing to the numerous
charitable agencies, the greater sympathy
between rich and poor, though partly also
to our Poor Law, Free Trade, and the less
unsatisfactory physical conditions, that there
is no such feeling in favour of Socialism and
Anarchy as exists in some other countries.
Enthusiasm no doubt is the lever which
moves the world, but it is sad to reflect how
much time and money have been wasted on
vain experiments, — on experiments which
have failed over and over again before, and
which have been worse than useless, because
they have done harm instead of good to those
whom they were intended to benefit. It has
180 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
hardly been sufficiently borne in mind that
work for the poor demands an effort of the
mind as well as a sentiment of good-will.
It is not money that is chiefly wanted.
Thought and love are more than gold. Those
who give time do more than those who give
money. In fact, there is considerable danger
that money and enthusiasm without experi-
ence and training, may do more harm than
good ; for more harm may come of work ill
done than of work left undone.
It is much better to give hope and strength
and courage, than money. The best help is
not to bear the troubles of others for them,
but to inspire them with courage and energy
to bear their burdens for themselves, and
meet the difficulties of life bravely. To help
others is no easy matter, but requires a clear
head, a wise judgment, as well as a warm
heart.
We must be careful not to undermine inde-
pendence in our anxiety to relieve distress.
There is always the initial difficulty that
whatever is done for men takes from them
a great stimulus to work, and weakens the
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feeling of independence ; all creatures which
depend on others tend to become mere para-
sites : it is important therefore, so far as
possible, not so much to give a man bread,
as to put him in the way of earning it, not
to give direct aid, but to others to help them-
selves. The world is so complex that we
must inevitably all owe much to our neigh-
bours, but as far as possible, every man
should stand on his own feet.
We cannot expect others to conform to our
ideal ; what we have to do is to help them to
realise all that is best in their own ; to en-
courage them in their efforts at self-improve-
ment. Where money is unwisely given it is
generally by those who are lavish, rather to
save themselves trouble, than from any real
sympathy, and yet work for the Community
in the long run brings its own reward ; we
probably derive more happiness from work
for others, than from what we do for our-
selves. To work for others consecrates even
the humblest labour.
However lowly the work may be, throw
your heart into it.
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" What part soever you have taken upon
you," says Sir T. More, "play that as well
as you can and make the best of it ... if
you cannot, even as you wolde, remedy vices,
which use and custom hath confirmed, yet for
this cause you must not leave and forsake the
common wealthe ; you must not forsake the
shippe in a tempest, because you cannot rule
and keep down the windes. . . . But study e
and endeavour, as much as in you lyethe, to
handle the matter wyttelye and handsornelye
to the purpose, and that which you cannot
turne to good, so to order that it be not very
badde. For it is not possible for all things to
be well unless all men were good. Whych,"
he adds, " I think will not be yet this good
many years."
The more all men do their duty, however,
the nearer, and the sooner, we shall approach
it. Indeed we hardly perhaps realise how
happy we might be if we would all try.
" We cannot all be heroes,
And thrill a hemisphere
With some great, daring venture,
Some deed that mocks at fear ;
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But we can fill a lifetime
With kindly acts and true.
There's always noble service
For noble souls to do." l
It is a great privilege to be an Englishman.
No country enjoys greater individual liberty.
Every man is equal before the Law.
Every man is accounted innocent until he
is proved guilty.
No man is liable to be tried a second time
for the same offence.
All trials must be in public, and the pris-
oner is entitled to meet his accusers face to
face.
No man is a judge in his own case, nor
may he take the law into his own hands.
To work then for our country at whatever
cost, or risk, is a solemn duty, and " he is not
worthy to live at all, who for fear of danger
or death, shunneth his country's service or
his own honour, since death is inevitable, and
the fame of virtue immortal." 2
Our country's service, however, in compara-
tively few cases is one of danger. What it
1 C. A. Mason. 2 Sir H. Gilbert.
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demands is some sacrifice of our ease and
leisure ; some time devoted to duties and
work, which may seem unheroic and even
tedious, but which are none the less neces-
sary.
Public business — Committees, Elections,
Meetings, Speeches, Vestries, County Councils
— these are not very romantic ; they do not
dazzle the imagination, or stir the blood, and
yet a vote in peace is like a stroke in battle,
and none the less effective because it is peace-
ful and bloodless. The vote is not a right,
but a duty ; and to prepare ourselves for giv-
ing it is a duty also.
The amount of unpaid work which is done
for the public is astonishing, and long may it
continue so.
No one has any right to enjoy the benefit
of all this labour without contributing if not
his fair share, for some have not the same
leisure or opportunities as others, but at any
rate without contributing something to the
common welfare.
"No man's private fortune," says Bacon,
" can be an object in any way worthy of his
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existence." Houses and food and clothing
are not the only things needful, nor are they
even needful in the highest degree.
Even in the narrowest and most selfish
point of view, time so spent will not be lost
for " the love of our neighbour, the impulse
towards action, help, and beneficence, the
desire for stopping human error, clearing
human confusion, and diminishing the sum
of human misery, the noble aspirations to
leave the world better and happier than we
found it, — motives eminently such as are
called social, and contribute not only to the
happiness of others, but also to our own." l
There are blessings in life, said Bishop
Butler, " which we share in common with
others : peace, plenty, freedom, healthful
seasons. But real benevolence to our fellow-
creatures would give us the notion of a com-
mon interest in a stricter sense : for in the
degree we love another, his interest, his joys
and sorrows, are our own. It is from self-
love that we form the notion of private good,
and consider it as our own : love of our neigh-
1 Arnold, Culture and Anarchy.
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hour would teach us thus to appropriate to
ourselves his good and welfare ; to consider
ourselves as having a real share in his hap-
piness. Thus the principle of benevolence
would be an advocate within our own breasts,
to take care of the interests of our fellow-
creatures."
Let then, in the noble words of Marcus
Aurelius, " let the deity which is in thee be
the guardian of a living being, manly and of
ripe age, and engaged in matters political, and
a Roman, and a ruler, who has taken his
post like a man waiting for the signal which
summons him from life, and ready to go, hav-
ing need neither of oath nor of any man's
testimony."
The time we give to public duties is no
mere sacrifice. It brings its own reward.
We
"Learn the luxury of doing good." *
"It is a great thing in times of trial to
have merged in some respects our private
interests in the greater interests of the com-
mon life." 2
1 Goldsmith. 2 Horsfall.
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All if they choose may be brave men and
worthy patriots : every one may take a part
in at least some movement for the benefit
of his fellow-creatures, to help them to live
healthier, happier, and better lives.
And it is only by doing so that you will be
able to give a satisfactory answer to the ques-
tion, which sooner or later you will assuredly
ask yourself —
" What hast thou wrought for Right and Truth,
For God and Man,
From the golden hours of bright-eyed youth
To Life's mid span?"1
1 Whittier.
CHAPTER XII
SOCIAL LIFE
IT is our proud boast that every English-
man's House is his Castle, but it ought to be
more ; it ought to be his Home. That it is
his castle is his right by law, to make it a
real home depends upon himself.
What makes a "Home" ? Love and sym-
pathy and confidence. The memories of child-
hood, the kindness of parents, the bright
hopes of youth, the sisters' pride, the brothers'
sympathy and help, the mutual confidence,
the common hopes and interests and sorrows ;
these create and sanctify the home.
A House without Love may be a Castle, or
a Palace, but it is not a Home ; Love is the
life of a true home. " A home without Love
is no more a home, than a body without a soul
is a man."
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CHAP, xii SOCIAL LIFE 189
" He that is of a merry heart hath a continual feast.
Better is little with the fear of the Lord,
Than great treasure, and trouble therewith.
Better is a dinner of herbs where love is,
Than a stalled ox and hatred therewith.
Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith,
Than an house full of sacrifices with strife." l
We value the Home now, not as a castle of
Refuge from the arbitrary power of the Great
or of the State, but from the cares and anxie-
ties of life ; as a Haven of Repose from the
storms and tempests which we must expect
to encounter in our voyage through the world.
In even the most successful career such
times will come, and prosperity alone can by
no means ensure happiness or peace.
Man was not made to live alone, not even
in the Garden of Eden. " Que ferait une ame
isolee," says Bernardin de St. Pierre, "dans le
ciel meme." His heart must be at home, but
it is well to have work outside. We are not
intended entirely either for society or for soli-
tude. Both are good, I might say neces-
sary.
1 Proverbs.
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" Not wholly in the busy world, nor quite
Beyond it, blooms the garden that I love ;
News from the humming city comes to it
In sound of funeral or of marriage bells ;
And, sitting muffled in dark leaves, you hear
The windy clanging of the minster clock ;
Although between it and the garden lies
A league of grass, washed by a slow, broad stream,
That, stirred with languid pulses of the oar,
Waves all its lazy lilies, and creeps on,
Barge laden, to three arches of a bridge,
Crowned with the minster-towers." *
The beauties of Nature are a joy for ever,
but sunshine in the sky is little, unless there
be sunshine in the heart also.
To the family we owe the sentiments of
attachment, reverence, and love. It is the
basis and origin of civilisation ; the true school
of all that is best, it appeals to all our nobler
feelings and our highest nature. What could
Angels do more than make others happy.
Your home may be humble, ugly, unpoetic,
even cold and uncongenial, but your place and
your duty lie there ; and the greater the diffi-
culties, the richer will be the reward.
Patient endurance of worry or injustice is
1 Tennyson, " The Gardener's Daughter."
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SOCIAL LIFE 191
more difficult than hard work ; it is a living
sacrifice, more difficult to make than that of
money, time, or labour.
Few people really wish to make others un-
happy, and those few would not be likely to
read what I am saying. But it is probable
that on the whole more unhappiness is caused
by want of thought, or of tact, than by want
of heart. Receive every one with a bright
smile, kind words, and a pleasant welcome.
It is not enough to love those who are dear
to us. We must show them that we do so.
Many of us, through ignorance, thoughtless-
ness, or want of judgment, wound those whom
we love best, and most wish to help.
We all know ourselves how much we are
helped and strengthened by a few words of
encouragement .
"I have often thought," said Lord Chester-
field, "and still think, that there are few
things which people in general know less,
than how to love and how to hate. They
hurt those they love, by a mistaken indul-
gence, by a blindness, nay, often a partiality
to their faults. Where they hate, they
192 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
hurt themselves, by ill-timed passion and
rage." l
Even among friends our life tends to isola-
tion ; " we are stationed with regard to each
other as upon different islands, locked up
within prison bars of the bones, and behind
the curtain of the skin." 2
How little we know our friends, or even
our relations ! Even members of the same
family often live in practical isolation ; their
minds move as it were in parallel lines and
never meet ; they are not really in touch with
one another.
" Not e'en the tenderest heart and next our own,
Knows half the reasons why we smile or sigh." 3
We discuss the weather, the crops, the last
novel, the state of politics, the health and fail-
ings of our neighbours, anything and every-
thing, which has no relation to the true and
inner life. In fact, the more trivial, the less
important anything is, the more it seems to
be talked about ; and those often seem to
talk most who have really least to say.
1 Lord Chesterfield. 2 Jean Paul Richter. 3 Keble.
xii SOCIAL LIFE 193
Few people realise that conversation is a
great art. That > a family should be really
united, really in sympathy, requires not
merely affection, and good intentions, but
sympathy and power of giving out, and draw-
ing out, ideas. If people do not amuse you,
try to amuse them.
People often pride themselves on saying
just what comes into their minds, and no
doubt every one should be truthful and can-
did, but conversation is like other things, and
if we wish to make it interesting we must
take some pains with it.
We may all do much to make the home
happy.
" To bless mankind with tides of flowing wealth,
With power to grace them, or to crown with health,
Our little lot denies ; but Heaven decrees
To all, the gift of ministering ease ;
The gentler offices of patient love,
Beyond all flattery and all praise above." l
A bad-tempered man punishes himself, no
doubt, more than others.
" Thus always teasing others, always teased,
His only pleasure is to be displeased," 2
1 Hannah More. 2 Pope.
194 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
and being never pleased, he is never happy.
But unquestionably he does much to make
others unhappy also. To make those around
us happy does not require any great sacri-
fice ; but mere good intentions are not enough.
It requires tact and study and practice. To
do anything well, good or bad, you must
practise.
A kind and sympathetic manner will do
wonders. An old proverb tells us that
" Manners makyth man," and it is doubtless
true that many a man has been made by his
manner and many ruined by the want of it.
Even when a Prime Minister selects his
Cabinet, he does not look altogether to wis-
dom or eloquence or ability or character, but
partly also to manner, — to those who can
get on well with others.
Roughness is not strength ; it is indeed
often the cloak of weakness. Shakespeare in
his wonderful picture of Julius Caesar tells us
that —
" His life was gentle and the elements
So mixed in him that Nature might stand up
And say to all the world, ' This was a man.' "
xii SOCIAL LIFE 195
" Concord and Discord are sometimes sup-
posed to be connected with a chord in music.
They have really a deeper meaning — a Union
or Jarring of hearts."
And if it is necessary to find fault, at least
speak kindly ; especially to children, for " the
little cradle of the child is more easily dark-
ened than the starry heaven of the man." 2
Rubens, we are told, was able by a single
stroke to convert a laughing into a crying
child. In life we can all do so. Even a
word is enough. In all cases
" Speak gently ! 'tis a little thing
Dropped in the heart's deep well ;
The good, the joy that it may bring,
Eternity shall tell." 3
It is also a good rule to blame in private,
and praise in public. What is said in private
will be accepted in a better spirit, will be felt
to be kindly meant, and will really have more
effect ; while praise in public is much more
inspiriting, and a richer reward.
Above all things, if you have occasion to
1 Sir H. Maxwell's Meridiana.
2 Jean Paul Richter. 3 Langford.
196 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
find fault, do it gravely, as if with regret ;
never show anger or annoyance if you can
help it. " I would have punished you," said
Archytas to his slave, "if I had not been
angry." If you are angry at least pause and
think before you speak. Matthew Arnold
quotes as characteristic of the highest culture
" its inexhaustible indulgence, its consideration
of circumstances, its severe judgment of actions
joined to its merciful judgment of persons."
Death will soon make all equal. Antici-
pate this then, and treat every one with
courtesy, as befits a gentleman.
If you can help it, never leave a friend in
anger, or even in coolness. Remember that
any parting may be the last.
Some words are like rays of sunshine, others
like barbed arrows or the bite of a serpent.
And if hard words cut so deep, how much
pleasure can kind ones give !
Good words, said George Herbert, " cost
little and are worth much," for
" Many a shaft at random sent,
Finds mark the Archer little meant !
And many a word at random spoken,
May soothe or wound a heart that's broken."
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SOCIAL LIFE 197
It is not always necessary even to speak.
When Peter had denied Christ, we are told
that "the Lord looked upon Peter." That
sad look of reproach was enough. Peter went
out and wept bitterly.
As it is true that a look can give acute pain,
so also one kind glance of the eye will often
make a heart dance with joy. After a long
separation how we long for the warm wel-
come on which we know that we can reckon ;
while as we meet in the morning a kind smile
will brighten the darkest day.
Do not be too reserved. Do not be afraid
of showing your affection. It is not enough
to love if you seem cold. Be warm and ten-
der, thoughtful and affectionate. Men are
more helped by sympathy than by service ;
love is more than money, and a kind word
will give more pleasure than a present.
When Benjamin West was asked what had
made him a painter, " It was," he said, " my
mother's kiss." "If the Home duties," said
Confucius, " are well performed, what need is
there to go afar to offer sacrifice."
Be very careful in the selection of your
198 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
friends, " the most valuable and fairest fur-
niture of life." 1 Keep good company, says
George Herbert, " and you will be of the
number." "Tell me whom you live with/'
says a Spanish proverb, " and I will tell you
who you are." A man who is not a good
friend to himself cannot be so to any one
else.
" Well chosen friendship, the most noble
Of virtues, all our joys makes double,
And into halves divides our trouble." 2
The wise choice of female friends is quite
as important. Many wise men have been
wrecked by the Sirens, since the time of
Solomon.
" Whose heart, though large,
Beguiled by fair idolatresses fell
To idols foul."3
Friendship, said Lilly, "is the jewel of
human life," and a friendless man is much to
be pitied, especially as it is probably his own
fault.
" No one is so accursed by fate,
No one so utterly desolate,
But some heart, though unknown,
Kesponds unto his own." 4
1 Cicero. 2 Denham. 3 Milton. 4 Longfellow.
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Surely it cannot be necessary, as Keble
sadly says, that we should all be isolated and
alone.
" Each in his hidden sphere of joy or woe
Our hermit spirits dwell and range apart,
Our eyes see all around in gloom or glow
Hues of their own, fresh borrowed from the heart,"
though no doubt it is well to have the option
of sometimes being alone, for it is difficult to
love your neighbour if you can never get
away from him.
It will almost inevitably happen that from
time to time you will think you have cause
of complaint. If so, be patient and reason-
able. Look at it from your friend's point of
view. Do nothing in a hurry. Nature never
does. " Most haste, worst speed," says the
old proverb. But above all, never quarrel in
a hurry. Think it over well. Take time.
However vexed you may be overnight, things
will often look very different in the morn-
ing.
If you have written a clever and conclusive,
but scathing letter, keep it back till the next
day, and it will very often never go at all.
200 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Make the very best friends you can. A
bad friend is much worse than none at all.
" Enter not into the path of the wicked,
And go not in the way of evil men.
Avoid it, pass not by it,
Turn from it, and pass away.
" For they sleep not,
Except they have done mischief;
And their sleep is taken away,
Unless they cause some to fall.
" For they eat the bread of wickedness,
And drink the wine of violence.
" But the path of the just
Is as the shining light,
That shineth more and more
Unto the perfect day." 1
But though it is a great mistake to make
friends of the wicked and foolish, it is unwise
to make enemies of them, for they are very
numerous.
Lamb wittily observes that " presents en-
dear absents," but kindness and patience and
sympathy will do much more.
Friends may well claim all that you can
1 Proverbs.
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afford to give ; but they are not entitled to
ask you to lend.
" Neither a borrower nor lender be,"
says Shakespeare,
" For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."
And Solomon warns us,
" He that is surety for a stranger shall smart for it ;
But he that hateth suretyship is sure." 1
Friends will protect you from many dan-
gers, and ward off many sorrows. When
Augustus was brought to shame by his
daughter Julia, " None of these things," he
said, " would have happened to me, if either
Agrippa or Maecenas had lived."
And when you have made good friends —
keep them.
"Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel." 2
Give them no cause of complaint, however
slight.
And if death separates, there is still the
1 Proverbs. 2 Shakespeare.
202 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
sweet hope of seeing them again. It cannot
make up to us for the loss, but still
" 'Tis sweet, as year by year we lose
Friends out of sight, in faith to muse
How grows in Paradise our store." l
The most important step in life is marriage.
Love seems to beautify and inspire all nature.
It raises the earthly caterpillar into the ethe-
real butterfly, it paints the feathers in spring,
it lights the glowworm's lamp, it wakens the
song of birds, and inspires the poet's lay.
Even inanimate Nature seems to feel the
spell, and flowers glow with the richest col-
ours.
A man, says Simonides, " cannot have any
greater blessing than a good wife, or any
greater curse than a bad one."
" A continual dropping in a very rainy day
And a contentious woman are alike." 2
" It is better to dwell in a corner of the house-top,
Than with a brawling woman in a wide house." 3
As regards the selection, it is probably not
easy to give advice of much value. Some
i Keble. * Proverbs. 3 Ibid.
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considerations indeed are almost self-evident.
It is not well to marry too early. When two
very young people marry, it is, says Sir H.
Taylor, " as if one sweet-pea should be put as
a prop to another." Do not marry for money,
nor without money. Those who marry for
money " show themselves to be less than
money by over- valuing that to all the content
and wise felicity of their lives : and when
they have counted the money and their sor-
rows together, how willingly would they buy
with the loss of all that money " l the life
they have sold.
Do not imagine that in marriage you can
go on living your " own substantive life with
the additional embellishment of some grace-
ful, simple, gay, easy-hearted creature, who
would lie light upon the surface of one's be-
ing, be at hand whenever solitude and serious
pursuits had become irksome, and never be in
the way when she was not wanted. Visions
these are ; merely dreams of our Epicurean
youth." 2
1 Jeremy Taylor, The Marriage Ring.
2 Sir H. Taylor, Notes from Life.
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Homer, says Jeremy Taylor, " adds many
soft appellations to the character of a hus-
band's duty. Thou art to be a Father and
Mother to her, and a Brother : and with great
reason, unless the state of marriage should be
no better than the condition of an orphan.
For she that is bound to leave Father and
Mother, and Brother for thee, either is miser-
able like a poor fatherless child, or else ought
to find all these, and more, in thee." l
If you have the least doubt about it, do
not marry. The married state is either very
happy or very miserable.
Marriage is a great responsibility. Do not
trust altogether to, or be beguiled by, the eye,
for " marriages are not to be contracted by
the hands and eye, but with reason and the
hearts." 2
A good wife is a helpmeet, not in material
things only, but in those of the mind also.
" Base men," says Shakespeare, " being in
love have then a nobility in their natures
more than is native to them." And if even
base men are so powerfully affected for good,
1 The Marriage Ring. 2 Jeremy Taylor,
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how much more those who have nobility
already in their nature ! For
"And there are souls that seem to dwell
Above this earth, so rich a spell
Floats round their steps, where'er they move,
From hopes fulfilled and mutual love." 1
" Marriage," says Jeremy Taylor, " is divine
in its institution, sacred in its union, holy in
the mystery, sacramental in its signification,
honourable in its appellative, religious in its
employments : it is advantage to the societies
of men, and it is < holiness to the Lord.' " 2
If a marriage is happy, says Tertullian,
"how are we to find words to express that
happiness ? . . . Together they pray, to-
gether they worship, together they fast . . .
together in difficulties, in adversities, in re-
freshments. Neither hides anything from the
other, neither is a burden to the other. Christ
joys when He sees such things. To these He
sends His peace. Where two are, there is
He, and where He is, the evil one is not."
You take your wife, in the solemn and
beautiful words of our marriage service, " for
1 Keble. 2 The Marriage Ring.
206 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sick-
ness and in health, to love and to cherish, till
death you do part."
"A happy marriage," says Stanley, "is a
new beginning of life, a new starting-point
for happiness and usefulness ; it is the great
opportunity once for all to leave the past,
with all its follies and faults and errors, far,
far behind us for ever, and to press forward
with new hopes, and new courage, and new
strength into the future which opens before
us. A happy home is the best likeness of
heaven; a home where husband and wife,
father and mother, brother and sister, child
and parent, each in their several ways, help
each the other forward in their different course
as no other human being can ; for none else
has the same opportunities ; none else so
knows the character of any other ; none else
has such an interest at stake in the welfare,
and the fame, and the grace, and the good-
ness of any one else as of those who are bone
of his bone, and flesh of his flesh, in whose
happiness and glory we ourselves become
happy and glorious, in whose misery we be-
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come miserable, by whose selfishness and
weakness and worldliness we are dragged
down to earth, by whose purity and nobleness
and strength we are raised up, almost against
our will, to duty, to heaven, and to God."
Finally, children are a great, but none the
less a delightful, responsibility. They are
sometimes spoken of as " sent," and improvi-
dent parents excuse themselves by saying that
" if God sends mouths, He will send food to fill
them," but Matthew Arnold justly observes
that there is no justification for bringing poor
little children into the world whom you can-
not keep decently, in reasonable comfort and
not too precariously.
Let them grow up in the sunshine of love ;
if their childhood is blest with the genial
warmth of affection, they will better endure
the cold of life.
"No man can tell but he that loves his
children, how many delicious accents make
a man's heart dance in the pretty conversa-
tion of those dear pledges ; their childishness,
their stammering, their little angers, their
innocence, their imperfections, their necessi-
208 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP, xn
ties, are so many little emanations of joy
and comfort to him that delights in their per-
sons and society ; but he that loves not his
Wife and Children, feeds a Lioness at home,
and broods a nest of Sorrows ; and Blessing
itself cannot make him happy; so that all
the Commandments of God injoyning a man
to love his wife, are nothing but so many
Necessities and Capacities of joy." *
1 Jeremy Taylor.
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NEVER waste anything, but, above all,
never waste time. To-day comes but once
and never returns. Time is one of Heaven's
richest gifts ; and once lost is irrecoverable.
" Not Heaven itself upon the past has power,
For what has been, has been ; and I have had my
hour." l
Do not spend your time so now, that you
will reproach yourself hereafter. There are
no sadder thoughts than " Too late," and " It
might have been." Time is a trust, and for
every minute of it you will have to account.
Be " spare of sleep, spare of diet, and sparest
of time."
Nelson once said that he attributed all his
1 Dry den.
p 209
210 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
success in life to having always been a quarter
of an hour before his time.
" The young," said Lord Melbourne, "should
never hear any language but this: you have
your own way to make, and it depends upon
your own exertions whether you starve or
not."
Industry, moreover, is not only essential to
success, but has a most healthy influence on
the moral character. "Never be idle," said
Jeremy Taylor, but "fill up all the spaces of
thy time with a severe and useful employ-
ment ; for lust easily creeps in at these empti-
nesses where the soul is unemployed, and the
body is at ease ; for no easy, healthful, idle
person was ever chaste if he could be tempted ;
but of all employments, bodily labour is the
most useful, and of the greatest benefit for
driving away the devil."
Time and Earth, in the words of Keble,
" are the preparations for Heaven and Eter-
nity ; and such as we make our moments
here, such will God make our ages in the
world to come."
To do something however small, to make
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others happier and better, is the highest am-
bition, the most elevating hope, which can in-
spire a human being.
Pietro Medici is said to have once em-
ployed Michael Angelo to make a statue
out of snow. That was a stupid waste of
precious time. But if Michael Angelo' s time
was precious to the world, our time is just as
precious to ourselves, and yet we too often
waste it in making statues of snow, and, even
worse, in making idols of mire.
" We all complain," said the great Roman
philosopher and statesman, Seneca, " of the
shortness of time, and yet we have more than
we know what to do with. Our lives are
spent either in doing nothing at all, or in
doing nothing to the purpose, or in doing
nothing that we ought to do. We are always
complaining that our days are few ; and act-
ing as though there would be no end to them."
It is astonishing what can be done by
economy of time. " Nehemiah could find
time to dart up a successful prayer to the
Throne of Grace whilst he stood waiting
behind the King of Persia's chair."
212 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
And yet, fill up our time as well and as
wisely as we may, even the most fortunate
of us must leave many things undone, many
books unread, many a glorious sight unseen,
many a country un visited.
One great, I might almost say the great
element, of success and happiness in life, is
the capacity for honest solid work. Cicero
said that what was required was first audac-
ity, what was second was audacity, and what
was third was audacity. Self-confidence is
no doubt useful, but it would be more correct
to say that what was wanted was firstly per-
severance, secondly perseverance, and thirdly
perseverance. Work is not of course, any
more than play, the object of Life ; both are
means to the same end.
Work is as necessary for peace of mind as
for health of body. A day of worry is more
exhausting than a week of work. Worry
upsets our whole system, work keeps it in
health and order. Exercise of the muscles
keeps the body in health, and exercise of the
brain brings peace of mind. " By work of the
Mind one secures the repose of the Heart." l
1 Jancourt.
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" Give a girl any true work that will make
her active in the dawn, and weary at night,
with the consciousness that her fellow-creat-
ures have indeed been the better for her day.
and the powerless sorrow of her enthusiasm
will transform itself into a majesty of radiant
and beneficent peace."
Do what you will, only do something.
Even attempts to find the philosopher's
stone and to square the circle have borne
some fruit.
" Words/' said Dr. Johnson, " are the
daughters of Earth, and Deeds are the sons
of Heaven," and whatever you do, do thor-
oughly. Put your heart into it. Cultivate
all your faculties : you must either use them
or lose them. We are told of Hezekiah that
" in every work that he began, ... he did
it with all his heart, and prospered." 2
" The story of genius even, so far as it can
be told at all, is the story of persistent indus-
try in the face of obstacles, and some of the
standard geniuses give us their word for it
that genius is little more than industry. A
1 Ruskiii. '2 2 Chron.
214 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
woman like ' George Eliot ' laughs at the
idea of writing her novels by inspiration.
' Genius,' President Dwight used to tell the
boys at Yale, i is the power of making
efforts.' " l
Begging is after all harder than working,
and taking it altogether, does not pay so
well. Every man, moreover, should stand
upon his own feet. A ploughman on his
feet, says Franklin, is higher than a gentle-
man on his knees.
Cobbett, speaking of his celebrated English
grammar, tells us that : "I learned grammar
when I was a private soldier on the pay of
sixpence a day. The edge of my berth, or
that of the guard bed, was my seat to study
in ; my knapsack was my bookcase ; a bit of
board lying on my lap was my writing-table ;
and the task did not demand anything like a
year of my life. . I had no money to purchase
candle or oil ; in winter time it was rarely
that I could get any evening light but that of
the fire, and only my turn even of that. ...
Think not lightly of the farthing that I had
1 Garnett.
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to give, now and then, for ink, pen, or paper.
That farthing was, alas ! a great sum to me :
I was as tall as I am now ; I had great health
and great exercise. The whole of the money,
not expended for us at market, was twopence
a week for each man. I remember, and well
I may, that upon one occasion I, after all ab-
solutely necessary expenses, had, on a Friday,
made shift to have a halfpenny in reserve,
which I had destined for the purchase of a
red herring in the morning; but, when I
pulled off my clothes at night, so hungry
then as to be hardly able to endure life, I
found that I had lost my halfpenny ! I
buried my head under the miserable sheet
and rug, and cried like a child ! And, again.
I say, if I, under circumstances like these,
could encounter and overcome this task, is
there, can there be, in the whole world, a
youth to find an excuse for the non-perform-
ance?"
Cobbett had no money, but he had energy
and courage. " Most men," says Bacon,
" seem neither to understand their riches nor
their strength : of the former they believe
216 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
greater things than they should ; of the latter
much less. Self-reliance and self-denial will
teach a man to drink out of his own cistern,
and eat his own sweet bread, and to learn
and labour truly to get his living, and care-
fully to expend the good things committed to
his trust."
There is an Oriental proverb that
" Good striving
Brings thriving :
Better a dog that works
Than a lion who shirks."
"Work," says Nature to Man, "in every
hour, paid or unpaid; see only that thou
work, and thou canst not escape the reward :
whether thy work be fine or coarse, planting
corn or writing epics, so only it be honest
work, done to thine own approbation, it shall
earn a reward to the senses as well as to the
thought ; no matter how often defeated, you
are born to victory. The reward of a thing
well done, is to have done it." 1
The great wizard, Michael Scott, as Sir
Walter Scott has told us, found he could only
1 Emerson.
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secure himself against his familiar Devil by
constantly providing him with employment.
The same applies to us all. St. Paul says
that the Evil Spirit having been driven out
of a man, returned when he found the house
empty, and entered in with seven other
spirits worse than himself.
Idleness is not rest. It is more tiring than
work. The Romans had a proverb, " Difficilis
in otio quies." It is difficult to rest if you
are doing nothing.
Never hurry. Nature never does. The
first piece of advice which a Swiss guide gives
to a young mountaineer, and that to which
he returns most often, is that one should go
" immer langsam," slowly and steadily; or
"plus doucement on monte, plus vite on ar-
rive au sommet," not trying to walk too fast,
but not loitering. By all means pause now
and then ; even the strong ox requires to do so,
and the furlong, or " furrow long," measures
the distance after which it is well to give
him a rest. But in life also the great secret
of progress is never to hurry and never to
loiter. " Haste," says an Eastern proverb,
218 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
" cometh of the Evil One, but patience open-
eth the gate of felicity."
Many people seem to think that they can
save time by hurrying. It is a great mis-
take. It is well to move briskly ; but it is far
more important to do a thing well, than to
get through it quickly.
Moreover, even as regards the work itself,
if it is done irregularly, by fits and starts and
in a hurry, it is much more exhausting, much
more really laborious, than, if taken slowly,
steadily, and regularly without hurry and
bustle. Hurry not only spoils work, but
spoils life also.
" Work without haste and without rest/'
was Goethe's maxim, though our word " rest "
does not exactly express his idea.
" Haste not, let no thoughtless deed
Mar for aye the spirit's speed ;
Ponder well, and know the right,
Onward then, and know thy might ;
Haste not, years can ne'er atone
For one reckless action done.
" Rest not, Life is sweeping by,
Go and dare, before you die :
Something mighty and sublime
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Leave behind to conquer time ;
Glorious 'tis to live for aye,
When these forms have pass'd away." l
Work hard then, but do not hurry, do not
fuss, and do not be anxious.
" Interest yourself/' says Mr. Francis Gal-
ton, " chiefly in the progress of your journey,
and do not look forward to its end with
eagerness. It is better to think of a return
to civilisation, not as an end to hardship and
a haven from ill, but as a thing to be regretted,
and as a close to an adventurous and pleasant
life. In this way, risking less, you will in-
sensibly creep on, making connections, and
learning the capabilities of the country as you
advance, which will be found invaluable in
the case of a hurried or a disastrous return.
And thus, when some months have passed by,
you will look back with surprise on the great
distance travelled over; for if you average
only three miles a day at the end of the year
you will have advanced 1000, which is a very
considerable exploration. The fable of the
hare and the tortoise seems expressly in-
1 Goethe.
220 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
tended for travellers over wide and unknown
tracts."
Rise early, give to muscles and brain their
fair share of exercise and rest, be temperate
in food, allow yourself a reasonable allowance
of sleep, take things easily, and depend upon
it your work will not hurt you. Worry and
excitement, impatience and anxiety, will not
get you on in your work, and may kill you
in the end, or at any rate hand you over a
victim to some attack of illness ; but if you
take life cheerfully and peacefully, intellect-
ual exertion and free thought are to the mind,
what exercise and fresh air are to the body ;
they will prolong, not shorten your life.
"Perseverance . . .
Keeps honour bright : to have done is to hang
Quite out of fashion, like a rusty mail
In monumental mockery." l
Perseverance " is the Statesman's brain,
the Warrior's sword, the Inventor's secret,
the Scholar's ' Open sesame.'"2 Our gra-
cious Queen has been one of the very best
1 Shakespeare.
2 Adam's Plain Living and High Thinking.
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sovereigns in History. And why? no doubt
she has great judgment and tact, but she
has spared herself no labour. The spirit
in which she has worked is indicated in a
remark to Lord Monteagle, quoted in Mrs.
Jameson's Memoirs. In reply to some ex-
pression of regret on his part that he was
obliged to trouble her on business, she said,
" Never mention to me the word ' trouble.'
Only tell me how the thing is to be done, to
be done rightly, and I will do it if I can."
Whatever your duties or business in life
may be, try to do it as well as it can be
done.
The Duke of Wellington owed his victories
almost as much to his being a good man of
business as a great General. He paid the
most careful attention to all the details of
his supplies and commissariat ; and his horses
had plenty of fodder, his troops were well
supplied with warm clothes, strong boots,
and good food.
"Seest thou a man diligent in his busi-
ness," says Solomon; "he shall stand before
kings;" and St. Paul tells us to be "not
222 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
slothful in business, fervent in spirit, serving
the Lord."
Industry brings its own reward. Colum-
bus discovered America while searching for
a western passage to India ; and, as Goethe
pointed out, Saul found a kingdom while he
was looking for his father's asses.
"Resolve," said Franklin, "to perform
what you ought, and perform without fail
what you resolve."
It is sometimes supposed that genius may
take the place of work. We read of men at
College who idled their first years, who only
worked at high pressure for a short time,
with a wet towel round their heads, and yet
took a high degree. Depend upon it they
paid dearly for the wet towel afterwards.
But even so, they had to work. Many of the
greatest men have owed their success to rh-
dustry rather than to cleverness, if we can
judge from their school record. Wellington
and Napoleon, Clive, Scott, Sheridan, and
Burns are all said to have been dull boys at
school.
No doubt some men are much more gifted
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than others. But let two men start in life,
the one with brilliant abilities, but careless,
idle, and self-indulgent ; the other compara-
tively slow, but industrious, careful, and high-
principled, and he will in time distance his
more brilliant competitor. No advantage in
life, no cleverness, no rich friends or powerful
relations will make up for the want of indus-
try and character.
Grosteste, Bishop of Lincoln, and a great
statesman, had an idle brother who once came
and asked to be made a great man. " Brother,"
replied the Bishop, " if your plough is broken,
I'll pay for the mending of it ; or, if your ox
should die, I'll buy you another ; but I cannot
make a great man of you ; a ploughman I
found you, and I fear a ploughman I must
leave you."
Milton was not merely a man of genius, but
of indomitable industry. He thus describes
his own habits : " In winter, often ere the
sound of any bell wakes man to labour or
devotion ; in summer, as oft with the bird
that first rouses, or not much tardier, to read
good authors, or to cause them to be read till
224 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
the attention be ready, or memory have its
full freight ; then, with clear and generous
labour, preserving the body's health and hardi-
ness, to render lightsome, clear, and not lump-
ish obedience to the mind, to the cause of
religion, and our country's liberty."
Do not look on your work as a dull duty.
If you choose you can make it interesting.
Throw your heart into it, master its meaning,
trace out the causes and previous history, con-
sider it in all its bearings, think how many,
even the humblest, labour may benefit, and
there is scarcely one of our duties which we
may not look to with enthusiasm. You will
get to love your work, and if you do it with
delight you will do it with ease. Even if you
find this at first impossible, if for a time it
seems mere drudgery, this may be just what
you require ; it may be good, like mountain
air, to brace up your character. Our Scandi-
navian ancestors worshipped Thor, wielding
his hammer ; and in the old Norse myth
Yoland is said to have sold his soul to the
Devil, in order to be the best smith in the
world ; which, however, was going too far.
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It is a great question how much time should
be given to sleep. Nature must decide. Some
people require much more than others. I do
not think it possible to diminish the amount
which Nature demands. Nor can time spent
in real sleep be said to be wasted. It is a
wonderful restorer of nervous energy, of
which those who live in cities never have
enough.
Sir E. Cooke's division of the day was —
" Six hours in sleep, in law's grave study six,
Four spend in prayer — the rest on Nature fix."
Sir W. Jones amended this into —
" Six hours to law, to soothing slumber seven,
Ten to the world allot, and all to Heaven."
Neither six nor seven hours would be enough
for me. ' We must sleep till we are so far
refreshed as to wake up, and not down.
In times of sorrow, occupation, which diverts
our thoughts, is often a great comfort. Indeed
many of us torment ourselves in hours of leis-
ure with idle fears and unnecessary anxieties.
Keep yourselves always occupied.
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226 THE USE OF LIFE
" So shall thou find in work and thought
The peace that sorrow cannot give." l
" Every place," says old Lilly, " is a coun-
try to a wise man, and all parts a palace to a
quiet mind."
Work, moreover, with, and not against Na-
ture. Do not row against the stream if you
can help it ; but if you must, you must. Do
not then shrink from it; but Nature will
generally work for us if we will only let
her.
•'For as in that which is above Nature, so
in Nature itself : he that breaks one physical
law is guilty of all. The whole universe, as
it were, takes up arms against him, and all
Nature, with her numberless and unseen pow-
ers, is ready to avenge herself upon him, and
on his children after him, he knows not when
nor where. He, on the other hand, who obeys
the law of Nature with his whole heart and
mind, will find all things working together to
him for good. He is at peace with the physi-
cal universe. He is helped and befriended
alike by the sun above his head and the dust
1 Stirling.
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beneath his feet : because he is obeying the
will and mind of Him who made sun, and
dust, and all. things : and who has given them
a law which cannot be broken." *
1 Kingsley.
CHAPTER XIV
FAITH
WE are told in statistical works that out
of 1,500,000,000 of human beings there are
500,000,000 Buddhists, 350,000,000 Chris-
tians, 200,000,000 Hindoos, and 150,000,000
Mahomedans; but Selden,1 though he goes
into the opposite extreme, was doubtless
nearer the mark when he observes that "men
say they are of the same religion for quiet-
ness' sake; but if the matter was well ex-
amined, you would scarce find three anywhere
of the same religion on all points." It is no
wonder that this should be so, for as we know
in reality so very little even about our own
world, we cannot expect to be better informed
about another.
" The wonderful world," says Canon Lid-
1 Table Talk.
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don, " in which we now pass this stage of our
existence, whether the higher world of faith
be open to our gaze or not, is a very temple
of many and august mysteries. You will
walk, perhaps, to-morrow afternoon into the
country ; and here or there the swelling buds,
or the first fresh green of the opening leaf,
will remind you that already spring is about
to re-enact before your eyes the beautiful
spectacle of her yearly triumph. Everywhere
around you are evidences of the existence and
movement of a mysterious power which you
can neither see, nor touch, nor define, nor
measure, nor understand. This power lives
speechless, noiseless, unseen, yet energetic, in
every bough above your head, in every blade
of grass beneath your feet."
Doubt is indeed the very foundation of
philosophy. We live in a world of mystery ;
and if we cannot explain the simplest flower,
or the smallest insect, how can we expect to
understand the infinite? " We acknowledge,"
says Dr. Martineau, " space and silence to be
His attributes ; and when the evening dew has
laid the noonday dust of care, and the vision
230 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
strained by microscopic anxieties takes the
wide sweep of meditation, and earth sleeps as
a desert beneath the starry Infinite, the un-
speakable Presence wraps us close again, and
startles us in the wild night-wind, and gazes
straight into our eyes from those ancient
lights of heaven."
" Human existence/' says John Stuart Mill,1
" is girt round with mystery ; the narrow re-
gion of our experience is a small island in the
midst of a boundless sea, which at once awes
our feelings and stimulates our imagination
by its vastness and obscurity. To add to the
mystery, the domain of our earthly existence
is not only an island in infinite space, but also
in infinite time."
But if we find ourselves continually com-
pelled to remain in ignorance, and to suspend
our judgment, we need not on that account
lose hope.
" And so we say that iii the dim hereafter,
Or be it dawn or twilight, noon or night,
The thread of that great scheme whereof this life
Is, as a something tells us, but a part,
Shall not be lost, but taken up again
And woven into one completed whole.'7
1 Utility of Reliyion.
xiv FAITH 231
We feel much which we cannot explain.
This is not confined to theology. " If you
ask me," said St. Augustine, "what is Time,
I cannot tell you ; but I know quite well, if
you do not ask me."
Wesley described himself as
" Weary of all this wordy strife,
These notions, forms, and modes, and names,
To Thee, the Way, the Truth, the Life,
Whose love my simple heart inflames —
Divinely taught, at last I fly,
With Thee and Thine to live and die."
" Those who tell me," says Martineau, " too
much about God ; who speak as if they knew
His motive and His plan in everything ; who
are never at a loss to name the reason of every
structure, and show the tender mercy of every
event ; who praise the cleverness of the Eter-
nal economy, and patronise it as a masterpiece
of forensic ingenuity ; who carry themselves
through the solemn glades of Providence with
the springy steps and jaunty air of a familiar ;
do but drive me by the very definiteness of
their assurance into an indefinite agony of
doubt and impel me to cry ' Ask of me less,
and I shall give you all.' '
232 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Dean Stanley described one great object of
his life as being to do " something to break
the collision between the beliefs and the
doubts of the age, and to fix our gaze 'on
the hills from whence cometh our help.' '
" Amid the mysteries," says Herbert
Spencer, " which become the more mysterious
the more they are thought about, there will
remain the one absolute certainty, that man
is ever in presence of an Infinite and Eternal
Energy, from which all things proceed."
We must then be content to feel, we cannot
define.
Many of the differences which separate men
into sects are factions, rather than religions.
In defiance of St. Paul's warning, they per-
sist in saying, " I am of Paul, and I am of
Apollos."
" The kingdom of God does not," says
Jeremy Taylor, " consist in words, but in
power, the power of Godliness. Though now
we are fallen upon another method, we have
turned all religion into faith, and our faith
is nothing but the production of interest or
disputing; it is adhering to a party and a
xiv FAITH 233
wrangling against all the world beside ; and
when it is asked of what religion he is of, we
understand the meaning to be what faction
does he follow, what are the articles of his
sect, not what is the manner of his life : and
if men be zealous for their party and that
interest, then they are precious men, though
otherwise they be covetous as the grave,
factious as Dathan, schismatical as Korah, or
proud as the fallen angels."
Men of science are often attacked for want
of faith, though Thoreau says that "as a
matter of fact there is more religion in
science, than science in religion."
But the man of science who doubts, does so
in no scoffing spirit ; it is an expression, not
of disdain, but of reverence. As Tennyson
has well said —
" Perplext in faith, but pure in deeds,
At last he beat his music out.
There lives more faith in honest doubt,
Believe me, than in half the creeds."
Let me refer, for instance, to two repre-
sentative men. "When I attempt," says
Professor Tyndall, "to give the Power which
234 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
I see manifested in the universe an objective
form, personal or otherwise, it slips away
from me, declining all intellectual manipula-
tion. I dare not use the pronoun ' He ' re-
garding it ; I dare not call it a ' Mind ' ; I
refuse to call it even a ' cause.' Its mystery
overshadows me." Professor Huxley is one
of our ablest thinkers ; he is, moreover, an
Agnostic, and no friend of religious institu-
tions in the ordinary sense, but he has told
us that he could "conceive the existence of
an Established Church which should be a
blessing to the community. A Church in
which, week by week, services should be de-
voted, not to the iteration of abstract propo-
sitions in theology, but to the setting before
men's minds of an ideal of true, just, and
pure living: a place in which those who are
weary of the burden of daily cares, should find
a moment's rest in the contemplation of the
higher life which is possible for all, though
attained by so few ; a place in which the man
of strife and of business should have time to
think how small, after all, are the rewards
he covets compared with peace and charity.
xiv FAITH 235
Depend upon it, if such a Church existed, no
one would seek to disestablish it."
This seems to me not far removed from the
Church of Arnold and Maurice, Kingsley,
Stanley, and Jowett. The Church of England
is gradually approximating to this ideal, and
the more it does so, the stronger it will grow.
Theologians necessarily endeavour to ex-
press themselves in language which can be
understood, and we do them an injustice in
expecting that we can take them literally.
When poets speak of the " sunrise "we do
not accuse them of ignoring astronomy ; nor
can any one be justly accused of " blasphem-
ing " Shakespeare or Tennyson if he maintains
that it is the Earth and not the Sun which
moves. Even the discoveries of science re-
quire a language of their own, and if we can-
not describe a flower or a stone accurately
without the use of newly-coined phrases, we
may feel sure that it is impossible for human
language to comprehend the Infinite. Nor
can we wonder if, in accordance with the
general opinion of the times, ancient writers
in some cases attributed to the agency of
236 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Demons, results which we now know to be
due to nervous disease.
There can be no merit in believing some-
thing which you can neither explain nor
understand. There can be no merit in be-
lieving a fact for which we have no sufficient
evidence ; or in persuading ourselves that we
believe something which we do not compre-
hend. Indeed, it is surely impossible to be-
lieve anything for which we are conscious
that there is no good evidence. On the con-
trary, our duty is to believe that for which we
have sufficient evidence, and to suspend our
judgment when we have not. Many people
seem to suppose that they must either believe
a statement or disbelieve it. And yet in a
great many cases we have no sufficient
grounds either for belief or disbelief.
True faith is no mere intellectual exercise.
The faith which is enjoined on us is a living
faith, and faith without works is dead. Sel-
den l compares faith and works to light and
heat : " Though in my intellect I may divide
them, just as in the candle I know there is
1 Table Talk.
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both light and heat ; yet put out the candle,
and both are gone." The references to faith
in the magnificent eleventh chapter of He-
brews are to actions. By faith Abel offered
his sacrifices ; by faith Noah built the Ark ;
by faith Abraham left his home. They surely
all had, or at any rate every one will admit
that they thought they had, sufficient reason
for what they believed and for what they
did. They were commended because, finding
themselves face to face with a painful or
laborious duty, they did not flinch, but faith-
fully performed what they believed to be
right. One of our duties, however, and by
no means the easiest, is to suspend our judg-
ment, when the evidence is inconclusive.
There are many cases in which doubt, if not
a virtue, is certainly a duty.
" Our little systems have their day ;
They have their day and cease to be :
They are but broken lights of thee,
And Thou, 0 Lord, art more than they."
The veil is slowly rising, but as regards
innumerable questions we must be content
to remain in ignorance.
1 Tennyson.
238 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
" Our happiness as human beings must
hang on our being content to accept only
partial knowledge, even in those matters
which chiefly concern us. . . .. Our whole
pleasure and power of energetic action de-
pend upon our being able to live and breathe
in a cloud ; content to see it opening here,
and closing there, delighting to catch, through
the thinnest films of it, glimpses of stable
and substantial things ; but yet perceiving a
nobleness even in concealment, rejoicing that
the kindly veil is spread where the untem-
pered light might have scorched us, or the
infinite clearness wearied." *
For, as Professor Huxley says, " Whoso
calls to mind what I may venture to term
the bright side of Christianity — that ideal of
manhood, with its strength and its patience,
its justice and its pity for human frailty, its
helpfulness to the extremity of self-sacrifice,
its ethical purity and nobility, which apostles
have pictured, in which armies of martyrs
have placed their unshakable faith, and
whence obscure men and women, like Cath-
1 Ruskin.
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FAITH 239
erine of Sienna and John Knox, have de-
rived courage to rebuke Popes and Kings —
is not likely to underrate the importance of
the Christian faith as a factor in human
history."
St. Mark tells us that one of the scribes
came to Christ and asked Him which was the
greatest Commandment. " And Jesus an-
swered him, The first of all the command-
ments is, Hear, 0 Israel ; the Lord our God
is one Lord : and thou shalt love the Lord
thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy
soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy
strength. This is the first commandment.
And the second is like unto it, namely this,
Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
There is none other commandment greater
than these. And the scribe said unto Him,
Well, Master, thou hast said the truth: for
for there is one God ; and there is none other
but he : and to love him with all the heart,
and with all the understanding, and with all
the soul, and with all the strength, and to
love his neighbour as himself, is more than
1 Science and Christian Tradition.
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whole burnt offerings and sacrifices. And
when Jesus saw that he answered discreetly,
he said unto him, Thou art not far from the
kingdom of God."
CHAPTER XV
HOPE
I HAVE often heard surprise expressed that
Hope should be classed as a virtue with Faith
and Charity. Faith could perhaps be under-
stood, or misunderstood, and Charity is obvi-
ously a virtue, but why Hope ?
It is, however, certainly wrong to despair :
and if despair is wrong, hope is right. En-
durance and tenacity of purpose imply hope ;
and endurance is a much better test of char-
acter than any single act of heroism, however
noble. Many a devoted and suffering woman
is a real martyr.
Do not lay things too much to heart. No
one is ever really beaten unless he is dis-
couraged.
" ?Tis not the least disparagement
To be defeated by th' event ;
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242 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Nor to be beaten by main force ;
That does not make a man the worse ;
But to turn tail and run away
And without blows give up the day,
Or to surrender to th' assault,
That's no man's fortune, but his fault." 1
With his characteristically humorous com-
mon sense, Sydney Smith gave excellent
advice when he said that if we wish to do
anything in the world worth doing, we " must
not stand shivering on the bank, thinking of
the cold and the danger, but jump in and
scramble through as well as we can." It is
curious that men are seldom afraid of real
dangers : they are much more affected by
those which are imaginary. They are, for
instance, absurdly afraid of being laughed
at.
Never give way to false shame. Peter
boldly faced the Pharisees and the soldiers,
but could not stand the jeers of the maids
and the servants in the hall of the Chief
Priest.
" Cowards die many times before their deaths ;
The valiant never taste of death but once." 2
1 Butler. 2 Shakespeare.
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Don Quixote hanging by his wrist from the
stable window imagined himself over a terri-
ble abyss, but when Maritornes cut him down,
found he had only been a few inches above
the ground.
The very lions which frightened Mistrust
and Timorous in the Pilgrim s Progress were
found by Christian to be chained when he
walked boldly up to them.
How many armies which have been victori-
ous in battle, have taken to flight in a panic
during the night! The very word "panic"
has come to mean a terror without a cause.
And even in bright daylight are not fears and
anxieties often equally without foundation ?
" There's many a trouble
Would break like a bubble,
And into the waters of Lethe depart,
Did not we rehearse it,
And tenderly nurse it,
And give it a permanent place in the heart.
" There's many a sorrow
Would vanish to-morrow,
Were we not unwilling to furnish the wings ;
So sadly intruding,
And quietly brooding,
It hatches out all sorts of horrible things." *
i G. Clark.
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The discontented man should ask himself
with whom he would change. He cannot
expect to take one man's health, another's
wealth, and the home of a third. If he is
dissatisfied he must change all in all, or not
at all.
Coleridge when in great trouble wrote
to Sir Humphry Davy that "amid all these
changes and humiliations and fears, the sense
of the Eternal abides in me, and preserves
unsubdued my cheerful faith that all I endure
is full of blessings."
Never then despair. Everything may be
retrieved, except despair. " Woe to him that
is faint-hearted," said the son of Sirach.
" If courage is gone, then all is gone !
Twere better that thou hadst never been born." l
" To bear is to conquer our fate." 2
" Beware of desperate steps : the darkest day,
Live till to-morrow, will have passed away." 3
Every one makes mistakes. The man, it
has been well said, who never makes a mis-
take, will make nothing. But we need not
1 Goethe. 2 Campbell. 3 Cowper.
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HOPE 245
fall into the same error twice. Let your
mistakes be lessons, and so you may make
them stepping-stones to a better life.
Joseph Hume used to say that he would
rather have a cheerful disposition than an es-
tate of £10,000 a year.
For action the present is all-important, but
there is a sense in which it is wiser to live in
the past and the future. Many of the miseries
of life are due to our sacrificing the future for
the present ; the happiness of years that are
to come, for the satisfaction of the moment.
No doubt it is true that a bird in the hand is
worth two in the bush ; but then the chances
are that the bird in the bush may never be in
the cage, while the future, on the contrary, is
sure to come, and those men are most happy
whose " pleasure is in memory, and their am-
bition in heaven." *
We could hardly go far wrong if we lived in
the future ; for man " hath but to forsake the
Transitory and Perishable with which the True
Life can never associate, and thereupon the
Eternal, with all its Blessedness, will forth-
with descend and dwell with him."
i Ruskin.
246 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Man should, I was almost about to say
above all things, be manly, and have
" The will to do, the soul to dare." J
For
" Our doubts are traitors,
And make us lose the good we oft might win,
By fearing to attempt." 2
Courage is not only a virtue, but even part
of the very essence of a man. A man to be a
man must be brave, just as a woman to be a
woman must be gentle ; though of course men
should be gentle as well as brave, and women
brave as well as gentle.
Recklessness is not courage. Courage does
not consist in despising danger, but in facing
it bravely. There is no courage in running
unnecessary risk ; but when danger comes,
cowardice adds to it : to face it boldly and
coolly is the true path of safety. To run
away from an enemy in battle is the way
to get killed, especially for those who, like
Achilles, are vulnerable only in the heel.
" To make anything very terrible," says
Burke,3 " obscurity seems in general to be
1 Scott. 2 Shakespeare.
8 " Essay on the Sublime and Beautiful."
xv HOPE 247
necessary. When we know the full extent
of any danger, when we can accustom our
eyes to it, a great deal of the apprehension
vanishes." In the old fable, the deer frightened
by feathers fell into the hands of the hunters,
and the troops, who, on the raising of the dust
by a flock of sheep, took them for the enemy,
fell into an ambush.
Keep cool and courageous.
"Out of the nettle, danger, pluck the flower, safety,"
and, according to the Eastern proverb, " draw
the feet of contentment under the skirt of
security."
Do not expect too much. " To know how
to expect little," said Goethe, " and enjoy
much, is the secret of success."
Do not expect too much, and do not expect
it too quickly. " Everything comes to those
who know how to wait." It has been well
said that the darkest shadows of life are those
which a man makes when he stands in his
own light. Still, do what we will, sorrows
must come, and it is for us to bear them
bravely.
248 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
"Call up," said Richter, "in your darkest
moments the memory of the brightest."
" Know how sublime a thing it is
To suffer and be strong."
We have, moreover, always the consolation of
knowing that
" Come what come may,
Time and the hour runs through the roughest day." 1
For, as George Macdonald says —
" For things can never go badly wrong,
If the heart be true and the love be strong ;
For the mist, if it comes, and the weeping rain,
Will be changed by the love into sunshine again."
" After winter folio we th summer, after night,
the day returneth, and after a great tempest, a
great calm." 2 However dark our path may
seem, remember that Time will soothe the
greatest sorrows. " Heaviness may endure
for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."
" Be still, sad heart, and cease repining ;
Behind the clouds is the sun still shining ;
Thy fate is the common fate of all,
Into each life some rain must fall,
Some days must be dark and dreary." 3
1 Shakespeare. 2 Imitation of Christ. 3 Longfellow.
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If any change happens, which at first seems
like a misfortune, make sure at least that it
is so. Appearances are often deceptive ; we
do not live in a world in which we can afford
to be discouraged by trifles, and we never know
what we can do till we try. Trouble and sor-
row are often friends in disguise. Nelson
turned even his blind eye to advantage when
he did not wish to see the signal for retreat.
There are many, says Sir M. Grant Duff in
his charming life of Renan, " for whose lives
we should not have cared, but whose death
we envy." And in history, quite as many
owe their immortality to the scaffold as to the
throne. If we suffer, it is either for our own
fault or for the general good.
" Wise men never sit, and wail their loss,
But cheerly seek how to redress their harm." *
While, moreover, we may be thankful for
and enjoy to the full the innumerable bless-
ings of life, we must not look upon sorrows
and sufferings as unmixed evils. No one would
be the better for constant and unvaried sue-
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cess.; even if it were not too great a trial, it
could not but enervate and weaken. To over-
come difficulties, to resist temptation, to bear
sorrows bravely, — raises, strengthens, and
ennobles the character.
" Face to face with Eternity, the great thing
is to walk grandly towards it." l
We may thoroughly enjoy the soft air and
bright sunshine of summer, but Nature owes
much of its grandeur and beauty to the snows
and storms of winter.
Kingsley in a noble ode does justice to the
north-east wind —
" Let the luscious South, wind
Breathe in lover's sighs,
Whilst the lazy gallants
Bask in ladies' eyes.
What does he but soften
Heart alike and pen ?
'Tis the hard gray weather
Breeds hard English men.
But the black North-easter,
Through the snow-storm hurled,
Drives our English hearts of oak
Seaward round the world.
i Geikie.
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Come : and strong within us
Stir the Viking's blood :
Bracing brain and sinew :
Blow, thou wind of God."
Troubles are a moral North-easter. They
strengthen and brace us —
" Beyond the gauds and trappings of renown,
This is the hero's compliment and crown ;
This missed, one struggle had been wanting still,
One glorious triumph of heroic will." 1
" What do you think," says Epictetus, " that
Hercules would have been if there had not been
such a lion, and hydra, and stag, and boar, and
certain unjust and bestial men, whom Hercules
used to drive away and clear out ? And what
would he have been doing if there had been
nothing of the kind ? Is it not plain that he
would have wrapped himself up and slept ?
In the first place, then, he would not have
been a Hercules, when he was dreaming away
his life in such luxury and ease ; and even if
he had been one, what would have been the
use of him ? and what the use of his arms,
and of the strength of the other parts of his
1 Henry Taylor.
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body? and his endurance and noble spirit, if
such circumstances and occasions had not
roused and exercised him ? "
When Socrates was condemned Apollodorus
lamented that he should suffer so unjustly.
"Would you then," said the philosopher,
" have had me guilty ? "
This, says St. Peter, is praiseworthy, " if a
man for conscience toward God endure grief,
suffering wrongfully. For what glory is it, if,
when ye be buffeted for your faults, ye shall
take it patiently ? but if, when ye do well,
and suffer for it, ye take it patiently, this is
acceptable with God."
CHAPTER XVI
CHARITY
WE should not only do to others as we
should wish them to do to us, but think of
others kindly as we should wish them to
think of us. If we make no allowances for
them, how can we expect them to do so for
us? Moreover, on the whole, we shall find
that a charitable construction of others is
more likely to be the right one than not.
"Some persons think to get through the
difficulties of life, as Hannibal is said to
have done across the Alps, by pouring vine-
gar on them." l
Others are ready to make sacrifices, but
they neglect those little acts of kindness and
affection which add so much to the brightness
and happiness of life.
1 Guesses at Truth.
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254 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Even if we have reason to complain, the
offence is seldom so serious as we suppose,
and to resent injuries only makes them worse.
Revenge does us more harm than the injury
itself; and no one ever intended to hurt
another, but he did at the same time a
greater harm to himself, " as the Bee shall
perish if she stings angrily." 1
The vulture, we are told, scents nothing
but carrion, and the Snapping turtle is said
to bite before it leaves the egg, and after it
is dead.
Some people go through the world looking
for faults. It is far wiser, however, to admire
than to criticise, nor is carping really true
criticism. Even if there be a skeleton in the
cupboard, it is probably not the only thing
there. The bones do not make the man.
Criticism may be true, but is it the whole
truth ? It is very interesting to be behind
the scenes, but it is not the best place for
seeing the play. Try to look out for the
good and not the evil, both in people and in
life, and you will see what you look for.
1 King Alfred's trs. of Boethius.
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Always be patient. We know that if chil-
dren are fractious it is in nine cases out of
ten because they are suffering ; and men and
women are but grown-up children in this re-
spect, as in others. In most cases, if we knew
all the circumstances, if we knew what they
were feeling, we should be sorry for, and not
angry with, people who are cross.
If we know that any one is ill, how con-
siderate others become. Nothing is grudged.
Everything is done that can be thought of.
They are spared all possible annoyance or
irritation. But why then only ? How much
better it would be if we were always as kind
and considerate.
We do not know the anxious cares, the
weight of sorrow, the secret sufferings of
others. If then you think you have reason
to complain, make allowances. You need not
be afraid of making too many. Make the best
of everything and everybody.
" De inortuis nil nisi bonum is a good
maxim, but why confine it to the dead?
How is it that for one kind word, one good
deed told of others, we hear so many ill-
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natured stories or unfavourable comments ?
How much better would it be if people
would speak of the living as they do of the
dead.
Do not then condemn others hastily, if at all.
" Judge not ! The workings of his brain
And of his heart thou canst not see ;
What looks to thy dim eyes a stain,
In God's pure light may only be
A scar, brought from some well-won field,
Where thou wouldst only faint and yield." 1
There may be, there certainly will be, occa-
sions on which it is necessary to express dis-
approval ; but as a rule, if it is impossible to
say anything kind and charitable, it is better
to say nothing at all. Sydney Smith is re-
ported to have sent a message to an ac-
quaintance who had been abusing him in his
absence, that he was welcome to kick him
also wheri he was not there. Most of us,
however, would rather be found fault with,
if at all, to our faces, and are especially sen-
sitive to what is said of us when we are not
there to defend ourselves. People may laugh
i A. A. Procter.
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CHARITY 257
and seem amused at having ill-natured things
said about others, but depend upon it they will
draw the natural inference that their turn will
come next, and will like you none the better,
however they may laugh with you at the
moment.
" Then gently scan your brother man,
Still gentler, sister woman,
Though they may gang a kennin' wrang,
To step aside is human.
Then at the balance let's be mute,
We never can adjust it ;
What's done we partly may compute,
But know not what's resisted." l
I must also put in a word also for animals.
Seneca truly observes that " what with hooks,
snares, nets, dogs (and we must now add
guns) we are at war with all living creatures."
It is apparently a necessity of our existence
that we should live to some extent at the ex-
pense of other animals. Since then we owe
them so much, we ought all the more to
avoid inflicting on them any unnecessary suf-
fering.
1 Burns.
258 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
" Never to blend our pleasure or our pride,
With sorrow of the meanest thing that feels." l
And so " if thy heart be right, then will
every creature be to thee a mirror of life, and
a book of holy doctrine." 2
We do not now, most of us, believe that
animals have souls, and yet probably the
majority of manhood from Buddha to Wes-
ley and Kingsley have done so.
Birds indeed have something especially
ethereal. St. Francis, " perfectly sure that
he himself was a spiritual being, thought it
at least possible that birds might be spiritual
beings likewise, incarnate like himself in
mortal flesh ; and saw no degradation to the
dignity of human nature in claiming kindred
lovingly, with creatures so beautiful, so won-
derful, who (as he fancied in his old-fashioned
way) praised God in the forest, even as angels
did in heaven." 3
But however this may be, assuredly ani-
mals should be treated with kindness and
consideration ; it is a crime to inflict on them
any unnecessary suffering.
1 Wordsworth. 2 Thomas h Kempis. 3 Kingsley.
xvi CHARITY 259
Wordsworth calls —
" That best portion of a good man's life,
His little, nameless, unreinembered acts
Of kindness and of love."
" He prayeth well, who loveth well
Both man and bird and beast.
" He prayeth best, who loveth best
All things, both great and small.
For the dear God who loveth us
He made and loveth all." l
Among all his splendid passages, there is
none more magnificent than that in which
Shakespeare tells us that
" The quality of mercy is not strain'd,
It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven
Upon the place beneath : it is twice bless'd ;
It blesseth him that gives and him that takes :
'Tis mightiest in the mightiest : it becomes
The throned monarch better than his crown ;
His sceptre shows the force of temporal power,
The attribute to awe and majesty,
Wherein doth sit the dread and fear of kings ;
But mercy is above this sceptred sway ;
It is enthroned in the hearts of kings,
It is an attribute to God himself ;
And earthly power doth then show likest God's
When mercy seasons justice." 2
1 Coleridge. - Shakespeare.
260 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Charity is too often taken as synonymous
with the giving of alms, and no doubt it is
true, as in the celebrated Greek lines, that
" Strangers and poor men are all sent from Zeus,
And alms, however small, are sweet."
But yet alms-giving is only one form of
charity ; by no means the chief, and one
which, unless judiciously exercised, may do,
and often does, more harm than good.
Much more important is the feeling of
sympathy and affection.
" Teach me to feel another's woe,
To hide the faults I see ;
That mercy I to others show,
That mercy show to me." 1
Forget injuries, but never forget a kindness.
" How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is
To have a thankless child." 2
" How many there are who are unworthy
of the light of day, and yet the sun rises." 3
Those who do not forgive others cannot
expect to be forgiven themselves.
1 Pope. 2 Shakespeare. 3 Seneca.
xvi CHARITY 261
" Suppose yourselves under the apprehen-
sion of approaching death ; that you were
just going to appear, naked and without dis-
guise, before the Judge of all the earth, to
give an account of your behaviour towards
your fellow-creatures : could anything raise
more dreadful apprehensions of that judg-
ment than the reflection that you had been
implacable, and without mercy towards those
who had offended you : without that forgiv-
ing spirit towards others, which, that it may
now be exerted towards yourself, is your
only hope ? And these natural apprehen-
sions are authorised by our Saviour's applica-
tion of the parable : " So likewise shall My
heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from
your heart forgive not every one his brother
their trespasses." l
The divine precept to forgive injuries and
love our enemies, though not altogether ab-
sent from other systems of morality, is yet
especially Christian. The Bible urges it over
and over again. " For if ye forgive men their
trespasses, your heavenly Father will also for-
1 Dr. Butler.
262 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
give you : but if ye forgive not men their tres-
passes, neither will your Father forgive your
trespasses." l
Nay ! forgiveness is not enough. We must
go further.
" I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless
them that curse you, do good to them that
hate you, and pray for them which despite-
fully use you and persecute you; that ye
may be the children of your Father which
is in heaven : for he maketh his sun to rise
on the evil and upon the good, and sendeth
rain on the just and on the unjust." 2
"Charity," says St. Paul,
" Charity suffereth long, and is kind ;
Charity envieth not ;
Charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Doth not behave itself unseemly,
Seeketh not her own,
Is not easily provoked,
Thinketh no evil ;
Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth ;
Beareth all things, believeth all things,
Hopeth all things, endureth all things.
" Charity never faileth : but whether there
1 Dr. Butler. 2 St. Matthew.
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be prophecies, they shall fail ; whether there
be tongues, they shall cease ; whether there be
knowledge, it shall vanish away. . . . Now
abideth faith, hope, charity, these three ; but
the greatest of these is charity."
CHAPTER XVII
CHARACTER
As a mere question of getting on in the
world character and steadiness will do more
for a man than cleverness. I would not
of course base the importance of character
mainly on any such consideration, still it is
none the less true. It is more important to
do right than to know it, and whether we
wish to be good, or to be prosperous and
happy, we should follow exactly the same
course. Golden deeds make golden days.
The worth of a life is to be measured by
its moral value. " Once make up your mind
never to stand waiting and hesitating when
your conscience tells you what you ought to
do, and you have got the key to every bless-
ing that a sinner can reasonably hope for." l
i Keble.
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CHAP, xvii CHARACTER 265
You will never in the long run increase
your happiness by neglecting or evading a
duty. It is as characteristic of the wise man
as of the good one, that
"He holds no parley with unmanly fears ;
Where duty bids, he confidently steers ;
Faces a thousand dangers at her call,
And, trusting in his God, surmounts them all." 1
What is necessary for true success in life ?
But " one thing is needful. Money is not
needful ; power is not needful ; cleverness is
not needful ; fame is not needful ; liberty is
not needful ; even health is not the one thing
needful; but character alone — a thoroughly
cultivated will — is that which can truly save
us ; and, if we are not saved in this sense, we
must certainly be damned." 2
Your character will be what you yourself
choose to make it. We cannot all be poets
or musicians, great artists or men of science,
and " there are many other things of which
thou canst not say, I am not formed for them
by nature. Show those qualities then, which
are altogether in thy power ; sincerity, grav-
1 Wordsworth. - Blackie.
THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
ity, endurance of labour, aversion to luxury,
benevolence, frankness, no love of superfluity,
freedom from trifling, magnanimity. Dost
thou not see how many qualities thou art
immediately able to exhibit, in which there
is no excuse of natural incapacity and unfit-
ness, and yet thou still remainest volunta-
rily below the mark ? or art thou compelled,
through being defectively furnished by nat-
ure, to murmur, and be mean, and to flatter,
and to find fault with thy poor body and to
try to please men, and to make great display,
and to be restless in thy mind ? No, by the
Gods : but thou mightest have been delivered
from these things long ago. Only, if in truth
thou canst be charged with being rather slow
and dull of comprehension, thou must exert
thyself about this also, not neglecting it, nor
yet taking pleasure in thy dulness."
Never do anything of which you will have
cause to be ashamed. There is one good
opinion which is of the greatest importance
to you, namely, your own. " An easy con-
science," says Seneca, " is a continual feast."
1 Marcus Aurelius.
xvn CHARACTER 267
Franklin, to whom we are indebted for
much, good advice, adopted a plan which I
cannot recommend. After a clear and con-
cise summary of the virtues, he says, " My
intention being to acquire the habitude of all
these, I judged it would be well not to dis-
tract my attention by attempting the whole at
once, but to fix it on one of them at a time ;
and when I should be master of that, then to
proceed to another, and so on, till I should
have gone through the thirteen " (Temper-
ance, Silence, Order, Resolution, Frugality,
Industry, Sincerity, Justice, Moderation,
Cleanliness, Tranquillity, Chastity, and Hu-
mility). It seems difficult to imagine that
he can really have acted on this theory; for
" if you take home one of Satan's relations,
the whole family will follow."
How astonished we should be, said Bishop
Wilson, " to hear one, upon giving monies to
a poor body, bid him go to the ale-house and
spend it, go and venture it in gaming, go
and buy yourself some foolish toy ! Why
then should you do that yourself, which you
own you should be laughed at to bid another
do?"
THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Look up and not down. " The man," said
Lord Beaconsfield, " who does not look up,
will look down, and the spirit which does not
dare to soar, is destined perhaps to grovel."
" Oh, who shall lightly say that fame
Is nothing but an empty name !
Whilst in that sound there is a charm
The nerve to brace, the heart to warm,
As, thinking of the mighty dead,
The young from youthful couch will start,
And vow, with lifted hands outspread,
Like them to act a noble part." l
No doubt having regard to the realities
of existence, the ordinary forms of ambition
seem quite beneath our notice, and indeed
our greatest men, Shakespeare and Milton,
Newton and Darwin, have owed nothing to
the honours or titles which Governments can
give. One great drawback of ordinary am-
bition is that it can never be satisfied. As in
the ascent of a mountain, when we reach one
summit we find another before us. The
greatest conquerors, Alexander and Napo-
leon for instance, were never contented. Vic-
1 Joanna Baillie.
xvii CHARACTER 269
tims of misplaced ambition, they could not
" rest and be thankful." " He that is used
to go forward/' says Bacon, and " findeth a
stop, falleth out of his own favour, and is not
the thing he was."
It is, however, going too far to say with
the Poet that
" One crowded hour of glorious life
Is worth an age without a name."
Selfish ambition is like a will o' the wisp, a
glittering deception.
" ?Tis a glorious cheat,
It seeks the chamber of the gifted boy
And lifts his humble window, and comes in.
The narrow walls expand, and spread away
Into a kingly Palace, and the roof
Lifts to the sky, and unseen ringers work
The ceilings with rich blazonry, and write
His name in burning letters over all.
And what is its reward ? At best a name.
Praise — when the ear has grown too dull to hear,
Gold — where the senses it should please are dead,
Wreaths — where the hair they cover has grown gray,
Fame — when the heart it should have thrilled is
numb j
270 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
All things but love, when love is what we want ;
And close behind comes Death, and ere we know
That even these unavailing gifts are ours,
He sends us, stripped and naked, to the grave." 1
What can rank alone do ? Marie de
Medicis, Queen of France, Kegent of France,
mother of the King of France, the Queen of
Spain, the Queen of England, and the Duchess
of Savoy, was deserted by the kings her chil-
dren, who would not even receive her into
their dominions, and died at Cologne in mis-
ery, almost of hunger, after ten years of
persecution.
All crowns are more or less crowns of
thorns. The better and more conscientious
the wearer, the more heavily do the respon-
sibilities of power weigh on him. It is im-
possible not to feel anxious when an error of
judgment may bring misery to thousands.
No doubt with progress, however slow, life
is interesting, without it, almost unendurable.
For
" There are times when all would fain aspire,
And gladly use the helps to raise them higher,
Which Music, Poesy, or Nature brings." 2
IN. P. Willis. 2 Trench.
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Man was meant to grow, not to stand still.
In aspiring, however, be scrupulous about the
means as well as the end. An apparent rise,
if obtained by evil means, is really a fall.
Many of us at any rate cannot stand still ;
we must go forward or die.
How then can we reconcile these two neces-
sities of our nature ? Our ambition should
be to rule ourselves, the true kingdom for
each one of us ; and true progress is to know
more, and be more, and be able to do more.
In this progress there need be no stop ; with
every step it becomes safer, not more hazard-
ous. The first and highest ambition a man
can have is to do his duty.
" No pomp poetic crowned, no forms enchained him,
No friends applauding watched, no foes arraigned
him;
Death found him there, without grandeur or beauty,
Only an honest man, doing his duty." l
It is said that the word " Glory " does not
appear once in the Duke of Wellington's de-
spatches. " Duty " was the watchword of his
life.
1 Mrs. Craik.
272 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Without excluding ambition then, let yours
be that of the Saint and Sage. For
" Vanity herself had better taught
A surer path even to the fame he sought,
By pointing out on History's fruitless page
Ten thousand conquerors for a single sage." 1
A hundred years hence what difference will
it make whether you were rich or poor, a peer
or a peasant ? but what difference may it not
make whether you did what was right or
what was wrong ?
" What we think, or what we know, or
what we believe, is in the end," says Ruskin,
"of little consequence. The only thing of
consequence is what we do."
" But where shall wisdom be found ?
And where is the place of understanding ?
Man knoweth not the price thereof ;
Neither is it found in the land of the living.
The depth saith, It is not in me ;
And the sea saith, It is not with me.
It cannot be gotten for gold,
Neither shall silver be weighed for the price thereof.
"No mention shall be made of coral, or of pearls :
For the price of wisdom is above rubies.
1 Byron.
xvn CHARACTER 273
The fear of the Lord, that is wisdom ;
And to depart from evil is understanding." l
Be honest and truthful. " The first sin on
the earth," says Jean Paul Richter — " happily
the Devil was guilty of it, on the tree of
knowledge — was a lie." Honesty is the
best, as well as the only right, policy.
" A false balance is abomination to the Lord :
But a just weight is his delight." 2
" Truth," said Chaucer, " is the highest
thing a man can keep." Clarendon observes
of Falkland that he was " so severe an adorer
of truth, that he could as easily have given
himself leave to steal, as to dissemble."
" To depart from the truth affords a testi-
mony that one first despises God, and then
fears man." 3
It is well to be ashamed of yourself if you are
in the wrong ; but never be ashamed to own it.
"There are innumerable qualities which
make the man, and fit him for that work in
life which he is meant to do. But there is
one quality which is essential, without which
1 Job. 2 Proverbs. 3 Plutarch.
274 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
a man is not a man, without which no really
great life was ever lived, without which no
really great work was ever achieved — that
is truth, truth in the inward parts. Look at
all the really great and good men. Why do
we call them great and good ? Because they
dare to be true to themselves, they dare to
be what they are." l
" This above all, — To thine own self be true ;
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.'7 2
Two things, said Wordsworth, " contra-
dictory as they may seem, must go together ;
manly dependence, and manly independence ;
manly reliance, and manly self-reliance."
Learn to obey and you will know how to
command. Drill is good discipline both of
mind and body, and a bad soldier will never
make a good general.
" If success attends you
Do not give way to pride."
"Pride goeth before destruction,
And an haughty spirit before a fall."3
We often associate passion with action and
1 Max Mtiller. 2 Shakespeare. 3 Proverbs.
xvn CHARACTER 275
patience with inaction. But this is a mistake.
Patience requires strength, while passion is a
sign of weakness, and want of self-control.
If you are placed in authority, be scrupu-
lously just and courteous. Sadi tells us that
an Oriental monarch once gave an order to
put an innocent person to death. He said,
" 0 king, spare thyself. I shall suffer pain
but for a moment, while the guilt will attach
to thee for ever."
Power brings with it responsibility. But in
any case do not think what you would like to
do, but what you ought to do. This is the
only true road to happiness.
If there is a doubt between two duties, take
the nearest. Some worthy people neglect
their Family for the sake of the Heathen ; but
Sympathy, like Charity, should begin at home.
Everything in this world makes for right-
eousness. Of this we can easily convince our-
selves. We talk of punishment for sin. Who
punishes us ? We punish ourselves. The world
is so arranged that goodness brings joy, and
evil sorrow. To sin and not to suffer, would
involve an interference with the laws of nature.
276 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Forgiveness of sin does not mean that we
shall not be punished. That is not only an
impossibility, but would be a misfortune. In
fact there is no greater misfortune than pros-
perity in evil. If you do what is wrong the
memories of the past will haunt you in the
future. Those you have injured may forgive
you, but in so doing they will heap coals of
fire on your head, for their generosity will
make your offence seem all the blacker.
Conduct is life : in the long run happiness
and prosperity depend upon it. External cir-
cumstances are of comparatively little im-
portance ; it does not so much matter what
surrounds us, as what we are. Watch your-
self then day by day. Habit is second nature.
" Sow an act, and you reap a habit ; sow a
habit, and you reap a character ; sow a char-
acter, and you reap a destiny." We all grow
a little every day, either better or worse. It
is well at night to ask oneself which ?
"Mankind," said Emerson, " divides itself
into two classes — Benefactors and Malefac-
tors." If you belong to the latter you turn
friends into enemies, make memory a pain,
xvn CHARACTER 277
life a sorrow, the world a prison, and death a
terror. While, on the other hand, if you can
put one bright and good thought into the
mind, one happy hour into the life of any one,
you have done the work of a good Angel.
It would be a great thing if every one
would shut himself up for an hour every day
— for one hour — even for half an hour of
peace and meditation. It is impossible to say
there is not time. Sir R. Peel used to read a
chapter of the Bible every night after he came
back from the House of Commons, though I
must admit that the House did not sit as long
in those days as it does now.
Think on what is good and you will not do
what is evil.
"On death and judgment, heaven and hell,
Who oft doth think, must needs die well." l
And great is the reward.
" My son, forget not my law ;
But let thine heart keep my commandments :
For length of days, and long life,
And peace, shall they add to thee." 2
1 Sir W. Raleigh. 2 Proverbs.
278 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Do not put it off. Do not make youth an
excuse. " We shall all be perfectly virtu-
ous," said Marguerite de Valois, " when there
is no longer any flesh on our bones."
" Remember thy Creator in the days of thy
youth." To die as we should wish, we must
live as we ought. To the good man Death
has no terrors. Bishop Thirlwall during his
last illness occupied himself by translating
into seven languages : " As Sleep is the brother
of Death, thou must be careful to commit thy-
self to the care of him who is to awaken thee,
both from the Death of Sleep and from the
Sleep of Death."
When Socrates was before his accusers he
did not speak, says Cicero, "as a man con-
demned to death, but as one ascending into
heaven."
What will you gain, said Seneca, "if you
do your duty bravely and generously ? You
will gain the doing of it — the deed itself is
the gain." We ought to do what is right, not
from hope of the promises, or fear of punish-
ment, but from love of what is good, because
" thy testimonies are the very joy of my
heart."
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CHARACTER 279
Fuller, speaking of Sir Francis Drake, says
he was " chaste in his life, just in his dealings,
true of his word, merciful to those that were
under him, and hating nothing so much as
idleness ; in matters especially of moment, he
was never wont to rely on other men's care,
how trusty or skilful soever they might seem
to be, but always contemning danger and
refusing no toyl, he was wont himself to be
one (who ever was a second) at every turn,
where courage, skill, or industry was to be
employed."
We know that we cannot be perfect, but
yet we should aim at perfection in character
as in everything else. Moreover, we have all
implanted in us a sure guide, and if we follow
Conscience we cannot go far wrong. Every
one who chooses may lead a noble life.
Always then place before yourself the high-
est possible ideal.
" Unless above himself he can
Exalt himself, how poor a thing is man." l
Thus, perhaps, and if at all thus only, can
you train yourself so that, if a man, it may be
1 Vaughan.
280 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP, xvn
eventually said of you as Shakespeare makes
Mark Anthony say of Caesar,
" His life was gentle, and the elements
So mixed in him that Nature might stand up
And say to all the world, This was a man." 1
And if a woman, that you may become
" A perfect woman, nobly planned
To warn, to comfort, and command.
And yet a spirit still and bright
With something of an angel light." 2
Sir W. Scott's last words to Lockhart on his
deathbed were: "Be virtuous — be religious
— be a good man. Nothing else will be any
comfort when you come to lie here."
Even Balaam wished " Let me die the death
of the righteous, and let my last end be like
his."
1 Shakespeare. 2 Wordsworth.
CHAPTER XVIII
ON PEACE AND HAPPINESS
PROSPERITY and happiness do not by any
means always go together, and many people
are miserable though they have, as it would
seem, everything to make them happy. Nat-
ure may give everything she can to "her
darling the strongest," as Professor Huxley
says, but she cannot make him happy. He
must do that for himself. A life of earthly
success is full of perils and anxieties. If a
man has not got the elements of happiness in
himself, not all the beauty and variety, the
pleasures and interests of the world can give
it him. To one man, says Schopenhauer, " the
world is barren, dull, and superficial ; to an-
other rich, interesting, and full of meaning."
Happiness is a thing to be practised, like the
violin. If we take the right means it will
281
282 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
come, but we must not seek it too curiously.
Our greatest joy goes back to Hades, "if
Orpheus like, we turn to look at her." l " Fly
pleasures and they will follow you." 2
Do not think too much of yourself; you
are not the only person in the world.
Do not seek for amusement, says Ruskin,
" but be always ready to be amused." It is
a great thing to make life a succession of
pleasures, even if they are little ones.
The sense of humour, for instance, is a
gift peculiar to man. There is some doubt
whether animals have reason, but they appar-
ently have not the gift of merriment, and
" The most completely lost of all days," said
Chamfort, " is the one in which we have not
laughed." What a pleasure it is to hear a
merry laugh! How it lightens everything
up.
" Your merry heart goes all the way,
Your sad one tires in a mile a'." 8
" Good humour," said one of our Bishops,
"is nine-tenths of Christianity;" and if you
i Dallas. * Frajiklin. 3 Burns.
xvni ON PEACE AND HAPPINESS 283
are put out, " let not the sun go down upon
your wrath." l It takes two to make a quar-
rel, do not you be one of them.
Some people are always grumbling ; if they
had been born in the Garden of Eden, they
would have found much to complain of.
Others are happy anywhere ; they see beau-
ties and blessings all around them.
Cheerfulness is a great moral tonic. As
sunshine brings out the flowers and ripens
the fruit, so does cheerfulness — the feeling
of freedom and life — develop in us all the
seeds of good, — all that is best in us.
Cheerfulness is a duty we owe to others.
There is an old tradition that a cup of gold
is to be found wherever a rainbow touches
the earth, and there are some people whose
smile, the sound of whose voice, whose very
presence, seems like a ray of sunshine, to
turn everything they touch into gold. Men
never break down as long as they can keep
cheerful. " A merry heart is a continual
feast to others besides itself." 2 The shadow
of Florence Nightingale cured more than her
1 Ep. to the Ephesians. 2 C. Buxton.
284 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
medicines; and if we share the burdens of
others, we lighten our own.
It seems to be supposed by some that cheer-
fulness implies thoughtlessness ; there is, how-
ever, no necessary connection between them.
The lightest spirits, says Arnold, " which are
indeed one of the greatest of earthly bless-
ings, often play round the most earnest
thought and the tenderest affection, and with
far more grace than when they are united
with the shallowness and hardness of him
who is, in the sight of God, a fool." 1
There are many whose very birth is a sen-
tence of hard labour for life. But that does
not apply to the poor only. The rich now
work quite as hard, or even harder. More-
over, how many there are whose very money
makes them miserable, — in whose life there
is no rest, no calm, no peace ! We cannot in
this world avoid sufferings, but if we choose
we may rise above them. To do so we must
hang the chamber-walls of our memory with
beautiful pictures and happy recollections.
All wish, but few know how, to enjoy
1 Arnold, Christian Life.
xvin ON PEACE AND HAPPINESS 285
themselves. They do not realise the dignity
and delight of life.
Do not magnify small troubles into great
trials. " What trouble is there in this life/'
says Cicero, "that can appear great to him
who has acquainted himself with eternity and
the extent of the universe ? For what is there
in human knowledge, or the short span of
this life, that can appear great to a wise
man ? whose mind is always so upon its
guard that nothing can befall him which is
unexpected."
We often fancy we are mortally wounded
when we are but scratched. A surgeon, says
Fuller, " sent for to cure a slight wound, sent
off in a great hurry for a plaster. 'Why/
said the gentleman, ' is the hurt then so dan-
gerous ? ' ' No/ said the surgeon, 6 but if the
messenger returns not in post-haste it will
cure itself.' " 1 Time cures sorrow as well as
wounds.
"A cultivated mind, I do not mean that
of a philosopher, but any mind to which the
fountains of knowledge have been opened,
1 Holy and Profane State.
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and which has been taught in any tolerable
degree to exercise its faculties, will find
sources of inexhaustible interest in all that
surrounds it ; in the objects of Nature, the
achievements of Art, the imagination of
Poetry, the incidents of History, the ways
of Mankind, past and present, and their
prospects in the future. It is possible, in-
deed, to become indifferent to all this, and
that too, without having exhausted a thou-
sandth part of it ; but only when one has had
from the beginning no moral or human inter-
est in these things, and has sought in them
only the gratification of curiosity."1
We live in a world of flowers and trees and
grass, rivers and lakes and seas, mountains
and sunshine. Nature is bright to the bright,
comforting to those who will accept com-
fort.
" Still was the sunny morn and fair,
A scented haze was in the air ;
So soft it was, it seemed as spring
Had come once more her arms to fling
About the dying year, and kiss
The lost world into dreams of bliss." 2
i John Stuart Mill. 2 W. Morris.
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But to appreciate the beautiful, we must
have the sense of beauty. We hear much of
the intelligence of the Dog or the Elephant,
but there is no reason to suppose that the
most beautiful view in the world would give
them any pleasure.
We sometimes hear people complain of being
dull, — that they have nothing to do ; but in
that case the dulness is in themselves. " If a
man of education, who has health, eyes, hands,
and leisure, wants an object, it is only because
God Almighty has bestowed all those blessings
upon a man who does not deserve them." l
Neither wealth nor rank will ensure happi-
ness. Without love and charity and peace of
mind, you may be rich and great and power-
ful, but you cannot be happy.
There is a Persian story that the Great King
being out of spirits consulted his astrologers,
and was told that happiness could be found
by wearing the shirt of a perfectly happy man.
The Court and all the prosperous classes in
the world were searched in vain. No such
man could be discovered. At last a labourer
1 Southey.
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coming from his work was found to fulfil the
condition ; he was absolutely happy. But,
alas ! the remedy was as far off as ever. The
man wore no shirt.
I have already shown that, as the wisest of
men have been agreed, happiness cannot be
bought with money, neither can it be grasped
by power. The crowns of kings are lined with
thorns. The greater part of mankind, said
Hiero to Simonides, " are deluded by the splen-
dour of royalty ; I am not at all surprised, for
the multitude appear to me to judge of people
as happy or miserable principally from what
they see. And royalty exhibits to the world
conspicuously, and unfolded fully to the view,
those objects which are esteemed of the highest
value ; while it keeps the troubles of kings
concealed in the inmost recesses of the soul,
where both the happiness and the misery of
mankind reside. For my own part, I know
from experience extremely well, and I assure
you, Simonides, that kings have the smallest
share of the greatest enjoyments, and the
largest share of the greatest of evils."
1 Xenophon.
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If you are unhappy, many will find consola-
tion in Massillon's suggestion, " D'ou vient
cela ? 0 Homme ! ne serait ce point parce que
vous etes ici-bas deplace ; que vous etes fait
pour le ciel ; que la terre n'est pas votre patrie,
et que tout ce qui n'est pour Dieu n'est rien
pour vous."
" But to tell of the varying lights of pleas-
ure, and all the winning ways of goodness, we
are wholly at a loss ; and the most we can say
of the greatest goodness is, that there is an
unknown indescribable charm about it ; the
most we can say of the highest bliss, that it
is unutterable." 1
If we look aright, we may all say with
Dante —
" And what I saw was equal ecstasy ;
One universal smile it seemed of all things ;
Joy past compare; gladness unutterable;
Imperishable life of peace and love ;
Exhaustless riches, and unmeasured bliss."
Everything in Nature is regulated by wise
and beneficent law, everything is linked to-
gether and works for good. If we suffer, it is
1 Bacon.
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either our own fault or for the general welfare.
There is no duty, said Seneca, "the fulfil-
ment of which will not make you happier,
nor any temptation for which there is no
remedy."
According to Cicero, Epicurus laid it down
that there were " three kinds of desires ; the
first, such as were natural and necessary ; the
second, such as were natural but not necessary ;
the third, such as were neither natural nor
necessary. And these are all such that those
which are necessary are satisfied without much
trouble or expense ; even those which are natu-
ral, and not necessary, do not require a great
deal, because nature itself makes the riches,
which are sufficient to content it, easy of acqui-
sition and of limited quantity : but as for vain
desires, it is impossible to find any limit to, or
any moderation in them."
Thoroughly to enjoy life, however, we must
be prepared to deny ourselves, to forego many
tempting pleasures.
We may in many ways gain delight by self-
denial. The senses, full of true delight as
they are, will, if we yield to them, wreck us,
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like the Sirens of old, on the rocks and whirl-
pools of life.
" How happy is he born and taught
That serveth not another's will :
Whose armour is his honest thought,
And simple truth his utmost skill." l
It is one of the misfortunes of our age that
we have so little leisure. We live in a per-
petual Whirl. How many women, and for
that matter men too? have felt with Portia,
" My little body is aweary of this great
world " !
Good work, however, cannot be done in a
hurry ; thought requires time and quiet.
"I know," says Kingsley, "that what we
all want is inward rest ; rest of heart and
brain ; the calm, strong, self-contained, self-
denying character ; which needs no stimu-
lants, for it has no fits of depression ; which
needs no narcotics, for it has no fits of excite-
ment ; which needs no ascetic restraints, for
it is strong enough to use God's gifts with-
out abusing them ; the character, in a word,
which is truly temperate, not in drink or food
1 Wotton.
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merely, but in all desires, thoughts, and
actions : freed from the wild lusts and ambi-
tions to which that old Adam yielded, and
seeking for light and life by means forbid-
den, found thereby disease and death. Yes, I
know that ; and know too that that rest is
found only where you have already found it."
"As Zeus has ordained," says Epictetus,
"so act; if you do not, you will suffer the
penalty, you will be punished. And what is
the punishment ? The not having done your
duty ; you will lose the character of modesty,
fidelity, propriety. Can there be greater pen-
alties than these ? "
" We complain," says Ruskin, " of the
want of many things ; we want votes, we
want liberty, we want amusements, we want
money. Which of us feels or knows that he
wants peace ? There are two ways of getting
it, if you do want it. The first is wholly in
your own power ; to make yourselves nests of
pleasant thoughts. . . . None of us yet know,
for none of us have yet been taught in early
youth what fairy palaces we may build of
beautiful thought — proof against all adver-
xvin ON PEACE AND HAPPINESS 293
sity. Bright fancies, satisfied memories, noble
histories, faithful sayings, treasure-houses of
precious and restful thoughts ; which care
cannot disturb, nor pain make gloomy, nor
poverty take away from us, — houses built
without hands, for our souls to live in."
The last watchword given by the good and
great Emperor Antoninus, when dying, to the
officer of the watch, was " ^Equanimitas."
Nothing ever broke the serenity of Christ's
life.
" Forego desire," says St. Thomas aKempis,
" and thou shalt find peace." We are almost
as much vexed in life by little things, as
grieved by great ones.
" Of all bad things by which Mankind are cursed,
Their own bad temper surely is the worst." 1
Try then so to manage yourself that you
may be able to say with Keble —
" 0 Lord my God, do thou Thy holy will —
I will lie still ;
I will not stir, lest I forsake Thine arm
And break the charm
Which .lulls me, clinging to my Father's breast,
In perfect rest."
1 Cumberland.
294 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
We must not look outside for our happi-
ness, but in ourselves, in our own minds.
" The kingdom of heaven is within you." If
we cannot be happy here, why should we ex-
pect to be so hereafter ? Will Providence watch
over us then more than now ? If we do not
make for ourselves peace on earth, how can
we expect to find it in heaven ? What de-
prives us of it ? Pride and Avarice, Selfish-
ness and Ambition. But for these and their
like, we might be happy here, and with them
we can be happy nowhere. If we are anxious
here lest we should lose what we value, how
much more keenly anxious should we be in
heaven! If we cannot live in peace with
others here, what hope have we of doing so
elsewhere ? If we base our peace and happi-
ness on outward things, and look exclusively
to another world, should we not in a second
life look forward to a third, and so on for ever ?
No doubt as Happiness may be thrice blessed,
in Anticipation, in Fruition, and in Memory,
one pure and great source of happiness may
be in looking forward : in hoping "to meet
again those whom we have loved and lost, to
see clearly much that is now hidden from us.
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Against this source of comfort and of joy,
I have nothing to say, but we must not
undervalue, or be ungrateful for, present
blessings.
So only can you enjoy the calm of Nature —
" The silence that is in the starry sky,
The sleep that is among the lonely hills." 1
Then will angels come to you in your own
homes, as they did to Abraham of old, on the
plains of Mamre, long ago.
It may even be possible that "there are
many new joys unknown to man, and which
he will find along the splendid path of civ-
ilisation." 2
" For then the Soul and Body make a per-
fect Man, when the soul commands wisely,
or rules lovingly, and cares profitably, and
provides plentifully, and conducts charitably
that Body which is its partner and yet the
inferior. But if the Body shall give Laws,
and by the violence of the appetite, first abuse
the Understanding, and then possess the supe-
rior portion of the Will and Choice, the Body
and the Soul are not apt company, and the
1 Wordsworth. 2 Mantezza in Ideals of Life.
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man is a fool and miserable. If the Soul
rules not, it cannot be a companion; either
it must govern, or be a Slave." l
It is our own fault if we do not enjoy life.
" All men," says Ruskin, " may enjoy, though
few can achieve." To keep the mind peace-
ful and happy you must fill it with wise and
noble thoughts. The Divine, says Plato in
Phcedrus, " is beauty, wisdom, goodness, and
the like; by these the wing of the Soul is
nourished, and grows apace, but if fed on
evil, it wastes and withers away."
Make then a wise choice, and
" So take Joy home,
And make a place in thy great heart for her,
And give her time to grow, and cherish her,
Then will she come and oft will sing to thee,
When thou art working in the furrows ; ay,
Or weeding in the sacred hours of dawn.
It is a comely fashion to be glad —
Joy is the grace we say to God." 2
" The best man," said Socrates, "is he who
most tries to perfect himself, and the happiest
man is he who most feels that he is perfecting
himself."
1 Jeremy Taylor. 2 Jean Ingelow.
CHAPTER XIX
RELIGION
IF the Religion of Theology is still a mys-
tery even to the most learned, the Religion of
Duty is plain even to a child.
" The lines of Duty," says Jeremy Taylor,
" are not like the oracles of Apollo, double in
their sense, intricate in their expression, secret
in their meaning, deceitful in their measures,
and otherwise in the event than they could
he in their expectation. But the word of
God, in the lines of duty, is open as the
face of heaven, bright as the moon, healthful
as the sun's influence ; and this is certainly
true, that when a thing becomes obscure,
though it may oblige us to a prudent search,
yet it binds us not under a guilt, but only so
far as it is or may be plainly understood."
"What Locke says of children, will apply
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298 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
indeed to most grown-up people : " Instil into
them a Love and Reverence of this Supreme
Being. This is enough to begin with, with-
out going to explain this matter any further ;
for fear lest by talking too early to him of
Spirits, and being unseasonably forward to
make him understand the incomprehensible
Nature of that Infinite Being, his Head be
either filled with false, or perplexed with un-
intelligible Notions of Him. Let him only be
told upon Occasion, that God made and gov-
erns all things, hears and sees everything,
and does all manner of Good to those that
love and obey Him ; you will find that, being
told of such a God, other Thoughts will be
apt to rise up fast enough in his Mind about
Him, which as you observe them to have any
Mistakes, you must set right. And I think
it would be better if Men generally rested
in such an Idea of God, without being too
curious in their Notions about a being which
all must acknowledge incomprehensible —
whereby many, who have not Strength and
Clearness of Thought to distinguish between
what they can, and what they cannot know,
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run themselves in Superstition or Atheism,
making God like themselves, or (because
they cannot comprehend anything else) none
at all."
Lowell used to quote with especial admira-
tion the saying of Johnson, that " Whatever
withdraws us from the power of our senses,
whatever makes the past, the distant, or the
future predominate over the present, advances
us in the dignity of thinking beings." Relig-
ion is in one sense a matter for the body as
well as for the soul. The body as well as the
mind should be treated with all honour.
Theology and Dogma are the science, but
not the essence, of religion. Religion in daily
life is a rule of conduct, a safeguard in pros-
perity, a comfort in adversity, a support in
anxiety, a refuge in danger, a consolation in
sorrow, a haven of peace.
" Religion," Fichte truly says, " is not a
business by and for itself, which a man may
practise apart from his other occupations,
perhaps on certain fixed days and hours ; but
it is the inmost spirit, that penetrates, in-
spires, and pervades all our Thought and
300 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
Action, which in other respects pursue their
appointed course without change or inter-
ruption."
The Bible does not bewilder us with ab-
struse definitions, but rather turns our
thoughts from such speculations.
"For this commandment," said Moses,
u which I command thee this day, it is not
hidden from thee, neither is it far off : it is
not in heaven, that thou shouldest say, Who
shall go up for us to heaven, and bring it
unto us, that we may hear it, and do it?
Neither is it beyond the sea, that thou
shouldest say, Who shall go over the sea for
us, and bring it unto us, that we may hear
it, and do it ? But the word is very nigh
unto thee, in thy mouth, and in thy heart,
that thou mayest do it." *
" Pure religion," says St. James, " and un-
defiled before God and the Father is this, To
visit the fatherless and widows in their afflic-
tion, and to keep himself unspotted from the
world."
We may not be able to tell whence we
1 Deuteronomy.
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came or whither we go, we may not be sure
what to think or believe, but in our hearts
we almost always know well enough what we
ought to do. The duty to our Neighbour is
part of our duty to God. The mediaeval
brigand, who described himself as " the friend
of God and the enemy of mankind," did not
more entirely mistake the true spirit of
Christianity than many who have less excuse.
The love of God is best shown by the love of
man.
If we are sometimes disposed to complain
of others, we should remember that " if thou
canst not make thyself such an one as thou
wouldest, how canst thou expect to have
another in all respects to thy liking?"1
And even if we have just cause of com-
plaint, we are to forgive, as we hope our-
selves to be forgiven ; not " until seven
times," as Peter suggested, but " until
seventy times seven." 2
On many minds the fear of pain acts more
energetically than the hope of happiness.
There is a quaint old epitaph in Faversham
church which runs as follows : —
1 Thomas a Kempis. 2 St. Matthew.
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"Whosohimbethoft
Inwardly and oft
How hard it were to flit
From Bed unto the Pit ;
From Pit unto pain
That ne'er shall cease again ;
He would not do one sin,
All the world to win."
We must neither neglect the warnings nor
despise the promises. u Yet a little while is
the light with you. Walk while ye have the
light, lest darkness come upon you : for he
that walketh in darkness knoweth not whither
he goeth." l
"Therefore every one that heareth these
sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be
likened unto a foolish man, which built his
house upon the sand : and the rain descended,
and the floods came, and the winds blew, and
beat upon that house ; and it fell : and great
was the fall of it." But, on the other hand,
" Whosoever heareth these sayings of mine,
and doeth them, I will liken unto a wise man,
which built his house upon a rock : and the
rain descended, and the floods came, and the
1 St. John.
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winds blew, and beat upon that house;
and it fell not : for it was founded upon a
rock." 1
And above all, woe to the man who mis-
leads others, and especially the young.
"It is impossible but that offences will
come : but woe unto him through whom the
offence cometh ! It were better for him that
a millstone were hanged about his neck, and
he cast into the sea, than that he should
offend one of these little ones." 2
"For what is a man profited, if he shall
gain the whole world, and lose his own soul ?
or what shall a man give in exchange for his
soul?"3
But yet, however much we have sinned,
passage after passage, promise after promise,
forbid any one to despair.
Christianity is a religion of Hope, rather
than of Fear. We may indeed wisely com-
bine both in our thoughts, as Raleigh sug-
gests —
u Of death and judgment, heaven and hell,
Who oft doth think, must needs do well."
1 St. Matthew. 2 St. Luke. 3 St. Matthew.
304 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
But men can be more easily led than driven ;
example is better than precept. And many
who would scorn all the terrors of the Inquisi-
tion, will feel the truth of Drummond's remark
that " Ten minutes spent in Christ's society
every day, ay, two minutes, if it be face to
face, and heart to heart, will make the whole
life different."
Think on what is good, and you will not do
what is bad. " Whatsoever things are true,
whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever
things are just, whatsoever things are pure,
whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever
things are of good report ; if there be any
virtue, and if there be any praise, think on
these things." 1
"Do not," said Seneca, "ask anything of
God, which you would not wish man to know ;
nor anything of man, which you would not
wish God to know." But when we consider
what ephemeral and infinitesimal beings we
are in the infinities of time and space, we may
well ask with Spencer —
" And is there care in Heaven ? and is there Love ?
In Heavenly Spirits to these creatures base."
1 Philippians.
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Truly does the Psalmist say : " When I con-
sider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers, the
moon and the stars, which thou hast ordained ;
What is man, that thou art mindful of him ?
or the son of man, that thou visitest him ? "
But there is comfort in Coleridge's answer
that
" Saints will aid, if men will call,
For the blue sky bends over all."
Are we not promised, " Ask, and it shall be
given you ; seek, and ye shall find ; knock,
and it shall be opened unto you " ?*
And again: " Whatsoever ye shall ask in
my name, that will I do." "If ye abide in
me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask
what ye will, and it shall be done unto you." 3
We are told also that to God " all hearts are
open, all desires known " ; that He despiseth
not the sighing of a contrite heart, nor the
desires of such as are sorrowful ; that you
may "cast all your cares upon him; for he
careth for you." 4
We must not indeed look to aid from above
as any excuse for our own idleness, but yet we
1 St. Matthew. 2 St. John. 3 Ibid. 4 1 Peter.
306 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
are not only assured of help, but told that
" Except the Lord build the house, their labour
is but lost that build it : except the Lord keep
the city, the watchman waketh but in vain."
That " every good gift and every perfect gift
is from above, and cometh down from the
Father of lights, with whom is no variable-
ness, neither shadow of turning." l
Christianity does not call on us to sacrifice
this world in order to secure the next. On
the contrary, " to love that which is com-
manded and desire that which is promised"
would add to our happiness here as well as
hereafter. There is no real difference between
worldly and heavenly wisdom. For religion
consecrates daily life.
" We need not bid, for cloistered cell,
Our neighbour and our work farewell :
The trivial round, the common task,
May furnish all we ought to ask, —
Room to deny ourselves, a road
To bring us, daily, nearer God." 2
" I pray not," said Jesus of His disciples,
" that thou shouldest take them out of the
*
1 St. James. '2 Keble.
xix RELIGION 307
world, but that thou shouldest keep them
from the evil."
There are noble sentiments in Plato and
Aristotle, and Epictetus, in Seneca and Mar-
cus Aurelius, but there is no such Gospel of
Love as that in the New Testament.
Truly said Jesus that His was a new re-
ligion. " A new commandment I give unto
you, That ye love one another ; as I have
loved you, that ye also love one another. By
this shall all men know that ye are my dis-
ciples, if ye have love one to another." 2
And again : " These things have I spoken
unto you, that my joy might remain in you,
and that your joy might be full. This is my
commandment, That ye love one another, as I
have loved you. Greater love hath no man
than this, that a man lay down his life for his
friends. Ye are my friends, if ye do whatso-
ever I command you. Henceforth I call you
not servants; for the servant knoweth not
what his lord doeth : but I have called you
friends ; for all things that I have heard of
my Father I have made known unto you."3
i St. John. 2 St. John.
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The advent of Christianity was announced
as " Glory to God in the highest, and on earth
peace, good will toward men." 1
Jesus specially contrasted it with the teach-
ing of Moses, as enjoining repeated forgive-
ness, and love even to enemies.
"Ye have heard that it hath been said,
Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine
enemy : but I say unto you, Love your ene-
mies, bless them that curse you, do good to
them that hate you, and pray for them which
despitefully use you, and persecute you ; that
ye may be the children of your Father which
is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on
the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on
the just and on the unjust. For if ye love
them which love you, what reward have ye ?
do not even the publicans the same ? And
if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye
more than others ? do not even the publicans
so? Be ye therefore perfect, even as your
Father which is in heaven is perfect."2
We must expect trouble and sorrow and
anxiety, but we may " glory in tribulations
1 St. Luke. '2 St. Matthew.
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also : knowing that tribulation worketh pa-
tience ; and patience, experience ; and experi-
ence, hope." * And we are assured that "the
sufferings of this present time are not worthy
to be compared with the glory which shall be
revealed in us:"2 that "eye hath not seen,
nor ear heard, neither have entered into the
heart of man, the things which God hath pre-
pared for them that love him." 3
" In the place of all other delights," says
Epictetus, " substitute this, that of being con-
scious that you are obeying God ; and that,
not in word but in deed you are performing
the acts of a wise and good man." And yet
how little men will do for their religion !
They will " wrangle about it, dispute about it,
call names, worry their neighbours and burn
them ; fight for religion, and lay down their
lives for it ; indeed do anything but live up to
it. Very few even try to do that." 4
" For a small payment," says Thomas a
Kempis, " a long journey will be undertaken ;
for everlasting life many will scarce once lift
a foot from the ground." And in another
1 Romans. 2 Ibid. 3 1 Corinthians. 4 Friswell.
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place : " Write, read, mourn, keep silence,
pray, suffer crosses manfully ; life everlasting
is worthy of all these, yea, and of greater
combats." And yet how little is demanded
of us ! " For what doth the Lord require of
thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and
to walk humbly with thy God ? " 1
But even if much more were expected of
us, if great sacrifices were demanded, if we
were called on to give up everything in this
world, how short life is !
u As shadows cast by cloud and sun
Flit o'er the summer grass,
So, in thy sight, Almighty One,
Earth's generations pass ;
And as the years, an endless host,
Come swiftly pressing on,
The brightest names that earth can boast
Just glisten and are gone." 2
We must of course ask in a right spirit.
" Still will I strive to be,
As if thou wast with me :
Whatever path I take,
It shall be for thy sake." 3
Such a spirit is its own reward. For the
promises of religion are not confined to the
1 Micah. * Bryant. 3 Thoreau.
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next world. They begin here, now, and at
once. Each one of us possesses a well of
living water in his own soul, if he will only
keep it pure —
" Some feelings are to mortals given
With less of earth in them than heaven." 1
Cicero very truly says : " If it be true that
no one except a good man is happy, and that
all good men are happy, then what deserves
to be cultivated more than philosophy, or
what is more divine than virtue ? "
It seems difficult to believe, though it is
no doubt substantially true, that men are not
tempted beyond endurance, but that " God is
faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted
above that you are able ; but will with the
temptation also make a way to escape, that
ye may be able to bear it." 2
Yet so weak is man that we are also told
to " Watch and pray, that ye enter not into
temptation : the spirit truly is willing, but
the flesh is weak." 3
"We must aim at perfection. " Be ye per-
fect, even as your Father which is in heaven
1 Scott. 2 Corinthians. 3 gt. Matthew.
312 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
is perfect." And the reward is immediate,
as well as immeasurable. Most of our
troubles arise in ourselves. " Man disquiet-
eth himself in a vain shadow." We can
most of us say with Daniel, " The visions of
my head troubled me." Yet if we would,
we might be at peace : it is our own fault if
we are not. Religion promises us rest and
safety, peace of mind and freedom from care,
even in this world. Heaven is not merely in
the futurity and distance : heaven is within
you.
If you are tired and overworn, are you not
invited, "Come unto me, all ye that labour
and are heavy laden, and I will give you
rest " ? l " Let not your heart be troubled :
ye believe in God, believe also in me." 2 To
be distressed by doubt is to be wanting in
faith.
We have been told that we have no real
cause for fear : " For though I walk through
the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear
no evil : for thou art with me ; thy rod and
thy staff comfort me." Nor for anxiety.
i St. Matthew. 2 St. John.
xix RELIGION 313
" Behold the fowls of the air : for they sow
not, neither do they reap, nor gather into
barns; }^et your heavenly Father feedeth
them. Are ye not much better than they ?
. . . And why take ye thought for raiment?
Consider the lilies of the field, how they
grow : they toil not, neither do they spin :
and yet I say unto you, That even Solomon
in all his glory was not arrayed like one of
these. Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass
of the field, which to-day is, and to-morrow is
cast into the oven, shall he not much more
clothe you, 0 ye of little faith ?" l
" Seek not ye what ye shall eat, or what ye
shall drink. . . . For all these things do the
nations of the world seek after : and your
Father knoweth that ye have need of these
things. But seek ye the kingdom of God ;
and all these things shall be added unto
you."2
The same lesson is inculcated, the same
promises are made, over and over again.
"Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon
earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt.
1 St. Matthew. 2 St. Luke.
314 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP.
and where thieves break through and steal :
but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven,
where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt,
and where thieves do not break through nor
steal : for where your treasure is, there will
your heart be also." And again: "If
riches increase, set not your heart upon
them." Riches, in fact, and not poverty, are
a real cause for some anxiety. " How hard is
it for them that trust in riches to enter into
the kingdom of heaven."
Those to whom Heaven is promised in the
Sermon on the Mount, are the merciful, the
meek, the peacemakers, the pure in heart.
We are told not to fear God : that He is
our Father, and perfect love casteth out
fear.
We need not fear man. " In God have I
put my trust ; I will not be afraid what man
can do unto me."
Indeed nothing will injure us. " All things
work together for good to them that love
God."2
We are assured that throughout all the
1 Psalms. 2 St. Paul.
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RELIGION 315
troubles and anxieties and difficulties of life,
" the peace of God, which passeth all under-
standing, shall keep your hearts and minds
in the knowledge and love of God," and the
blessing of God will be with you and remain
with you always.
And these promises are made to us all.
Not merely to the rich, and great, and clever,
and learned, but to us all, for " God is no re-
specter of persons." 1
" Suffer little children to come unto me,
and forbid them not ; for of such is the king-
dom of heaven."*2
We alone can deprive ourselves of these
advantages.
" For I am persuaded, that neither death,
nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor
powers, nor things present, nor things to
come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other
creature, shall be able to separate us from
the love of God, which is in Jesus Christ our
Lord." 3
Thus, and thus only, will life be bright,
peaceful, and happy.
1 Romans. ~ St. Mark. 3 Romans.
316 THE USE OF LIFE CHAP, xix
"Keep innocency, and take heed unto the thing that
is right,
For this alone shall bring a man peace at the last."
And so may you hope 'to be among those
" whose names are written in the Book of
Life."
So may you hope to be happy whatever
your lot in life may be, and wherever it is
cast, for
" All places that the eye of Heaven visits
Are to the wise man ports and happy havens."
Be good, in the noble words of Kingsley —
" And let who will be clever,
Do noble things — not dream them all day long,
And so make Life, Death, and the vast forever
One grand, sweet song."
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